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Had an appt scheduled with her this morning around 8:30am - 8:45am. Starting texting her at 8:03 saying good morning. No response. Then I texted her at 8:19am saying hello. No response. Then I called her at 8:30am. No answer. Then I texted her at 8:42am saying i guess I'm getting stood up. No response . Drove 30 minutes to her incall. She also asked me for a cancellation deposit before hand. I told her no.
https://home.ourhome2.net/showthread...PUSSY-IM-ready
She ghosted you and you still drove 30 min to her place???
WTF?
After a chick ghosts me, she is blocked. No way she can request a fucking cancellation deposit.
If she can't run her business, she don't need my business.
I've been ghosted by some great providers, but they will never see or contact me again. No matter their reputation.
I started driving to her place at 8:03am in hopes she would respond back to my text and to make sure I arrived on time.
that sucks. I dont understand why they NCNS. it takes 2 seconds to text that you can't make it.
shit happens, and if they cant make it, reputable providers will text before or after and apologize. Ive been lucky, been hobbying for years. KandiKakes was the NCNS to intentionally waste my time.
Did she send you the cancellation deposit $$ ?
You do what you feel is best for you but if I don’t get a confirmation text from her, I don’t even crank the car to head her way. I’m looking for a plan B.Quote:
Originally Posted by IlikeKittyandTitty
Sorry to hear that she is already flaming out. Oh well,...next?
+1 Warpt
Thanks for the intel, not a good start
All of this.Quote:
Originally Posted by DocHoliday
She is new in the hobby world, She did reply in the WW with a reason... ...
I get it, you had a set appt and that is important in the hobby world. She did mention hopefully y’all can reschedule and she will make it up to you. I ain’t a WK trying to defend anyone but maybe try contacting her again and see how that goes. Sh*t happens to all of us sometimes.
happy huntin’
First mistake was scheduling so early in the morning. Many of these girls are dancers at regular strip clubs then go to after hours clubs and dance and do VIP stuff 'till 4-5 in the morning.
I like to schedule around 10 or 11 AM, and even then it's a 50/50 chance I'm gonna get a NCNS with a first timer and even if it is successful, typically the lady looks like she just rolled out of bed.....
It's still a black mark against her that she took the appointment then missed it. Not a great way to start off here with (2) NCNS's (you and boyfreakalot) in the same week, LOL.
Yeah, she ghosts him AND wants him to pay a cancellation fee??? And youre suggesting giving the poor girl a chance?Quote:
Originally Posted by tacopaco
She did it to 2 different guys in the same week.
She's a genuine flake.
She doesn't care cause she thinks we are all suckers now.
I hope the OP isn't that stupid. There are too many reputable girls in Houston.
Hey man again I ain’t no WK. just giving my .02c cuz it’s happened to me before and gave that provider another shot and it worked for me.
y’all do what you gotta do.
peace
peace.
I'm not sure why a guy would drive to a location after calling so many times and didnt get a answer. That's a little strange. Not only that why post in coed? Not in mens area? Just a thought...
Ncns are supposed to be in coedQuote:
Originally Posted by JessieJane
When we put in Locker Room, it gets moved to Coed so the lady can give her side of the story.Quote:
Originally Posted by JessieJane
Doesn't seem like she is interested in a rebuttal.Srtting a date then sleeping thru a date is not a valid excuse.
Some of us only have an hour or so here and there to have fun.
NCNS is like a slap in the face.
Answer the phone like a normal person.
Handle your business.
Confirmation is key baby!
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Originally Posted by Warpt
If she didn’t confirm, but you still went there - it’s not really ncns
You should know by now that NCNS threads get moved to the coed section.Quote:
Originally Posted by JessieJane
If I make a date and she isn't ready the day and time of the date, it is NCNS
I try to make my dates a week ahead of time. I confirm mid week then2 days before the Day before the day of, and still get NCNS.
W
Excuse is always phone battery dead or sleeping
It's never the ladies fault.
And most of the time, no apology or no make up session.
Pardon me Warpt but have you ever been paid a cancellation fee by a lady for a NCNS? Inquiring minds want to know.Quote:
Originally Posted by Warpt
Lol, that will never happen.Quote:
Originally Posted by DocHoliday
Hell no. You know that ...Quote:
Originally Posted by DocHoliday
I just try to make it as easy on them as I can. I know the fees only flow one way.
I deduct her cancellation fee from the donation on the next session. They complain that I'm shorting them at first but come around when I explain it to them.Quote:
Originally Posted by DocHoliday
She set an appointment, gave a date, time & location & didn't cancel beforehand so yes it's a NCNS. I personally wouldn't have driven over without reconfirming even if it's just 10 minutes away but Morning Wood can have a strong effect on a guy.Quote:
Originally Posted by Foreign Becky
Yeah I know but it just never made sense to me when its basically a gent complaining about a lady and well... there is a place for that. Especially when we cant put alerts on u guys in public forums. Just a thought LOL.. No biggie. :twothumbs:Quote:
Originally Posted by JJ8901
In Houston, 5 blocks can take 30 mins in this weather, mornings can take longer.Quote:
Originally Posted by JuggHead
I don't see why you couldn't do NCNS's for hobbyists too, and right here? I think you should 'cause I know there's some real asshats out there that do it to y'all.Quote:
Originally Posted by JessieJane
so my response to this one is it happens...I have several ncns a day and i dont get in my feelings about it, life happens and I have no problem apologizing and rescheduling...I do have a crazy life myself that keeps me busy at times and sometimes I CRASH and I am a deep sleeper so this phone dos not wake me.
ilikekittyandtitty has been rescheduled and we have linked up now so hopefully his opinion has changed now...
unfortunately I cant make EVERYONE happy so i understand there will be some bashing on here...some of you will love me and some may hate me...all i can say is dont take someone elses opinion as fact until you experience me for yourself
seriously...we have soooo many ncns, i could be seeing someone thats actually going to show up instead of having my time wastedQuote:
Originally Posted by Oldrogue
You should invest in getting an alarm clock & you really shouldn’t have responded the way you did because that just labels you as Flakey and that’s not good! Considering you’re not even verified yet ! Good luckQuote:
Originally Posted by minxie
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If you’re having a lot of NCNS then you’re not screening properly! & who is WE?Quote:
Originally Posted by minxie
Typical.Quote:
Originally Posted by minxie
Had I known that was your mentality after trying to book with you in multiple occasions (even opted to schedule around a timeframe that was best suitable for you after you told me about your sporadic work schedule), I would've kept it moving after attempt number one.
read a couple replies and find it weird. To my knowledge(correct me if i am wrong), if a provider sent the exact address for a hobbyist to visit. That pretty much confirms the appointment right? There's no way a provider would send her address if an appointment isnt confirm at least in my experience. So, why are there people still saying its not ncns if no appointment is made? Also, this can be wrong as well. But for early appointments, maybe the provider isnt used to waking up early so they are rushing to get ready so they miss your call or text. I dont know but i wouldnt wanna be that guy that gets ncns because they set up and appointment and then didnt go cuz the provider missed their call. So, yea, op couldve not made the drive but i see why some reason why he did tho. Imo, this is just a case of new provider not having it all together yet and screwed up by oversleeping. I would like to see OP's review on the reschedule appointment tho.
I wish ilikekittyandtitty would update his thread, but we have since rescheduled and he did leave reply regarding that session on my welcome wagon thread...
both sides to the incident have had their say.
closed.