Has anyone ever run into a provider or hobbyist in the "real world"
I just ran into someone at HEB!!!
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Has anyone ever run into a provider or hobbyist in the "real world"
I just ran into someone at HEB!!!
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Originally Posted by polo1970
I hope you didn't act like a newbie :)
Yes, a few times. In two instances the ladies were with other people and I treated it like ships passing in the night and didn't say anything. But one lady did message me later saying she thought she saw me. LOL. The other time I ran into a provider I saw and said hello (she was alone). Gave me a hug, made quick chit chat, said Merry Christmas and went on my way.
I use to see a certain provider found under ECCIE. She was blonde, not naturel and had very long hair. Had a toned fit body and average skin color (no tan). Her rate was on the high side and eventually I lost touch. I remember her telling me she was planning to move. A couple of years later, I was having lunch at a crowded sports bar. I stayed there until most of the lunch crowd had left and the place had emptied out. My server then approached me when I was finally ready to leave. My server then told me who she was and reminded me of our times together. I was caught off guard because from the start I completely didn't recognize her. Her appearance had changed so much. Her hair was very short and now reddish brown. She was now very tanned and had put on lots of muscle, now looking like a body builder competitor. She made me feels a little bad for not recognizing her and not seeing her again. After explaining my side, she was cool about it. Shortly there after, she did move to New York. Haven't seen her since.
Life happens?
Yup, best for each party to assess the situation and a give a sly wink and a smile if both are confirmed as being solo. And continue as passing ships in the night when either party has company.
Has happened to me several times at NS Mall, a Spurs game, casual restaurants and my local HEB. Dreamed of saying cleanup in aisle 3?
SF
Yup. She was a waitress at a restaurant me and my so went to. Fortunately she was not our waitress but we both recognized each other. Kinda scary but pretty hot as well. I tried to reach out to her but she changed her number and I haven’t been back to that restaurant since.
Yep couple times,
Heb
Airport
@ a burger joint & bexar county court house ( same one)
I just minded my business, but they kept looking at me to engage contact
Keep walking, keep doing you and then pm her. Never, I repeat never walk up to a lady you've met in this playground. IDC how single she says she is, she's just that SINGLE and she's always in MINGLE!
I would never do such a thing unless said suitor saw me alone and waived and I knew I was there alone. Do we always have to report in such detail of the person we saw?
"He was tall, dark and handsome weighed about 267lbs and is 6.195 feet tall and fyi on the other board not this one but yea he has a crazy birthmark on his hand as well just fyi" bit much, don't ya think? Where's the discretion lol
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I just smiled and moved on...Well, actually waited in the parking lot a few minutes... then came to my senses
Once at HEB and once at costco. HEB was with a female friend and I was alone but we acted like we were strangers and Costco kept making eye contact with me even though I was with my so and she appeared to be as well. I got kind of nervous and excused myself to the restroom to avoid any possible interaction. It is bound to happen if you are active in the hobby. I have actually asked several ladies what they would do if they saw me in public just out of curiosity and they all say unless I approach them they will act like they dont know me, which I obviously prefer. One lady even told me that she gets upset if her meets come up to her "off duty", which makes sense too.
About 15 years ago I was in
Corpus Christi and recognized
a provider at a drive-thru ATM.
I had never met nor messaged
her because she wasn't really
my type, but I thought I'd be
friendly and say Hi and called
out her name (provider handle)
Big Mistake...
It scared the ever-living shit
out if her and she cancelled
her transaction and peeled
out in a car that I didn't think
was capable of peeling out.
Whoopsie.
Never saw her again.
Happens a lot especially with the ones with semi normal lives.not the ones with “problems” One that was the best was one on a date with a hobbyist at a nice restaurant. This was a monger taking her to dinner and she spotted me right away. Stopped talking to her because she wanted to get money in advance and I don’t do that so cut her off. I was with a really hot girl not involved in the hobby whatsoever so I was smug.
Slightly different twist...
I went to college with this one particular lady I met through a few parties...she was a sophomore and I was a junior in undergrad we never did anything.
Fast forward a couple years later, I go to Dallas for a getaway in which I would tour the Star in Frisco among other places. I check ads on OH2 and saw her. Ended up booking an outcall and needless to say she was shocked.
Still did the deed.
Met one at a Pet Supply Store, but I think she was with her adult child, so we didn't chat, but she has a certain tattoo that gave it away that it was her...
I have seen them at HEB, Macy's, Luby's, Academy, and a few other retail stores around Austin. I ran into a few of them in Houston as well during hobby days.
Mine's a different twist. I had just started attending socials, well, was pretty new at all this mongering at the time. Got inside the bar, was nervous as hell, stepped out for a smoke, and I saw a young lady I knew in real life. Came to find out that she was UTR, but, by then I was in full panic mode and decided to leave. Fast forward a week later and I saw her at the bar I normally knew her from. We normally chatted out in the smoking area, so when the others had gone inside, I said hey, were you at <establishment name> last week. I saw all the blood drain out of her face, panic mode again, so just mentioned I thought I saw her, and that I was in the front with some friends, and dropped it. Another week or two went by and my courage built up, especially since she didn't freak out and stop talking to me. So, next time I saw her, again in private, I let her know I kinda fibbed before, and that I was at the same event as she was. She panicked at first, and then we both laughed about it. She said she had wondered the whole time, and said she had thought about me several times since that first talk. We talked about hooking up, we never did, probably for the better. I still talk to her from time to time, but she is no longer in the business.
Yes 4 times & twice with the same person. First in 2019 saw a regular while shopping at H‑E‑B, second one happened in 2022, was actually meeting with the guy same night and bumped into him at the liquor store while he was purchasing some vodka for us. Lol. & same guy in 2023 I called into the Billie Madison show and he recognized my voice while also listening in. Last one was also in 2022 at the La Cantera mall. Friends and I were celebrating my birthday and he happened to walk by. If they don?t come up to me first then I don?t make contact.
I've never booked w you (I should), but I saw you once (a couple of years ago) sitting by yourself having a smoothie at North Star Mall near the Jamba Juice... you are gorgeous!Quote:
Originally Posted by Katyfox
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I've seen about 10 girls at either malls or HEBs ... some of them with their kids or SOs... others by themselves (these alone are usually the ones that are touring).
The ones I've met... I've never approached to say anything... not even gotten nervous either... just kept walking like nothing.
Circa February 2020, I was looking for a parking space at a restaurant in the Quarry area when an attractive minx accompanied by an older dude stepped out in front of me. I stopped to let them cross from their parked car into the restaurant. Never met her BCD before or since; and moreover, her face in her ad photos was always blurred. But her shoulder-length brunette hair, signature flame-red lipstick, svelte build, and floral print dress were unmistakable. Parked, went inside, and enjoyed brunch with my younger daughter and grandson who'd met up with me there. Afterward I PMed her from this site, asking whether she'd been at (name of restaurant) that morning, and identifying myself as the driver of the dark green Jaguar X-Type that had stopped for her in the parking lot. She replied, "Yes, LOL," adding that she'd gone with "him" to celebrate his birthday. I shot back, "You're looking good, Babe; you made traffic stop -- literally." Unfortunately, she vanished from this site several years ago.
It happened to me a year ago. I was at the gym and I happen to see a provider that I have seen before. The provider was looking sexy as hell working out and sweating from the workout. I didn't know the protocol on this so I avoided eye and physical contact (hand wave or even saying hi). Of course I was checking her out and my dirty mind kicking in at the gym. Once I left the gym a contacted her and asked if she was at the gym and she told me I should have said hi. Of course I requested the workout gym clothes hookup the next time I went and saw her.
I ran into a customer when he took his kido to the same gymnastics clss that my daughter was in.
Seems like this happens more often than I thought!