Do you feel sexting should be a service which is included in the donation given when setting up an appt with a provider?
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Do you feel sexting should be a service which is included in the donation given when setting up an appt with a provider?
All comments are welcome!
I don’t think it should be required or expected but if you have a connection and a friendship, it can be fun
Agreed Hex
I am a head game guy, so it makes it that more enticing. It adds to the buildup for the meet. To me, it also knocks the jitters down, But that is just me.
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When a provider does sexting with me it makes me want to see her that much more.
Required no....but love when so.e my regs sext me before apt...or just out of the blue....
Once your screened Naughty talk is part of the foreplay to me.....
It would make it so much more personal and fun. And I would definitely enjoy the anticipation of seeing her. Mandatory no but as an extra benefit it would be fun. Most guys could not do though because of the situation they might be in.
Expected no but depending on the situation (many of us just cant text except for specific times and days) especially now with many working from home. In a perfect world yes it adds to the excitement and anticipation and for first time visits helps break the ice somewhat.
We are paying for the ladies in person time, not wasting their time texting.
I'll admit I'm one of those late to the party guys, so I'm conditioned that text foreplay/sexting is not the way to go.
Maybe with an ATF but that's it.
If I’m being picky, I like a happy medium between straight business and sexting, partly because I’m terrible at sexting myself, but I also like knowing that my excitement in seeing a provider is reciprocated!
Either way though, I don’t gripe AT ALL as long as there’s effective communication pre-meetup.
I would rather a girl sext me than tell me about her Lonely Fans page.
Not required but maybe appreciated if received. Realistically, I can see it becoming a job in itself and see why it hasn't happened much for me anyway. People are busy making a living on both sides and ultimately time is $$$.
It's definitely not a requirement for me, but I have to admit that I like it. One provider that I had been seeing for a while, I actually asked her to start sexting me. I thought it would be much more exciting than the usual "Hey, how are you?" "When are you coming to see me?"
Some providers just aren't built that way. As much as she tried it just always seemed fake to me, like she was forcing it. Sooooo, if it's not your thing, don't.
Definitely not expected, possibly not even feasible unless they are a low volume provider. With the right person it could be fun and it would definitely add to the excitement, if believable/not generic.
Not required or expected but a plus if needed.
Have to admit, quite surprised that 70% think it should be a requirement for the lady to use her time providing a sexting service. Would they also be willing to up the donation rate for that additional service? Agreed, adds to excitement and if a lady exchanges a few sexy texts, I'm more likely to see her more often. On the other hand, it would be a valuable marketing tool, kind of like sexy pics or well written ads. Requirement? NO. Would it enhance the overall experience, Absolutely! That being said, up to the provider and the client and what happens between two consenting adults is a matter of personal preference.
While I don't think it should be required or expected, there is something to say for the anticipation and build up of excitement that comes with some erotic sexting (for many people, at least). If I have an appointment scheduled for 2, 3, or more days in advance, it excites me to know she's thinking about our upcoming rendezvous too. It definitely adds bonus points for her when it comes time for a tip and/or a review. Just my 2 cents worth.
Included as part of a service, I personally dont think so. But it is nice to add some flair to the situation.
Just my opinion from the new girl 😏
I regularly sexttext with 2 of my regular companions. I see this being a big plus for those of us who have built a close relationship...this makes the encounters that much more special. There is a greater anticipation
Most of us appear to agree that it isn't a requirement but it is a nice bonus. But that's only viewing it from the guy side. The provider should see it as a way to minimize no shows and cancelations. Guys are visually aroused. If you give them eye candy and occasional texts of flirtation, they will be more likely to show up. When I first started hobbying, I would get cold feet sometimes even after I walked in the room because I felt there wasn't chemistry and it was going to be a wasted session. Setting and flirty texts would have likely broken the ice in advance.
Really surprised more ladies haven't given their 2 cents here. I'd guess I'm in the minority for enjoying some naughty talk as foreplay to a playtime(Yes, only once screened or returning friends)I'll even have a slut Jack Off in my name(selfish of me as I want fresh cum) lol
No, but I don’t understand why so many get so irritated about it. Some ladies seem to forget what we are all doing here.
noy requierd but it would be much nicer than the regular
hey im available today
or when are you coming to see me
or im back in Houston
with a little sexting i feel less of an atm
something like babe my panties are wet come help me
honeybi just drove back in town to see you cum with me .....
i dont know there are many ways to turn a man ......
I definitely enjoy it, but i don't expect it. If the girl is into it, then i'm definitely happy to do it.
No, I wouldn't say that its part of their job. but it would definitely help me make a decision and could benefit the provider. as long as guys understood that 2 or 3 messages was just for fun and could let it go at that
Not needed for an actual session.
However, I have had a provider that I've seen several times contact me all dry with just "Hey!"...maybe even a "How are you?"
After a few times of her doing that I suggested to her that if she's going to text, she may as well sext. Sexting would probably make me wanna come spend time with you more than a text I'd get from a civvy chick. But, the drawback was, even when she tried to sext it just didn't seem natural. It just wasn't in her.
It sure can build up the excitement before the meet. I’ve had a few do it and it led to some steamy visits. I find this more with the latina women. Most of them are full of passion anyway.
Total waste of time for me. I'm not a teenager.
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