Help a newbie out??

Hey y’all, as the title says, I’m new and could use some help...
I’m sure it’s posted somewhere, but how do I get verified?
I’m entirely new to the hobby (mid twenties, m). Where can I find providers willing to introduce me properly??

Best,
Huey

Edit: found the answer to the first question in the stickied posts

If you look in the Dallas section there is a thread in coed for newbie friendly providers.https://home.ourhome2.net/showthread...that-Love-Them!
Most girls will offer alternative screening if you do not have references.
Welcome and have fun