Originally Posted by
Strix
"Don't bother dancers at work for extras. Period. We're there to get tipped for pole and floor work, to keep you company, and to sell you lap dances.
By the way, if we get caught and are fired for extras, they call the cops on us, file a police report and that's a sex offender conviction over our heads, all because you can't control yourself in an environment where you know sex is off the table. '"
This is evidently a VERY ymmv type of thing as in my experience 80% of the dancers I've met offer extras without me saying a word. p10 for example. EVERY girl I've ever taken into a cabana, extras without asking. There's certainly a few dancers I've met that i'd never even consider talking about extras but i'd say they are rare. Even in Vegas.
This varies a bit by club, but not by much.
P10 is essentially a brothel in my experience. Have a friend who was a manager there and he said the managers are well aware and don't care what goes on as long as you are selling cabana's and making customers happy and keeping it under the radar. I mean don't be a douche about how you approach it as some girls i'm sure won't take the advance but it's pretty clear pretty quickly that many of the girls are happy to party. Granted it's much cheaper to get one of the fine girls here. Have a lot of girls and waitresses i'm friends with there and the scene is pretty well known I guess by all of them.
As for the OP... The chick wasn't into you and was working you for as much cash as possible. Don't blame her one bit. Figure it out faster next time and cut your losses.