Serious question

[mathguy]

Can I ask the ladies what's up with ads that say "NO A.A." (or any variation)? Yes, I've heard some of the reasons but I'd like to hear from a larger audience.

I'm not black, I'm caucasian, but I always wonder about this. Many men probably have the wrong idea. Haha. Poor guys. I even wonder if many young inexperienced girls also have the wrong idea & simply think "following the herd" is the best policy?

Lots of uneducated people will think it's due to the completely absurd, unsubstantiated, and in fact wildly proven to be inaccurate, stereotype of black men's penises.

Because I know better, I also know many girls who've seen them, as well as anecdotal data from a lifetime in gym lockers, I find it to be highly offensive and prejudicial. Does it not smack of prejudice to most of you?

And here's what's even crazier! The black girls are the ones who damn near universally put it in their ads?!? Are black men this bad (on average) in terms of their attitude toward women that many of you decided not to play roulette with that gun? For the fellas missing brain cells, or whom watch waaaaaay too much porn, that's the real reason women make this decision. Well.... supposedly anyway (in case you didn't know). It apparently has to do with their bad treatment and disposition toward women. But it just seems extremely prejudice to me.
FYI: before any porn mongers point out anything about porn, realize that the reason you would say what you were gonna say, if you were gonna say it, had I not written this sentence, is b/c they look for those black men more simply BECAUSE of that stereotype (i.e. we see more really large black ones than white or hispanic ones in porn b/c of that).

Anyway, I've heard the reasons from a variety of sources over the years and can draw my own conclusions but I'd like to put it out there for a larger audience of ladies. I'd be curious to hear what more women would say.

[DocHoliday]

Yo MG, why are you trying to start drama here man? What difference does it make to you who a lady sees or does not see? A lady can see who she wants, or not see whoever she wants, for whatever reasons she chooses. Furthermore, her reasons can be based upon real or imagined facts. The ladies do not need to go public about their decision making process.

IMHO, this thread is on the border of racism and stereotypical racism if it has not crossed over the border already.

[redmoney]

Obligatory not a woman, but I have heard in the past from a few of my regulars that they just have more bad experiences with them. Violence/rob/not paying after session and running. One girl told me she wish she could put no fat white guys, but that would be half of her client base(mainly due to hygiene issues). One other said the same about old men over 70 with incontinence issues.
I like to chat up girls about their work after a session. I am always curious about other peoples lives in general and how they got where they are. I have seen 4 black girls in my life. 3 escorts 1 civi. The civi was great and amazing, but all the escorts were terrible. Uninterested, rushed, deceptive has been my experience even on a well reviewed lady. So for the sake of the thread I am on the other side of guys who don't see black girls, and it has been based on past experience. No problem with civies, but escorts are a different story.
Also I don't see anyone located near rundberg/st johns area.

Edit:In regards to racism, I base my decisions on my own personal experience. If every time I open a red door I get punched in the face I am gonna go try a different colored door to open. I don't consider that racism when it's based off of personal experience. A generalization sure.

[ck1942]

Hate to close a legit question, but it has been asked and answered many times and often turns very sour.

So, shutting it down early.

Advice to all concerned (or consumed) with issues such as this one,

Please search out and research threads in various forums before starting down the same path.

Exception: if a researcher discovers absolute data with solid research underlying, please send me a link to that research and a link to the closed thread and staff will examine possible linkage & reopening.