Originally Posted by
AlexandraSand
Get the attorney.
Especially if there are children involved, or property. There are a lot of "moving parts" which you can't do by yourself.
Borrow money for that.
Nothing will be done fast. It might be few month, before resolution and you don't want to be stuck "paying" for that long.
If your "proper attorney" get paid with proper cash - you can ask from him/her for promised results. What will you ask for from your "hobby" attorney?! You could get yourself in tight spot.
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