What makes a provider stand out to you?

[zoejj]

What things does your favorite provider do that really makes her stand out to you, both sexually and non-sexually?

I try to be very personable and develop a connection with the men I meet, the sessions end up being a lot more passionate!

[Ipfreely]

Long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days.

[mochamagicman2]

A connection develops due to chemistry mainly. Both people genuinely like being with each other physically. Getting to know someone over time and they get better at doing the things you like. For me... sex appeal, iop, foreplay, sexy lingerie, g-strings/thongs, passionate dfk, sometimes sensual, sometimes extra slutty, treating each other like decent people, a genuine interest in each other as people... being on time, excellent hygiene... a hobby friendship that builds..

I know a little wordy but just my 2 cents!

[Rjones21]

Eye Contact, a Smile, Genuine interest and inquiry into what turns me on

most of all a sense that she is enjoying the session as much as i am.

i'm a bit different than most i suspect as the fake moans, crude language and over the top acting are a big turn off to me.

[richard fitzwell]

Conversation prior to the event that initiated by the guy. Actually find out what he like to drink, different kinks/fetishes that tickle his fancy, don't treat the encounter like its P4P; treat it like you want it just as much as he does. Treat him like you would want to be treated.

[DocHoliday]

Impeccable TCB.

[pyro]

Clown Shoes...

[Captain.Classic]

Corny as it may sound, her personality. If she has a good sense of humor during the session and can balance being sexy with, say, being a little goofy, then that'll win me over. I'd much prefer that over a provider who doesn't appear to have any personality or is a "dead fish" because she's business-minded. I like spending time with girls I think I wouldn't mind hanging out with in the RW if we met under other circumstances (even though many of my favorites would've NEVER noticed me in the RW lol, God bless the hobby).

[HoustonDan]

Adding to a few of the things already said here, I am always looking for someone with a great personality who is happy to service my needs.

If you want to blow my mind, be in lingerie or a tiny bikini when I knock on the door. I’ve had providers show up to the door in scrubs or jeans and a T-shirt. I’ve been thinking about our meeting and am hoping it goes well. Seeing you in a sexy outfit when I arrive gets me going in a great direction.

Also, passionate kissing and willingness to let me go several times. I’m usually good for two pops in a session, but when I get to DFK and play with your body I’m able to go three or four times. It makes the session amazing for me.

Finally, it makes me cum hard when I know (or believe) you’re cumming too. It’s a mutual pleasure thing for me. I really enjoy seeing a provider pleasured. Let me know how I can help you between my pops.

Those are a few things that help me. Honestly, I’ve fucked porn stars and paid high dollars for the “privilege” and it was a terrible session because it was robotic or they were too high. Yet some of the best sessions have been with solid, everyday providers who I connect with personally. Bring yourself and your beautiful personality and it makes it better for both of us.

[Onelastime]

The last guy said it best bring your personality to the game, shut your phone off, act like you want to be there, if all of those things happen and add a little chemistry generous gents like myself will be back for more over and over. I’ve learned certain lessons in this game over the years stay away from porn stars leave that fantasy to the internet and stay away from the fly by night girls “touring” that you may never see again, stick with the locals girls you develop a connection that bring no drama. Oh and don’t show up like you just rolled out of bed, try a little bit to match your pics lol.
All of that makes the perfect provider

[Kammye]

corny as it may sound, her personality. If she has a good sense of humor during the session and can balance being sexy with, say, being a little goofy, then that'll win me over. I'd much prefer that over a provider who doesn't appear to have any personality or is a "dead fish" because she's business-minded. I like spending time with girls i think i wouldn't mind hanging out with in the rw if we met under other circumstances (even though many of my favorites would've never noticed me in the rw lol, god bless the hobby).

i agree 100%.