I'm wanting to gain insight on the hobbyist's perspective when looking for a provider? What are the major things you look for when researching?
Thanks in advance for your input.
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I'm wanting to gain insight on the hobbyist's perspective when looking for a provider? What are the major things you look for when researching?
Thanks in advance for your input.
I seach for menu items and rates.
For example..who offers bbbjcimnqns
1. Memu
2.Specials
And availability
Oo. And sexy pic
Good service( GFE menu recommended)
Easy screening ( don't make us jump through 1,000 hoops)
Decent rates( not sky high, not saying crazy low either)
Not BSC.( please)
1. Transparency in rates and menu - No finesse or gimmicks (honor & perform what you advertise)
2. Transparency in Physique (Weight & size)- No outdated or deceptive pics, it should represent your current state
3. Racial discrimination of ads/Provider disability (i.e. No blacks allowed/No review policy) With the “No reviews”, I can perceive that she has something to hide such as providing shitty service. Or, if it’s genuinely for “discreet” reasons, there is hypocrisy in that. Why are you placing ads in the public but then say no reviews because you want to keep this life discreet? If we can’t review you, don’t place ads.
4. Consistency in reviews or board presence (Good or Bad)
Menu
Rates
Pics - not outdated or from jaded angles
Reviews
Menu
Rates
Hoping to have a good connection which makes it way more fun and IOP
- Accurate photos that provide an angle and field of view to actually see the provider and not just a body part.
- Accurate menu verified by reviews.
- Consistent and fair rates.
- Consistent good reviews.
- Painless verification methods.
- Specials (P411, review, etc.)
GFE, e.g., DFK, DATY BBBJ
Thanks for the feedback! Reference friendly would be important as well. I've had issues with not being able to see someone because the reference didn't respond.
I’m about to start a thread about who advertises reference friendly & never responds or has an excuse of why they can’t provide a reference every time! Very frustrating!
Yes there’s other ways to screen but when they give you nothing to screen with it’s hard for us!
^^^ You should. I get frustrated too. It's bullshit.
That ^^^ is a safety issue between you ladies. I also know a few people putting out false information & that's another issue.
However, to be on point here:
1. Lack of drama and trolling;
2. Accurate pics.;
3. Accurate menu; and
4. In the words of my brother Ol' JS, a fair Christian price.
It’s also fake advertising for Tards some go see these ladies thinking they will be able to see other providers with more strict screening just to be told she doesn’t respond! It happens a lot either you give references or you don’t ! I give references even if I don’t like the provider!
Between the ladies not responding to security requests and the tards knowingly putting out false information, they are creating an environment that is so unnecessary.
I feel really bad for you ladies responding to verification requests in good faith but are trapped dealing with this unnecessary and avoidable situation.
In a rough order of priority:
* P411 verified (helpful for me as I cannot get verified here)
* Reputation — TCB and BCD
* Menu
* Looks/Age
* Price point
I consider these individually, but I also look for all the criteria to jive. If something jumps out as not fitting with the others — e.g. great looks/menu but low price and limited reviews — I’ll pass unless there is a good reason behind it. This is one area where something being too good to be true is a very real threat to life, liberty and the pursuit of happy endings.
The key things I look for when researching a provider:
* Consistent quality service
* NBA policies in ads past/present
* Responsiveness/overall TCB
* P411 profile for ease of screening
* Updated pictures
* DATY & BBJ on the menu
I look at pics and always try to discern how accurate they are
I look at what they post and try and get a sense how they think which tells me a lot about their character
I look at reviews but put very little stock in them. I try to read in between the lines
I look to see what services they provide and claim to be the best at providing
I look to see if they travel or just stay here in this area. I seldom see the traveling ladies unless one just happens to get my attention.
These are just a few things I look for.
I look for ladies I think I can enjoy for more than one hour.
Price is not a big factor to me but I don't try to throw money at the ladies.
Reviews stay after retirement. Any and all post hopefully can be removed by disabling an account and asking for such. Also reviews give damn near exact incall location, exact location of certain distinguishing marks such as tattoos. Things that can pinpoint exactly who you are. I've had hundreds, and about 96-98% yes. I can accept the bad weather true or not, can't please them all, I just don't feel like being outted by someone trying to do something kind. Or whatever
My .02 cents Back to the matter at hand lol. Just thought I would clarify, not everyone wants to keep all their business on these boards forever!
First I suppose if she catches my eye with pics, if she allows face and full body pics. Although a coupla rare occasions I’ve gone in blind and luckily was not disappointed.
Pics usually pique my interest, but if she’s using social media, how she posts usually determines whether or not I bother to go through screening. Thankfully I’ve ruled out a few providers I wouldn’t have meshed with at this point.
If I go through screening and there’s a back and forth where more of her personality comes through and my interest is further piqued, that usually seals the deal and I book when my schedule and resources allow.
All that leads to the encounter and if TCB & BCD are on point, well then she fucked around and landed a regular. :twothumbs:
:cheers:
The above reasons is BS and I say that respectfully. Ad content can still be found even after retirement. Once a provider advertise her service to the public, you are exposed. That’s the risk of being in this industry, can’t have it both ways. That’s like Sarah Jay retiring but telling Pornhub or any other related sites to remove all videos, ads or other content. It’s fair game for clients to share their experience.
Having a No review policy is like a restaurant owner or any other type of business telling customers not write reviews on Yelp. Clients are going to share information whether if it’s writing an “official review” or by another source. No one can defeat the internet and it is what it is. The only logical reasons for telling clients not to write reviews is to protect her reputation for whatever goes on BCD and many clients can view this as shady business.
But back to the topic, clients look at ads for transparency in hopes that the experience can go as expected and the right to express how it went.
A pretty smile
Positive attitude
Affordable
Good reputation
You might be one of the few that has this policy for a legitimate reason if you would, I guess one can say you're the exception not the rule. Most of the time we hobbyists we " no review policy" and automatically associate that with bad service/misleading pics with it (case and point the latest (already deleted) reviews on one of notorious no review of the providers in Houston) I've never met and prob never will but you seem to have a rep here so you might just the the exception not the rule. ⁸
Hey I’m jelly, you screened with me back when Eccie shut down, we were on switter, I was Cendell M at the time. I didn’t change my name for hobby reasons I change my name for real world personal reasons but that being said I don’t except reviews on here but I have all yes reviews on ECCIE under the Cendell M name. And lots of okays on P411 Im just done with the review thing, I think my reputation Has been pretty good for the most part maybe not when I first started Eccie but ive changed that. Now I’m laid-back, chill, and ready to schedule you when you are ready LOL. But really I’m just messing with you I understand how peoples schedules go or people can forget hint hint anyway just thought I’d throw my two cents in here. Also I do so well here I don’t feel the need for reviews on this platform anymore. But to the ladies that get them, I don’t knock anyone’s choices.
👍💙 Kara aka Cendell M
I started using other ways of screening a long time ago due to the temporary blindness my reference checks cause lol
that would never get answered.
Recently a Gent volunteered and sent me 3 links as his reference checks so I figured I would give it a shot since he sent his complete info.
Crickets...not one lady bothered to answer so I let him know not to use them.
Blind monkeys don't stop the show.
:towel:
Just to be clear...
SexyLatinAlyssa,
Anna Nikkole
And
Kara Nicole are always so gracious and promptly answer
Thank y'all beautiful babes
Likewise, I'm just a PM away
:love:
Agree with most of what has already been said!
Some other qualities that catch my eye...
1. Low volume (those that hobby 1-2x a week as much for the sex as for the extra cash)
2. UTR
3. Non clock watcher (rules out most!!). Don't do well with those that rush the client
4. Providers with RW profession seems to really attract my attention
5. Engaging beyond just sex
1) Recent Pics
2) Service GFE/Non-GFE and what she considers it to be.
3) Rates
4) Location
1) I want to see photos, current accurate photos, face, eyes, smile, front shot, rear shot, that show breasts, nipples (for size - it maters to some), don't need a spread eagle vah jay jay shot, but I would like to have some idea of the grooming of the landscape and what type of flapage we can expect to find. And I want them to accurately portray the lady that will eventually appear at my door. That way if there is a deal-breaker it isn't at my front door or yours. And I will be honest most guys don't care if you have a few pounds and if they do don't you want them to go somewhere else rather than have to deal with it?
2) Menu - Menu - Menu I need as many details as you can give me because my list is long, I think the standards are, are you a CBJ girl or a BBBJ girl ... no need to list both because if I want a CBJ I can just ask you to cover it. DFK and or LFK, DATY, how many holes and what can you do with them. Don't leave it up to reviews because many are faked and sometimes they forget everything that was done.
3) communication - let's do the deal and move on - and then be there when you say you are going to be. I can't tell you how many sorry I missed you busted cell phone stories I have heard. You girls and your cell phones.
Yes for sure, I feel so bad you’ve never been rude to me or ever done anything that would make me block you. Hell we’ve never even met yet lol. So again I’m sorry that happened. :cheers:
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Some ladies don’t show their face for privacy reasons, So not showing their face is deal breaker for you? kinda sad to hear we take our privacy very seriously as we would do your privacy for your sake just throwing that out there. You expect a lot I hope you find/found What you’re looking for dear.