Guys shoot your shot, ladies let them know what you are looking for....

[StopShort]

I didn't think about this on the other post I responded to but...

I'd rather date a provider. Just for the simple fact that I won't have to lie about this part of my life that I've never told ANYONE about...not even my best friend.

[Austin Ellen]

Yes, it's all about the honesty with your partner. My partner still likes to hobby and I still like sex with others. We don't have to hide from each other and that's called - freedom. And I love it!
Great post.

I didn't think about this on the other post I responded to but...

I'd rather date a provider. Just for the simple fact that I won't have to lie about this part of my life that I've never told ANYONE about...not even my best friend.

[Gramster]

Im gay.

[Fallout4]

Ever consider dating someone in the adult industry? I read a few articles where they talk about how female pornstars want nothing to do with them relationship wise and feel alone. So even though they get to sleep with all these hot women they still crave a real emotional connection with someone.

Since both of you would be in the sex biz there should be that mutual understanding.

I would be ok with the wait period for intimacy just like a regular relationship. The emotional investment/ connection always makes the sex that much more meaningful and pleasurable.

I could see myself dating a provider but there would definitely have to be some rules in place and be ok with me still playing in the hobby as long as she’s working in the hobby. When she stops I’ll stop.

We’re all human here, we all want someone we can unload our day on, someone that can comfort us, or share special moments with.

[Bosko]

I'm all of that but you didn't give me a chance.....I was in the area..for some reason when you didn't answere I called https://home.ourhome2.net and she answered.../vb/member.php?65307-ExoticBowz she answered and after we met she said some phone report was screwy with me and people were talking bad about me...I said no wonder..the only people who have met me are Trixxie, Cameron, Chelsea p, genevieve lust, Amberstaxx, prettyamy, exoticbowz now...and they all think I'm I good guy....wish you would have given it a chance.

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Most girls are flaky, correct?

[Anna Nikkole]

I'm all of that but you didn't give me a chance.....I was in the area..for some reason when you didn't answere I called https://home.ourhome2.net and she answered.../vb/member.php?65307-ExoticBowz she answered and after we met she said some phone report was screwy with me and people were talking bad about me...I said no wonder..the only people who have met me are Trixxie, Cameron, Chelsea p, genevieve lust, Amberstaxx, prettyamy, exoticbowz now...and they all think I'm I good guy....wish you would have given it a chance.

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Most girls are flaky, correct?

I wasn't available. I tried to call and see if you needed a listening ear after 3 pm's and a few text and I'm just now seeing this. I'm a provider, I work when I want. I'm not at anyone's beck and call. I would give you an appointment when we are both available, but this thread isn't for that. I'll see you in the near future!!!

[Bosko]

Got it, when I said I was going to be going to the area, you pm ed me and said to give you a call Absolutely...so I did, ....I dont travel that way often, and I did let you know when I was going to be there, so I had the wrong impression...but ok.

[Fancyinheels]

Let's get back on the original topic of dating (not appointments) as Hobby participants, please, or this topic may close and/or infractions may be issued for hijacking.

No more business talk in this thread, okie dokie? Many thanks for cooperation. Carry on. -- FIH/staff

[Bosko]

True.

[Anna Nikkole]

Ever consider dating someone in the adult industry? I read a few articles where they talk about how female pornstars want nothing to do with them relationship wise and feel alone. So even though they get to sleep with all these hot women they still crave a real emotional connection with someone.

Since both of you would be in the sex biz there should be that mutual understanding.

I would be ok with the wait period for intimacy just like a regular relationship. The emotional investment/ connection always makes the sex that much more meaningful and pleasurable.

I could see myself dating a provider but there would definitely have to be some rules in place and be ok with me still playing in the hobby as long as she’s working in the hobby. When she stops I’ll stop.

We’re all human here, we all want someone we can unload our day on, someone that can comfort us, or share special moments with.

I can definitely understand. The need for emotional intimacy is so real. But as the years have gone by I'm ok being single. I know what I have to offer. I'm a kick ass provider and a great person. I do however think about old age and the "what if's". I don't want to be 70 and alone, who does? My thoughts have moved to my future as I am aging. I'll never regret being a provider and the wonderful people I get to meet, this is the most lucrative business for sure! Alone 3 years now, and I'm loving myself if nobody else wants to

But sleeping next to someone"familiar" would be amazing. Waking up next to someone for sure amazing. Until then I'll enjoy all of the great sessions and fabulous men I meet!!!

[Bosko]

I hit 55 and have fought the same things, if I could be a provider that would be a nice twist, I have made many friends in my life, many of who I was able to see them to their next lives so they wouldnt be alone as well.i didn't mean to aggravate any situation..at times I feel as if I need to spend time alone as I never really have...my longest relationship,25 years and others for 10 or more...I was pulled into this hobbyist crap by accident, my curiosity surfaced from neglect, unsure about myself, going from a sexual need to no more than needing affection at times, so I get it...even when BBW or other things were not my thing, I felt I needed touch... we are going to get old, keeping our health, and happiness is surely important as well. I'm still figuring out what to do.

[Anna Nikkole]

I had 3 gentlemen reach out to me. One I've been talking to for a few weeks. Not to shabby

[Bosko]

Not shabby at all! Good for you! Wish you all the best!

[Dorthy Monroe]

Some tards just don’t realize they make themselves look unstable !

[Italia DiBella]

Anna,
Great thread!
Ignore the naysayers, they don't make the hobby rules.
Just because it will never happen with them doesn't mean you're wrong.

Yes, it does happen
What better place to know someone,
no secrets, no hiding.

I'll just say, yes, it's possible and has happened.

*Riddle me this*...
Some of you old timers must have forgotten about my Thread I posted on ASPD lol
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Edit: Still thinking about what I'm looking for lol