FBSM

[Guest 101723-1]

Ugh this is exactly what it is! I just imagine myself walking into a room and things that would relax me. Then I give it all to the gentleman.

If you hobby and don’t have a go to FBSM/NURU or both massage specialist then you’re really missing out. When your feeling drained and not in the mood for a FS experience, FBSM is the way to go. She must use high quality oils as you can really tell the difference on your body if you’re into good hygiene and skin care. The lovely JessieJane asked us to present our ideal FBSM experience so here’s mine:

She has to have many candles lit with an alluring sweet scent and the dimly lit room to set the mood, maybe with some soft music. I prefer her to be fully dressed in something tight revealing her curves smelling great as this is a precursor of the many good things to come. Some LK with mutual caressing and rubbing while we both undress to get a bit more comfortable is a good way to start things off. At this point she should be in her lingerie and I’ll be on the table naked waiting for the massage with the warm oil. If she has them a few hot stones on my back to start relieving tension and help me relax. A nice neck massage with a strong deep tissue massage working my upper and lower back with the warm oil feels great. At that point her bra comes off and I can feel the heat of her breasts hovering over my back and thats a major turn on. A nice thorough ass massage with hot oil is great along with that tender touch over the anal area and a massaging prostate rub. A strong back leg rub with some inner leg teasing as she works her way up and down from my feet to my prostate area.

Now for the good part the front side. As I flip over I like a strong thorough chest massage all the way down to my stomach area and on my arms. Now her undies come off as she’s working her way to below the belt line. Before she gets to the happy ending I like a nice leg rub down with my feet included because that feels really good. I think all FBSMS should come with a HJ at least and possible BBBJ if she’s into that unless stated otherwise. Before she gets to the HJ I like light inner thigh teasing/tickling with the warm oil as it really gets my prostate area tingling. As she proceeds with the HJ there’s MT of me rubbing her area as we’re both very turned on at this point. A warm oil HJ with light edging and thorough prostate play is heaven on earth from nice soft hands. In this moment I’m absorbed by the pleasure and the thought of bills, work, obligations and time disappears for just a few much need moments. Finally comes the sloppy passionate BBBJ and prostate play till I’m throbbing just a tad bit and a HJ to complete. Now ladies that is how you end up with semen on your ceiling lol. The FBSM is the way you truly get taken care of as a man and refreshed to get back out there in the world on the daily grind.

This a bit longer of a post but you can’t explain a 5 star FBSM session in a few short words.

[CMR23]

Thanks Jessie and Cherri.

Looks like I'll have to visit with you two lovely ladies during my Houston trip this Fall.

[JessieJane]

Thanks Jessie and Cherri.

Looks like I'll have to visit with you two lovely ladies during my Houston trip this Fall.

Sounds great you also wont go wrong with Cherri she is smoking hot!

[cutngrass]

Having a FBSM from one an independent provider is different than going into an AMP. AMP are like getting on ride at Disney land. Independent providers are on a whole different level, and the experience can leave your body and mind in a euphoric state for hours after the session....even days.

I prefer independent providers. And also, if you click with the person, the sessions can be an experience that lasts a lifetime.

KEY POINTS - Below are the things if consider " must haves " in order to ensure a successful FBSM.

Both parties need to be in a positive frame of mind and want to both give and receive pleasure.

Setting the mood - lighting, music, nature sounds, aroma's, real massage table, all are important. Bottom line, there must be some kind of attempt to create a relaxed atmosphere.

Time should not be a factor. - I don't believe it's possible to receive a FBSM in half an hour. If both parties are into the session, they will know when the session is coming to an end. The session should never ever feel rushed. Nor should it feel like it is being dragged out…..

Clean – Prefer if both parties shower before, so that all the little tiny spaces and crevices are super clean.

While boundaries are very important and should ALWAYS be respected – I find the best FBSM are when the session is created organically while it is happening. It’s easy to tell where you are allowed to go and where you can’t go, just by reading the persons body language.

MUTUAL, MUTUAL, MUTUAL - Both parties must me into the session, not just one giving and the other receiving.

After the session – the clean up is very important, If a shower is not available, there should be plenty of clean up stuff so that no body smells like they just had a FBSM. Very important.
Just my 2 cents..


I would be happy to $pay for and demonstrate my massage abilities and techniques and bring extra massage oil to share if there are any takers....... PM's only.
On a side note – This weather is amazing ! enjoy and smile…..

[JessieJane]

Having a FBSM from one an independent provider is different than going into an AMP. AMP are like getting on ride at Disney land. Independent providers are on a whole different level, and the experience can leave your body and mind in a euphoric state for hours after the session....even days.

I prefer independent providers. And also, if you click with the person, the sessions can be an experience that lasts a lifetime.

KEY POINTS - Below are the things if consider " must haves " in order to ensure a successful FBSM.

Both parties need to be in a positive frame of mind and want to both give and receive pleasure.

Setting the mood - lighting, music, nature sounds, aroma's, real massage table, all are important. Bottom line, there must be some kind of attempt to create a relaxed atmosphere.

Time should not be a factor. - I don't believe it's possible to receive a FBSM in half an hour. If both parties are into the session, they will know when the session is coming to an end. The session should never ever feel rushed. Nor should it feel like it is being dragged out…..

Clean – Prefer if both parties shower before, so that all the little tiny spaces and crevices are super clean.

While boundaries are very important and should ALWAYS be respected – I find the best FBSM are when the session is created organically while it is happening. It’s easy to tell where you are allowed to go and where you can’t go, just by reading the persons body language.

MUTUAL, MUTUAL, MUTUAL - Both parties must me into the session, not just one giving and the other receiving.

After the session – the clean up is very important, If a shower is not available, there should be plenty of clean up stuff so that no body smells like they just had a FBSM. Very important.
Just my 2 cents..


I would be happy to $pay for and demonstrate my massage abilities and techniques and bring extra massage oil to share if there are any takers....... PM's only.
On a side note – This weather is amazing ! enjoy and smile…..

Thank you.. yes it is and I am personally picky about my mutual touch. I have heavy hands myself... I always make a joke and say it was from playing under the table clothes in my strip club days.. these hands are strong and can stroke! LOL.
Just like with Daty I believe it isnt something that every gent is good at and I would hate to offend by screaming "Och...lol oh no please that doesn't feel good". So sometimes I tend to shy away from gents offering to return the fbsm favor. Mostly new friends. My regular meets usually have a feel for me.. literally.

[Prometheusfire]

To me, there is a difference between a true FBSM and a massage that may or may not have a happy ending. A FBSM for me involves a lot of teasing and soft touches. Very erotic. When I get massages, it usually is somewhat painful and the therapist has to put a lot of work into it. That's not to say it still can't end happily. My best massages were typically legit but indy LMTs who were comfortable with happy endings for the simple fact that I have hip problems on one side that require going near some very delicate areas. Certainly no massage chains allow for minimal/no draping. For me because of my body, a solid masseuse is harder for me to find than a good FBSM. I'm admittedly picky when it comes to the actual massage.

Nuru is a completely different experience entirely and the term is thrown around way too freely. There is a definite art and skill to it. But all three are definitely rewarding in their own way! In general, a drink beforehand, soft lighting with a relaxing atmosphere, relaxing music, hot stones, hot towels, and a shower are the other essential elements across all three experiences. Personally, I like the scented lotions and oil. Helps relax me even more. It usually takes a few sessions for a masseuse to really learn my idiosyncratic body so communication is important. Things that don't work for me? I hate the tiger balm, icey hot shit as it burns my skin. I hate when a therapist doesn't ask first so communication, again. Stopping every 5 minutes to look on their phone. Knowing when to talk and when not to talk during a relaxing session. Again, communication.

[cutngrass]

All great points from Prom, This a great thread. Agree that all 3 are different. I think it's funny how most people scoff at the the idea for FBSM. I just had one of my best hobby session ever..... No FS, No bbbj. We both were hungry with pleasure still coursing through our veins after the session.....and a little tired too.

[Guest 101723-1]

That’s all you babe!

Sounds great you also wont go wrong with Cherri she is smoking hot!

[JessieJane]

All great points from Prom, This a great thread. Agree that all 3 are different. I think it's funny how most people scoff at the the idea for FBSM. I just had one of my best hobby session ever..... No FS, No bbbj. We both were hungry with pleasure still coursing through our veins after the session.....and a little tired too.

Yes... I totally agree. I honestly believe that if some ppl think outside of "the box" and make each experience interesting then anything is possible.

I am glad you you had a great time with your lady friend. We all deserve to relax and release the stress of every day life! Especially in 202 lol.

I am happy with this thread also. I like to hear from you gents. Especially those who think beyond a typical encounter with a lady. Those are my kinds of guys! I just want to thank everyone for sharing their FBSM thoughts...