Originally Posted by
Vanessa
TO the GROUP: DO you ever just read posts sometimes and think, WTF did that person start this thread? WOW.
To GYMJUNK: Though the other ladies seem to have made all the right points from the ladies' view, you don't seem to be grasping them and just spewing venom.
The most amusing thing about this is that you, IN THIS POST, proved exactly what the lady accused you of being, entitled and presumptuous. That chick is a fucking savant.
But here are a few general notes:
Many if not most ladies will cease communication once they decide not to see you. Why? Because 9/10 the guys get the point and move on. And about 5 of those guys would have taken more offense about being told WHY than they do by being blown off. So why risk it? It's better for ladies to deal with the one guy who presses the issue. You seem to fit into both the "go crazy for being ignored" AND the "get pissed off when told you're not a match" groups - congratulations, that make you extra special.
The ONLY right answer when any lady tells you this (paid or unpaid) is "thank you for letting me know, take care"
SO, perhaps she ignored you because she wasn't interested for whatever reason. OR, perhaps she was busy and you texting her EVERYDAY made her come to the conclusions that because you seemed to feel entitled to get an answer on your time frame, not hers AND that because you made the comment" did you disappear on me?" you presumed that her lack of response had ANYTHING - SOMETHING or EVERYTHING to do with you, when it probably had NOTHING to do with you. Until you made it that way.
So, here is the answer I suppose she should have sent since your reading comprehension and discernment skills are a bit lacking.
"No, I didn't disappear, sometimes these things take time and I have been busy with some other things. Because you seem like you expect me to follow your time frame rather than mine and you make presumptions that my silence was ignoring you specifically, I am going to have to conclude that I don't think we are a good match. I wish you well and good luck in your search."
I mean really? You really need to have it spelled out like that? My G-d I used to work with a couple totally literal and quite needy people like you. I hope you're self-employed.
