Well, goddamnit...

[Sweetsuzanna8]

This not an insult. Its just a suggestion i learned from experience. Ignore him completely. The more he gets you mad and fired up, the more he will harass you. If you just ignore him, his game wont be fun any fun anymore. This is true of all bullies and narcissist. When they no longer get the attention they move on to another way to get their jollies

[Guest 121219-1]

This not an insult. Its just a suggestion i learned from experience. Ignore him completely. The more he gets you mad and fired up, the more he will harass you. If you just ignore him, his game wont be fun any fun anymore. This is true of all bullies and narcissist. When they no longer get the attention they move on to another way to get their jollies

Once the Cone of Silence is imposed, he will no longer be allowed to comment on my posts. This ain't ECCIE. They won't allow this shit to continue.

This is MEXMEX50/LUBEMAN/LILPP on ECCIE, BTW. Just so you know. Go read some of his posts there, and then you will understand.

And until you have been personally attacked, called Betty White and all the other BS this creep has done to me, then I don't think you can put yourself in my shoes. He went on EVERY review I had, and posted negative comments. So I am standing up for myself. I understand what you are saying, but it doesn't work with dudes like this. Imagine that every post you make, you have a cyberstalker negating it.

But wait...you don't have this experience. So you can't fully grasp what has happened to me for a solid year from three cyberstalkers. Nonstop.

[Universal]

Stand Firm
Be prepared to stand your ground when a bully tries to mess with you. If they humiliate you in front of others, turn the situation back toward him with an honest defense. Don’t be silent, or you will be perceived as weak. However, you should avoid the urge to criticize the bully in public, or you may be seen as the one doing the bullying.

Some bullies simply enjoy hearing themselves talk when there is a large audience. When there is no defense, sit back and allow the bully to make a fool of themself because that is exactly what they're doing when they go on a rant.
Gentle Hugs

[Guest 121219-1]

Stand Firm
Be prepared to stand your ground when a bully tries to mess with you. If they humiliate you in front of others, turn the situation back toward him with an honest defense. Don’t be silent, or you will be perceived as weak. However, you should avoid the urge to criticize the bully in public, or you may be seen as the one doing the bullying.

Some bullies simply enjoy hearing themselves talk when there is a large audience. When there is no defense, sit back and allow the bully to make a fool of themself because that is exactly what they're doing when they go on a rant.
Gentle Hugs

I have a defense. This guy has cyberstalked me for a year, and I'm prepared to provide the mods with links for days. I will not back down from this stalker. And if this guy feels bullied, then I wonder how he likes the taste of his own medicine.

Thank you for your supportive words, lovely. It's nice to see that another companion "gets it" and is in my corner. If they're not, I wish they would just slink away and go be "drama free" in their own little worlds.

[Fancyinheels]

Thread CLOSED. Staff action pending.
-- FIH