Negotiating

[AlCar0314]

Is it rude or just part of the game?

[Daniel Larusso]

We can get up to speed on this one real quick dude...

Ladies: Rude
Men: Part of the game

[Mdasterdly]

Hopefully Passion will reply with insight and wisdom here.

[Daniel Larusso]

He doesn't do wisdom and insight. Only basking in his glory and negative comments on reviews.

[Utrhottie]

It's all about your approach

[NaughtyNaomi]

It's all about your approach

I was just about to say this.

[Jefferson Starfish]

I negotiate all of the time in my RW endeavors.

One of my favorite rhetorical devices to throw in at nut-cutting time is - "What's a hundred percent of zero?". The answer, of course, is zero. That one has worked very well for Ol' JS. IJS.

Peace, Love, and #BHILF

JS

[F117]

Gentlemen don't negotiate or haggle. You have to make a calculated decision if the provider is worth what she is asking based on all the information you know on her.

OBTW, how many hobbyists calculate in a 15% tip? If you give the server at a restaurant that as a minimum, why would you not give it to an exemplary provider who just rocked your world?

Just sayin'....

[Osmand]

+1

We can get up to speed on this one real quick dude...

Ladies: Rude
Men: Part of the game

[britttany_love]

It's all about your approach

I agree. If done so respectfully.

[Daniel Larusso]

Gentlemen don't negotiate or haggle. You have to make a calculated decision if the provider is worth what she is asking based on all the information you know on her.

OBTW, how many hobbyists calculate in a 15% tip? If you give the server at a restaurant that as a minimum, why would you not give it to an exemplary provider who just rocked your world?

Just sayin'....

A waiter at a restaurant doesn’t make $300 an hour.

[mathguy]

It's all about your approach

I was just about to say this.

Couldn't agree more. Not always the best thing to do, depending on the situation, who you are dealing with, what they are or are not going through, etc... but it does depend on your approach. Totally. It's like I said about the other stuff in another thread before, such as when it comes to intimacy, what's okay, what's not, being a good lover, taking her cues, listening to her, feeling her, and understanding what that body language (verbalization or not) means. It's an art form. The more you do it and the more you practice, the better you will be at it. Same for this stuff too.

However, if you are a misogynist, have chauvinist tendencies, or are just an asshole, nothing in this world is going to fix that until you take the time to fix yourself. That will do a TON more for ALL your romantic encounters (hobby and private life) and in fact ALL of your interactions with people everywhere....period.

[Austin Ellen]

Great advice Mathguy! Hopefully, people will take it too.

Couldn't agree more. Not always the best thing to do, depending on the situation, who you are dealing with, what they are or are not going through, etc... but it does depend on your approach. Totally. It's like I said about the other stuff in another thread before, such as when it comes to intimacy, what's okay, what's not, being a good lover, taking her cues, listening to her, feeling her, and understanding what that body language (verbalization or not) means. It's an art form. The more you do it and the more you practice, the better you will be at it. Same for this stuff too.

However, if you are a misogynist, have chauvinist tendencies, or are just an asshole, nothing in this world is going to fix that until you take the time to fix yourself. That will do a TON more for ALL your romantic encounters (hobby and private life) and in fact ALL of your interactions with people everywhere....period.

[killeeninformer2]

So in public this is a silly thread to make because any girl with a bit of business acumen will not respond publicly going "negotiate with me!" because every dude will do so. Unless their business is really slumping. It also is going to invite attack by various white knights.

However I would be very surprised if the OP had not already received a PM from a few girls who do say they'd be willing to negotiate. That's likely what he was going for.

Negotiating absolutely happens. I don't engage in it often because I do this hobby to relax which haggling would not help. But if a girl already has a room and isn't going to be doing anything for a 2 hour stretch a large amount of girls will take Starfish's offer up there. After all even a lower donation is better than the nothing they would get in that time slot.

[AlCar0314]

So in public this is a silly thread to make because any girl with a bit of business acumen will not respond publicly going "negotiate with me!" because every dude will do so. Unless their business is really slumping. It also is going to invite attack by various white knights.

However I would be very surprised if the OP had not already received a PM from a few girls who do say they'd be willing to negotiate. That's likely what he was going for.

Negotiating absolutely happens. I don't engage in it often because I do this hobby to relax which haggling would not help. But if a girl already has a room and isn't going to be doing anything for a 2 hour stretch a large amount of girls will take Starfish's offer up there. After all even a lower donation is better than the nothing they would get in that time slot.

My intent was just curiosity. I did not get any PMs, nor am I seeking them.

I pay the asking price every time, but I don’t hobby that much.

I just think that if I negotiate, then it sets a bad tone and she’s just going to want to rush me out the door.