When you’re on a date, do you prefer Props such as, candles, dimmed light, petals, fragrance, television or music, toys, lingerie, etc....
Do you prefer or not prefer.
xoxo
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When you’re on a date, do you prefer Props such as, candles, dimmed light, petals, fragrance, television or music, toys, lingerie, etc....
Do you prefer or not prefer.
xoxo
I provide answers to those questions in my P411 profile. So if the lady reads my profile as thoroughly as I do hers, and her website if she has one, she has no excuse for not knowing.
But I already know I'm a different breed of cat. Most guys don't fill out schyet, and then they have to cover it in conversations, or polls. ;-)
I'm not in the target demographic. It'll be interesting to see what the pack says.
Music if fine. As long as it is what I like. Candles are fine. If the girls want them. TV just makes me get interest in something else.
Any music except country, dim lighting (not dark,I'm a visual type of person) candles or toys for her is ok if she wants them. TV off or providing music only.
I echo that my p411 tells prospective ladies precisely what I'm looking for in a meet up. When I send a prescreening request and don't get a response I just assume the lady is not interested. :)
I do like candles and some fun music, dressed nicely but I don't expect a prom night doll-up, comfy is better for my play
I agree! But I’m so sensual and passionate. I love candles, fragrance, music if I’m really in the mood. It’s a turn on.
Candles are always good
TV is def not needed to me. I’m fine with candles, music, toys, and all that. Mood setters :)
I'm just happy when there is a naked woman in the room......
My reptilian brain is rather simple and one track in this situation, and usually doesn't notice much else other than the woman... so if she wants, she can have, I won't see them until I am looking for my clothes...
I dig the toys and lingerie.. never done the porn but would like to try it. I’m all about new experiences. I up for damn near anything ....... I just looking for a “nice girl “ to have her way with me.
I'm a hopeless romantic. Dinner. Candles. Lingerie (for her not for me). Hot tub. full body sensual massage. Then I'm ready for a nap!
I hear ya, abaddon. Preach on, brah! I'm a fan of GFE variations. I'm too vanilla to appreciate PSE. I'll save that for videos.
Lol well this old lady has a Shag pad in Springfield that is cool as Austin Powers....
And when I travel I always dress my incall to the nines!
Disco laser light...candles...candy bowel w candy or moonpies...rc chilled with cutesy glassware...sometimes jello shots or buttery nipple shots....cool music....sometimes baloons and streamers for special occassions....cubed ice blowjobs....throwblankets n funky pillowcases on the bed....Sid the sloth always travels with me....and of course Irish Spring/bubblebath and rubber duckies
I even set a table display...with skull decor on a on a skull themed tablecloth....or with a theme for the time of year (right now I have a flamingo themed summer table....so if you wanna get me a flamingo decor..lol)
Enigma on my tunes. If no candles(some hotels won't allow) then I change the lamp bulbs to red. Usually lingerie unless requested otherwise.
I personally love candles, as long as they are unscented. Some of those “aroma therapy” candles drive my nose crazy. Lol. But the soft glow they produce is a big improvement over the hideous blue/purple/green lighting from fluorescent or LED lights in most hotels these days.
Having the TV on or phone unmuted is a huge turn off for me. Playing with the phone during a session is 2 strikes in my book.
Candles are a must, nothing is worse than rude lighting. Music to tame the savage beast. Lingerie is a great touch even if it is worn for about one minute......
Battery-powered candles are a thing. Mood lighting; no objectionable scent and no fire hazard. I've seen those used in several of my visits.
This. IMO, if she's relaxed I'm relaxed. I don't mind some more womanly things like candles/fragrance or some mood lighting once things move that direction. TV is an absolute no go. I find it's too distracting and ruins moments. Music can be okay, but I feel like unless you already know what people want to listen to, it could be a source of conflict.
Battery operated- flicker candles I love. And have! I love a little romance... and mood setters. Especially the first date.....which reminds me I’ve been thinking of getting a pelvic block.. ( hehehe )
Will that make taint photos easier to post?
I enjoy heels and stockings totally agree with dressing to the nines! Makes me feel sexy and ready to play.
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Oh and throw bsck jams a must
The props are all well and good for me, if they are for her.
My usual preferences begin with
-- chemistry
-- communication
-- comfort
-- copulation
I don't expect to be "wooed" but I certainly do hope for "wood!"
I agree! Solely!
I just like mood setters for the first time but if the connections are there that’s a plus... i don’t like things feeling like a character in a porn movie. It’s not fun
I'm generally not a big fan of props. Setting the ambiance is one thing. But stuff that distracts me aren't really in my wheel house.
"I AM" the props.... lol :Big Boobs:
A clean, well groomed lady who is genuine.
A clean safe room.
a couple bottles of water.
#winning
Suzanna, I'm with you. When I leave, all I remember is the woman and the experience. The setting just disappears from my memories. It just needs to be safe and discreet.
So curious bc of what most are saying.. you dont care about a provider taking the time to make you feel wanted, aroused, interested and relaxed? If I was a man I wouldn’t want To walk into a room with nothing and her dressed in pajamas or normal clothes. Especially GFE I don’t want back page vanilla ice cream but that’s just me!
Oh dear... let's see... I wonder if I can answer this without being long-winded...
What I have discovered over time are a few things...
First, the gents do not want us to go out of our way for them if it's going to cause us any issues such as running late or causing us to stress out. For the most part, they just want a relaxing stress free time for both parties. If the props are something that the lady enjoys, they are for it. If props are something that will cause the lady extra work and stress, they are not for it. Of course, I can not speak for all of our wonderful clients, but most of the ones I have been privileged to spend time with.
I am the most relaxed when I am myself, and I am not trying to impress anyone... I just present them myself. Who I am. Who they will see on return visits, each time. No makeup, comfortable but sensual clothing, no props but maybe I will have wine available to drink if it suits my schedule. There are LED candles in my incall... my incall roommate and girlfriend enjoys being very classy, and she operates differently then I do. We are the same in the fact we are both very real, genuine, warm, and sensual creatures...but everything else is different about us. The way we TCB, how we present ourselves, the props, etc. are different. No surprise we only share a part of our clientele. But all of it is available to me... the candles are there! The rose petals are there! I just need to use them. I don't. Maybe twice I tried the candles, and it just wasn't my cup of tea. It wasn't my style. Just like my wine sets up on the wine rack and she knows it is available for her, but she doesn't like wine...she doesn't use it because it is not her style.
The great thing... no, the absolute best thing about the hobby is the variety. Gents would simply not be here if they didn't want variety, so that should be a no-brainer! We all operate a bit differently...since we have no boss to answer to, no cookie cutter work agenda, no real rules to abide by, we can do what we want in the manner in which we are comfortable with. How I choose to operate, how my roommate operates, how you operate, can all be really differant....but you know what? It doesn't mean one of us is any better or less than the other. It just simply means we are different. You may not operate the same as a BP girl, but you really are not any better and neither am I.... we are just merely different. What scale do we have to judge each other on? There isn't one.... isn't that nice? I rather like that. And some people like vanilla ice cream.
Each gal is different in her presentation and each hobbyist prefers different atmospheres...that is what makes the biz so interesting!
I go out of my way for my incall....BECAUSE it makes me feel good...as a southern gal, I enjoy entertaining... I was raised that way...my. Grandma was the hostess with the mostest and the whole town adored her and visited her often.
It may not mean much to my clients but what counts is how it makes me feel ..which in turn helps me to be the funnest playmate I can be!
We all do things the way it works for us,
So...ladies,do what ya do and have fun!
(I always have irish spring for showering after...and at times when I did not I had gents ask me where it was..lol)
Yes, exactly!
Do what makes YOU the best version of YOU!
Gents will appreciate it, and you will attract the ones you truly want to spend time with.
Dallas said it better with fewer words....lol
Suzanna, I for one liked what you had to say!
THIS!! Is the reason I picked you in the first place. If I wanted somebody different, I would have picked that person. I/we can have the best time together when the expectation level matches the time together. Besides, being with Suzanna will make your head spin and you won't remember your own name, never mind the battery powered candles!!
I am always my self not the version of a pornstar or actress they want. I’m just talking about mood setters. When did this have to turn into a big thing to explain who u are? Lol
Well I like the candles and the wine and the soft music I like the warm body touching and the teasing that follows bc the mood is just there! Mmmmm anyways lol
I think for most of us guys( I can't speak for everyone) a nice quiet clean space a sexy, fun lady and a good time had by everyone evolved is all we really want anything extra as long as it is positive is just icing on the cake.