Quality Providers

GENTLEMEN..

I have a question for yall.. What would you say is the quality of providers in ATX? What would you say are some of the things & types of ladies youd like to see? What would keep you from seeing a provider?

Im asking this, because Ive had a FMTY book (purchased tickets & hotel) for next week, 2 visitors from ATX within the last few days & a prebooked appt while Im in town for the fmty. Having said that, when conversing with these specific gentlemen- they have all said that different things keep them from sticking to providers solely in ATX & checking out other cities. Main things are Due to fake pics, bad history of tcb, involved in drama.. My curiosity was wondering, lol..

Xoxo,

Cameron

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Originally Posted by Cameron

GENTLEMEN..

I have a question for yall.. What would you say is the quality of providers in ATX? What would you say are some of the things & types of ladies youd like to see? What would keep you from seeing a provider?

Im asking this, because Ive had a FMTY book (purchased tickets & hotel) for next week, 2 visitors from ATX within the last few days & a prebooked appt while Im in town for the fmty. Having said that, when conversing with these specific gentlemen- they have all said that different things keep them from sticking to providers solely in ATX & checking out other cities. Main things are Due to fake pics, bad history of tcb, involved in drama.. My curiosity was wondering, lol..

Xoxo,

Cameron

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I have had very mixed results with providers here. Some have been good, some have had an attitude of "I don't really want to be here". I have also encountered many flakes.
I have also realized that I can get better, more enthusiastic treatment elsewhere and even with travel costs it is a lot cheaper if I am meeting multiple times.

Fake pictures, poor tcb, and drama occur everywhere. I stick to local women because advance scheduling is important to me. I live outside Austin and drive to town only twice a month for play. Traveling providers almost never provide enough advance notice to accommodate my schedule.

What would you say is the quality of providers in ATX?
The quality of ATX providers is no better or worse than those of traveling providers. Opinions by James. All it takes is solid screening to find the diamonds in the rough.

What would you say are some of the things & types of ladies youd like to see?
I like to see ladies with superior planning and communication skills, reliable, excellent reputations, attention to details, nice locations close to home, reasonable prices, enthusiasm, intelligence, and a pretty smile.
I do not ask for much. :-)

Keep Austin Weird is all about shopping locally. I am a believer.

Thank you for asking.

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Originally Posted by Lovinglifeinaustin

Traveling providers almost never provide enough advance notice to accommodate my schedule.

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What is a good enough notice for you? When I do travel, I usually only post if it’s just a random trip. However, if I’m there for a booked appointment, I like to let a few gents know as soon as I confirm the days. (At least a few days in advance)

What would you say is the quality of providers in ATX?

Girls here are great! Like everywhere else in this World. Judging is biased and not very welcomed anywhere.

Strangers should not tell YOU what is your appropriate notice and reply should be.

This is your business. Your body and mind. Your tools. Your rules. You should always do what is BEST and safest for you.

I just thought of another thing. If you ask for a deposit, particularly for an incall appointment, I will assume you are a scammer. If you ask for a deposit for an outcall and don't have multiple good reviews, I will assume you are a scammer.

Yes, I have been burned and the world out there is just way too nasty these days. I understand that y'all have been stood up in the past, but I have been ripped off too many times. If you can still get plenty of business by asking for a deposit, then congratulations.

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Originally Posted by AlexandraSand

What would you say is the quality of providers in ATX?

Girls here are great! Like everywhere else in this World. Judging is biased and not very welcomed anywhere.

Strangers should not tell YOU what is your appropriate notice and reply should be.

This is your business. Your body and mind. Your tools. Your rules. You should always do what is BEST and safest for you.

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Im sure like I said that there are beautiful and good providers. I dont have anyone tell me what my policies should be. Why would anyone judge the next person in the hobby? We’re all here because we like different things & have different interests. However, I do like to accommodate the gentleman, and I like to know what makes him comfortable so we can possibly work together and figure out the best solutions for our meeting. Ive been around for quite some time, I am very successful, and very well established. I have regulars that span for over a decade. I think Im doing something right, but, there?s always room for improvement!

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Originally Posted by Wanderer23

I just thought of another thing. If you ask for a deposit, particularly for an incall appointment, I will assume you are a scammer. If you ask for a deposit for an outcall and don't have multiple good reviews, I will assume you are a scammer.

Yes, I have been burned and the world out there is just way too nasty these days. I understand that y'all have been stood up in the past, but I have been ripped off too many times. If you can still get plenty of business by asking for a deposit, then congratulations.

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That’s unfortunate that you experienced that. Providers that scam/cheat/steal, should not be in the hobby!

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Originally Posted by Wanderer23

I just thought of another thing. If you ask for a deposit, particularly for an incall appointment, I will assume you are a scammer. If you ask for a deposit for an outcall and don't have multiple good reviews, I will assume you are a scammer.

Yes, I have been burned and the world out there is just way too nasty these days. I understand that y'all have been stood up in the past, but I have been ripped off too many times. If you can still get plenty of business by asking for a deposit, then congratulations.

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This is yet another reason why research is always key. Once verified it's a little easier as you'll have access to more areas, but your reason for not wanting to do it, is the same reason some women require it. There's bad apples on both sides of hobbying, grouping us all together because of previous encounters, doesn't automatically make us scammers. Incall or outcall shouldn't really make much of a difference, other than a provider wanting to cover her ass if a guy ultimately bullshits her and makes her waste her gas, time and money. If you put in the time to look around for information on a provider before booking, it will help you tremendously.

But I would think there would be more issues in Houston since there's more people there in general. Fake pics, bad tcb and especially drama definitely happens everywhere, if not more so in Dallas and Houston. I've seen those coed areas and they are a whole other ballgame compared to Austin.

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Originally Posted by SexySammy

This is yet another reason why research is always key. Once verified it's a little easier as you'll have access to more areas, but your reason for not wanting to do it, is the same reason some women require it. There's bad apples on both sides of hobbying, grouping us all together because of previous encounters, doesn't automatically make us scammers. Incall or outcall shouldn't really make much of a difference, other than a provider wanting to cover her ass if a guy ultimately bullshits her and makes her waste her gas, time and money. If you put in the time to look around for information on a provider before booking, it will help you tremendously.

But I would think there would be more issues in Houston since there's more people there in general. Fake pics, bad tcb and especially drama definitely happens everywhere, if not more so in Dallas and Houston. I've seen those coed areas and they are a whole other ballgame compared to Austin.

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Dallas is definitely the worst!! Yes, my city has its moments, lol.. The Alert section is insane!

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Originally Posted by Cameron

Dallas is definitely the worst!! Yes, my city has its moments, lol.. The Alert section is insane!

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It's entertaining for sure lol

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Originally Posted by SexySammy

This is yet another reason why research is always key. Once verified it's a little easier as you'll have access to more areas, but your reason for not wanting to do it, is the same reason some women require it. There's bad apples on both sides of hobbying, grouping us all together because of previous encounters, doesn't automatically make us scammers. Incall or outcall shouldn't really make much of a difference, other than a provider wanting to cover her ass if a guy ultimately bullshits her and makes her waste her gas, time and money. If you put in the time to look around for information on a provider before booking, it will help you tremendously.

But I would think there would be more issues in Houston since there's more people there in general. Fake pics, bad tcb and especially drama definitely happens everywhere, if not more so in Dallas and Houston. I've seen those coed areas and they are a whole other ballgame compared to Austin.

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I understand, but it has become so easy from halfway around the world to come up with fake photographs and create fake profiles that I have zero trust in anything online. I hate having to harden my heart so much, but I have heard so many sob stories that were utter scams, even from women I had met, that I won't sent anyone money ahead of time any more. I'm really sick of living like this.

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Originally Posted by Cameron

What is a good enough notice for you? When I do travel, I usually only post if it’s just a random trip. However, if I’m there for a booked appointment, I like to let a few gents know as soon as I confirm the days. (At least a few days in advance)

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​I schedule my dates 2-4 weeks in advance.

I think the guys complaining about the quality of Austin providers are outing themselves as guys who are willfully choosing quantity over quality in the first place. There's plenty of reputable, dependable providers in Austin and they aren't hard to find. I read these negative reviews and shake my head and think, "WTF did you expect?"

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Originally Posted by Wanderer23

I understand, but it has become so easy from halfway around the world to come up with fake photographs and create fake profiles that I have zero trust in anything online. I hate having to harden my heart so much, but I have heard so many sob stories that were utter scams, even from women I had met, that I won't sent anyone money ahead of time any more. I'm really sick of living like this.

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Then maybe the hobby life isn't for you

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Originally Posted by firstandlast

I think the guys complaining about the quality of Austin providers are outing themselves as guys who are willfully choosing quantity over quality in the first place. There's plenty of reputable, dependable providers in Austin and they aren't hard to find. I read these negative reviews and shake my head and think, "WTF did you expect?"

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Lol that part babe.....I'll read reviews and alerts from guys who didn't want to provide screening information for me or had an issue with providing a deposit, then a few weeks, or months, later they went for either another companion here, or off of another site, or perhaps one off of the streets, who happened to be asking for less, and that hobbyist ultimately ended up coming back to this site with a sob story/alert/review. And I think to myself the exact same thing firstandlast, like "welp, what tf did they expect"?!

With exception to the Valley, Corpus area and Amarillo, I've hobbied everywhere in Texas.

It was culture shock to me when I got to Austin in 2017 of having to book at least 90 minutes plus in advance. In West Texas, I could meet someone at worst 45 minutes.

During that 2017-2019, I've had nights where I left at 8pm to go to Dallas just to meet up with a provider, have a lot of fun and then be back at 5am on Sunday satisfied.

I've met great providers in ATX and also seen some miserable ones that can go "phoque themselves".

That said Austin now in my opinion is better now than back in the time period now however I don't hobby as much now.

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Originally Posted by Agent220

With exception to the Valley, Corpus area and Amarillo, I've hobbied everywhere in Texas.

It was culture shock to me when I got to Austin in 2017 of having to book at least 90 minutes plus in advance. In West Texas, I could meet someone at worst 45 minutes.

During that 2017-2019, I've had nights where I left at 8pm to go to Dallas just to meet up with a provider, have a lot of fun and then be back at 5am on Sunday satisfied.

I've met great providers in ATX and also seen some miserable ones that can go "phoque themselves".

That said Austin now in my opinion is better now than back in the time period now however I don't hobby as much now.

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when?

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Originally Posted by Deja Tha Doll

Lol that part babe.....I'll read reviews and alerts from guys who didn't want to provide screening information for me or had an issue with providing a deposit, then a few weeks, or months, later they went for either another companion here, or off of another site, or perhaps one off of the streets, who happened to be asking for less, and that hobbyist ultimately ended up coming back to this site with a sob story/alert/review. And I think to myself the exact same thing firstandlast, like "welp, what tf did they expect"?!

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LOL THAT exactly :)

Humans are the same everywhere. The skill to distinguish between good and bad comes from experience, at times painful. It's all part of life. You can complain about the rules of the game on the sidelines, or jump in and play it. Reminds me of a lottery ad from way back: "Wanna win? Gotta play!"

We have some great ATX providers…. We put it all out to please.. We service.. on time, Top quality! A lot of new girls are coming to town.. but we have great clients!

If you are new to Austin then be ready to get real? Our guys are great. Dont fxxx around.. Show up on time and support your ads… by that I mean do what you say you will do… . You will be welcomed as long as you are a good service provider. ATX gents want Quality and time..

Treat your clients right and you will find Austin an amazing place…

If you don’t… Then Gents won’t see you..They see thru all the shit… My honest opinion.. Be real…and fun…but always be safe…… show up on time…..

Very subjective. One person’s “quality provider” could be another person’s disappointment. Research and communication is key. Likes and dislikes play a major role in our satisfaction.

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Originally Posted by Lovinglifeinaustin

Fake pictures, poor tcb, and drama occur everywhere. I stick to local women because advance scheduling is important to me. I live outside Austin and drive to town only twice a month for play. Traveling providers almost never provide enough advance notice to accommodate my schedule.

What would you say is the quality of providers in ATX?
The quality of ATX providers is no better or worse than those of traveling providers. Opinions by James. All it takes is solid screening to find the diamonds in the rough.

What would you say are some of the things & types of ladies youd like to see?
I like to see ladies with superior planning and communication skills, reliable, excellent reputations, attention to details, nice locations close to home, reasonable prices, enthusiasm, intelligence, and a pretty smile.
I do not ask for much. :-)

Keep Austin Weird is all about shopping locally. I am a believer.

Thank you for asking.

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very well said!!

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Originally Posted by morgan baby

we have some great atx providers?. We put it all out to please.. We service.. On time, top quality! A lot of new girls are coming to town.. But we have great clients!

If you are new to austin then be ready to get real? Our guys are great. Dont fxxx around.. Show up on time and support your ads? by that i mean do what you say you will do? . You will be welcomed as long as you are a good service provider. Atx gents want quality and time..

Treat your clients right and you will find austin an amazing place?

if you don?t? then gents won?t see you..they see thru all the shit? my honest opinion.. Be real?and fun?but always be safe?? show up on time?..

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great advice!!!!!!

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Originally Posted by Cameron

GENTLEMEN..

Main things are Due to fake pics, bad history of tcb, involved in drama.. My curiosity was wondering, lol..

Xoxo,

Cameron

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Those are all spot on.

I think attitude in general is a great indicator on how a hobbyist’s session is going to go. I had a provider cancel on me a while back just from simply asking her if she could provide me a massage, and I told her that I was perfectly fine if she wasn?t feeling up to it. It?s always the same story in reviews.. when hobbyists start off with the provider showing signs of a bad attitude, the sessions never go well.

I think it?s fair to say, hobbyists in general are feeling less confident with the hobby compared to before the pandemic. One thing I appreciate about you is, you are proactively seeking to learn the various preferences of your customers. That?s a major green flag and will likely add confidence to the hobbyist who are interested in seeing you. Great topic OP!

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Originally Posted by Lovinglifeinaustin

What would you say are some of the things & types of ladies youd like to see?
I like to see ladies with superior planning and communication skills, reliable, excellent reputations, attention to details, nice locations close to home, reasonable prices, enthusiasm, intelligence, and a pretty smile.
I do not ask for much. :-)

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This ? and a connection with the client would be nice ? not always possible. It takes two.

And being aware of client?s satisfaction ? which should be through the roof. Taking time and effort and knowing what your looking for during the selection process will get you there

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Originally Posted by Lovinglifeinaustin

I like to see ladies with superior planning and communication skills, reliable, excellent reputations, attention to details, nice locations close to home, reasonable prices, enthusiasm, intelligence, and a pretty smile.
I do not ask for much. :-

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For a second there I thought I was reading a job posting for a Fortune 500 Executive Assistant offering a six-digit salary!

All kidding aside, the truth of the matter is that not all providers do this as a first choice. Far from it, in some cases.

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Originally Posted by firstandlast

For a second there I thought I was reading a job posting for a Fortune 500 Executive Assistant offering a six-digit salary!

All kidding aside, the truth of the matter is that not all providers do this as a first choice. Far from it, in some cases.

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I’ve met providers who would probably make excellent executive assistants. And other professions, such as teachers, accountants, lawyers, etc. But sex work offers them a more flexible schedule they can use to spend more time with their kids.

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Originally Posted by Lovinglifeinaustin

I’ve met providers who would probably make excellent executive assistants. And other professions, such as teachers, accountants, lawyers, etc. But sex work offers them a more flexible schedule they can use to spend more time with their kids.

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Yup this is the main reason I've done it. Not to mention the cost of living is atrocious. I also like to spoil my kid, which has gotten very expensive to go anywhere or do anything. Dropped $350 at the Rodeo/Carnival alone last week in all of 6hrs.

I'm here as first stop on my tour. It's a pretty city and I've met some gentlemen who are very very kind. I myself believe a quality provider is someone who enjoys me as a person and vice versa. I don't mind a quicker experience, it's their choice. Not everyone wants to hang out. I respect it. I offer kindness, a clean safe environment and a shower and beverage if they choose. I'm a person, they are not just a number. Kindness cost nothing. Good thread!

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Originally Posted by NativeAmerican

Those are all spot on.

I think attitude in general is a great indicator on how a hobbyist?s session is going to go. I had a provider cancel on me a while back just from simply asking her if she could provide me a massage, and I told her that I was perfectly fine if she wasn?t feeling up to it. It?s always the same story in reviews.. when hobbyists start off with the provider showing signs of a bad attitude, the sessions never go well.

I think it?s fair to say, hobbyists in general are feeling less confident with the hobby compared to before the pandemic. One thing I appreciate about you is, you are proactively seeking to learn the various preferences of your customers. That?s a major green flag and will likely add confidence to the hobbyist who are interested in seeing you. Great topic OP!

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This so much. We learn. If I have a headache, why am I going to give you a rotten time? I want to greet with a hug and smile and leave with one.

If I get negotiated with, I already dislike the person. Imagine the woman who is in need and takes on the negotiating client and he gets a crap session. I would give a crap session, even if he agreed to my original rate, to me it's personal and I dislike him and don't stop disliking him. When they say "it doesn't hurt to try, it definitely does".

Many shitty sessions are burn out from the provider, menially and physically exhausted. Or first contact before he got there. I decided to not work under either condition.

I have not had a bad experience yet. I did have someone text this morning "I want something fast and sloppy". I blocked. He apologized, I told him I'm not his type. A gentleman will make a appointment like a human being. He didn't even say 6 words, but it told me enough about how he was. His character, and his respect. If I saw him, I would had disliked him off the bat just for that, I chose to not give him a bad session. In my opinion he would had deserved it, just my opinion. He may have been a great guy!

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Originally Posted by Deja Tha Doll

Lol that part babe.....I'll read reviews and alerts from guys who didn't want to provide screening information for me or had an issue with providing a deposit, then a few weeks, or months, later they went for either another companion here, or off of another site, or perhaps one off of the streets, who happened to be asking for less, and that hobbyist ultimately ended up coming back to this site with a sob story/alert/review. And I think to myself the exact same thing firstandlast, like "welp, what tf did they expect"?!

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This so much. We learn. If I have a headache, why am I going to give you a rotten time? I want to greet with a hug and smile and leave with one.

If I get negotiated with, I already dislike the person. Imagine the woman who is in need and takes on the negotiating client and he gets a crap session. I would give a crap session, even if he agreed to my original rate, to me it's personal and I dislike him and don't stop disliking him. When they say "it doesn't hurt to try, it definitely does".

Many shitty sessions are burn out from the provider, menially and physically exhausted. Or first contact before he got there. I decided to not work under either condition.

I have not had a bad experience yet. I did have someone text this morning "I want something fast and sloppy". I blocked. He apologized, I told him I'm not his type. A gentleman will make a appointment like a human being. He didn't even say 6 words, but it told me enough about how he was. His character, and his respect. If I saw him, I would had disliked him off the bat just for that, I chose to not give him a bad session. In my opinion he would had deserved it, just my opinion. He may have been a great guy!