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How Many Do You Have In A 1 plus hour Sesh?!
🥺If it's not even 1 or just 1 do you still have an interest in seeing that provider again to
Get that "Pop" or just 😏..move on?
Should All Visits Be "PoP" guaranteed
Or your $ back?
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I know the answer , just curious to hear your opinions
& I thought this might be a fun thread.
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💋Nicole
And Mods if in appropriate please remove!!
My apologies & seriously ....just have a little time to kill being silly am also seriously curious!
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Originally Posted by Classysexxx
If they aim to high for 2 pops, and pay for it but can't do it. I don't do refunds.
However I feel bad they didn't get what they "wanted".
It boils down to knowing your body. And sometimes learning means trying that hour long session the first few times and try it. If it doesn't after 3x, you are a one shot wonder. There is nothing wrong with that. I've seen 55 year olds that can, 25 year olds that can't. Best to tap out sometimes. Learn yourself!
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Originally Posted by Classysexxx
Noooo. Some who damn well know they are one shot wonders will come, work you to death, then expect a refund. Nothing is guaranteed other than I'll try my best. That's guaranteed!
I agree completely with Anna. You cannot guarantee someone an orgasm regardless of the amount of time scheduled. You can do your very best, you can even add some time, maybe even fairly considerable time if you have it, and you really like them, but you cannot guarantee them an orgasm.Quote:
Originally Posted by Anna Nikkole
If you went to the doctor, a local ER clinic let's say, for an ailment they diagnosed. You get a prescription and all. After a few days it turns out their tests were wrong and you really needed a different prescription. Do you expect the medical office, the staff, or the doctor are going to refund your 1st visit? No. That's part of diagnosing conditions. Trial and error, hit or miss. But it doesn't negate the fact that a nurse, office staff, and an MD looked at you to narrow your issue down and spent their time working on it.
Same thing if you goto a tattoo artist and get a tattoo that afterwards you decide you aren't completely happy with, even though the artist gave you pictures, showed you in a mirror what it would look like, etc... They did the work, used their equipment, spent their time, and you have to pay.
Yes, some artists might give you a partial refund, maybe. In order to pacify a customer and to not hurt business, maybe. Same with the medical doc situation. However that's up to them. If they take their time, use their supplies, and do whatever work requested, you have to pay; and there are [usually] no refunds in such cases.
If you paid a tennis coach to teach your son competitive level tennis in order to get on an elite H.S. team but your son doesn't make the cut do you think the coach should refund the lessons?? Of course not! The guarantee was not, "your student will become an elite high school tennis star....100% no question.". The guarantee was that the coach is qualified, they will do their very best to teach the student, to bring out the best in the student, and hopefully with talent the student "might" make it on a competitive team. That's it.
Just like a sex worker too. The guarantee is not that you will achieve a specific kind of orgasm, or this much/powerful, or this many times, or at all. The guarantee is that they will do their best in a reasonably allotted timeframe to provide a passionate, intimate, sexual experience such that most men whose equipment isn't broken, or whom have the ability to orgasm, likely can/will orgasm.
However, that leaves a lot of open ground. The man might take too long and he can't orgasm in anywhere near the allotted time. Maybe the man can't orgasm at all on this day. Maybe he has done something to insult the girl and now the passion & intimacy is impossible. Maybe he doesn't like her looks and can't orgasm as a result.
None of these things are her fault. If you didn't like her look your should have said something upfront. All the other things are on the guy, if she provides passionate intimacy and he can't cum that's on him.
He shouldn't expect any refund, depending on a few circumstances, like maybe there was no chemistry and she realizes it too and that she couldn't be very intimate or passionate, so she "might" offer some sort of partial discount or refund. Up to her.
I can't fathom asking for money back, or discounted from the session, b/c I didn't "cum" unless there were certain serious extenuating circumstances (i.e. like a pimp/BF in the other room, constant knocking at door, constant phone rining, ghastly smells, hygiene, <forbidden topic issues>...). Yea, then you might say something.
Otherwise I cannot imagine expecting a refund. I have never ever expected a refund or discount. Yes, there have been times I couldn't cum over the various years. As I said in another thread, that doesn't mean I didn't enjoy myself. I might have had incredible & immense enjoyment from the foreplay, intimate acts, kissing, touching, the sex itself...
If I couldn't cum that doesn't mean I expect money back. That's silly except for some of the odd circumstances I mentioned up above. IJS.
Another interesting question, I feel this question has alot of variables. I agree with anna and mathguy here that there are no guarantees in this business or many other business in fact. i feel like there are factors in play; hence many YMMV are mentioned.
1. The amount of time booked: i believe, personally, that QV or half hour shouldnt be guarantee anything. But those are too short of a time for a provider to do everything they can to make you feel comfortable and then get you off assuming without a hitch. However, for an hour or more sessions, i do believe there should be a 1 "pop" but no guarantee for multiple. If you offer the option to, then thats completely depends on how the session goes. There isnt a playbook and here so every session is different. But assuming everything is normal, (guy has no medical condition, can get hard, didnt jack off like 15 times before coming to the session), for an hour, i do believe 1 "pop" would be so call "guarantee" as long as both parties are doing their parts.
2. Service level: as i mention on my previous point, both parties doing their part. it does mean that both the provider and client is trying to achieve that. If you book and hour session and you expect the provider to ride you for an hour to get you off, thats not gonna happen. Provider can get tired and it can be physically exhausting just being on top the entire time. But at the same time, (this is somewhat from experience) provider cant just lay there or have the back turn and just tell the client to get on with it. I had experience one time where the provider just say "im all dicked out" after a couple minutes and stop providing service. So, yes if both parties are trying and doing their best to achieve this 1 "pop" and it doesn't come i think that would lie in the clients fault.
But, as i and others mention, there are not guarantees. However, if you believe that the session is somehow your fault that the 1 "pop" didnt happen in an hour long session. Maybe as a curtesy to extend a little time to try or give some discount for the next visit. I dont think refund is a thing in this business and i think if anyone ask or expects a refund is probably not gonna have a great time since the mood is already ruin. But i only said the discount next visit as to only if you believe session didnt go well due to a fault on your part.
Since my rates apply to my TIME and Companionship......
Sure....I feel bad if they can't go more than once in an hour. But no way in hell I'm giving a refund. That's ridiculous to even suggest. LOL
It's bad enough that there are already horrible dudes out there that feel they have a right to just TAKE their money back if they can't get exactly what they wanted.
But hey....Any provider that feels that she should give a refund has that right. Her body, her rules. Her time to give away if she chooses.
Well look who's back.Quote:
Originally Posted by Classysexxx
Welcome my saucy dear!
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I would never guarantee such shenanigans.
Many males are not able to climax due to health reasons, dietary changes, against their religion and many other reasons.
You try it and let us know how that works out.
*smiles*
I'll say that I can get 2 in an hour. I remember one time when I was taking on these 2 beautiful companions in San Antonio, on one of my birthdays. We had a social that day as well. I blew twice actually in a 20 minute time frame.Quote:
Originally Posted by Italia DiBella
I was doing all sorts of licking, rubbing, a finger here and there....so I suit up and get to stretching one of their vajayjay's in lazy dog, then BOOM! First pop.
Then they pull of the condom just after unloading...i guess they were feeling super erotic as they both started licking and sucking my joy stick and jewel hehe. Then out of nowhere BOOM again on their faces and hair and they didn't stop until they got every last drop outta me!
It was naughty AF! So 2 nuts in one hour is possible depending on how raunchy and hot and steamy a session can be.
^^ haaa naughty naughty
Your memoir would be an interesting read.
I'm still working on mine.
Yup. Basically everything I was saying. As a guy I totally agree :thumb: And the mention about guys that actually think they can "TAKE" money back is definitely screwed up. It's predatory and intimidating. Not good. :nono:Quote:
Originally Posted by Krystal_RoseBBW
I once came 4 times in 15 mins. Of course I had to do a lot of the jerking. Oh yeah forgot to mention I was master-bating to porn
The best hobby session I ever had was with Allison for those that remember that gem. She got 3 out of me in an hour and then kept singing "Si Mas"...that is the only session I have ever had to tap out....
I took a rw "friend" to Lake Charles a few years ago and knocked 7 out in just over 24hrs. Good times...
In My youth 2 in an hour or three, Sometimes. Now 1 in an hour. Have fun while you can.
When I was younger 2+ would not be an issue. Now that I am older I book an hour and hope for the best. I don't think a provider owes me a finish. I do feel like she should give it her best attempt. I will not see a provider again that doesn't at least try. I can explain how to make it happen and it does not take much. Most times I am just too shy to say "hey do this, this and this other thing and it will happen quickly". I know that it is my problem, but I tip really good when a provider sees there is an issue and takes matters into her hands. The best provider I have ever been with I told her "don't feel bad if it doesn't happen", she replied "I am good at what I do, it will happen" that was hella sexy and she nailed it in a couple of minutes. She made me feel like a teenager again.
I am paying for your time, but I tip based on the quality. Some providers leave money on the table so to speak
AMPs are funny though. Some of those ladies take it personal and get kind of angry. One lady throttled the life out of my guy.
First time I met you for a 2 hour session I didn’t even know what MSOG was. You got 3 pops out of me. You completely kicked my ass and I enjoyed every minute of it. You are an animal under the sheets. And above. :bowdown:Quote:
Originally Posted by Classysexxx
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Originally Posted by Classysexxx
Do you have a pop guarantee? With as much as you talk I would hope so!
They always pop with me unless theirs a health issue ! I’m definitely MSOG and if your not then you’re limiting your audience with better quality that they will resort to!