In my feelings; but why?

I believe I have an issue that has become a problem. It's a problem because I get kind of caught up in the moment with a certain Hobbiest, and developed a school girl crush on him.. I really do feel like I am a little girl again the way this male has took my attention. We had really great chemistry and enjoyed each other on more the one occasion. But like any Hobbiest, you get your hobby on , and seek a new talent.... So I was replaced I guess.. and that's where my feelings got to be checked... It's normal for me to feel this at times or am I being stupid and weak.... I think it's normal... but I don't live a normal lifestyle, but that doesn't take away the fact that I'm still a human being.. wtf.... What are somethings I can do to keep myself from getting wrapped in fantasy land?

Whenever I find myself getting caught up in the feelings of the moment, I have to remind myself that it isn't real. This is then followed by a short vacation from the fantasy.

This hobby deals in more than lustful pleasure. It also wrecks havoc on our emotions when combined with our hormones. Those hormones that create desires that are natural to us all.

For some people they learn the trick of separating work from home life by figuratively setting it aside like a hat. When they go to work, the hat goes on. When they return from a job, the hat is hung on a peg and all emotions and problems are hung on the peg with it never to be considered again until the hat is put back on. Does that make sense?

Unless you really love this person, no longer taking them as a client is the best answer. Perhaps you should go on Youtube and see the videos entitled, "Ask an Escort". This is put on by an actual escort called Sierra Pine.

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Originally Posted by Daisy does you right

I believe I have an issue that has become a problem. It's a problem because I get kind of caught up in the moment with a certain Hobbiest, and developed a school girl crush on him.. I really do feel like I am a little girl again the way this male has took my attention. We had really great chemistry and enjoyed each other on more the one occasion. But like any Hobbiest, you get your hobby on , and seek a new talent.... So I was replaced I guess.. and that's where my feelings got to be checked... It's normal for me to feel this at times or am I being stupid and weak.... I think it's normal... but I don't live a normal lifestyle, but that doesn't take away the fact that I'm still a human being.. wtf.... What are somethings I can do to keep myself from getting wrapped in fantasy land?

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It happens from time to time and is hard to prevent. I remind any girl that falls in love with me that I cannot be expected to be faithful to one woman since I have been a cheater my whole life.