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Looking to broaden some horizons and wondering if Lindsey Lacey is the girl for some of my first's? Specifically pegging & sounding.
Who has experience with her?
I would like someone that I can be attracted to and connect with, plus good experience to help me explore a bit.
I do also like slender to athletic girls.
Thoughts or suggestions?
I am not the lady for you.
Thank-You for your interest.
Kind Regards,
Lindsey Lacey
Sometimes the best people just do not have good chemistry.
Interesting.
I just PM'd OP a "yes" recommendation.
Better do what the lady says.
Thank-You tomcat2.
Happy you received your verified status.
Damn I had never heard of Sounding....that's some serious kink and sounds like it could be dangerous. Does it make sex better?
It can be dangerous if done improperly. A metal rod is being inserted in your body (urethra), so yes, there is potential for danger. On a side note, you don't have sex while they are in, as the end stays out to keep it from going all the way in (which they can do, speaking from experience as I play with sounds on myself from time to time) Only use the stainless ones. The feelings is like a slow continuous orgasm while the rods are being moved in and out. Very pleasurable indeed.
I am fairly well known as a good provider to see for a first pegging (or not a first pegging.) I enjoy the activity as well as the power exchange.
I do not sound. I don't have the equipment, nor do I have the stomach for it. (of course, I've never it tried either)
Please see my reviews both here and on eccie for more info OR text me at 682-400-4201.
XOXO.
Heidi Fly
Lindsey I totally respect your not having an initial interest in meeting. I noticed you posted your incompatibility thoughts before we even talked on the phone for the 1st time yesterday at 11:06.
So my intent is clear as a new hobbyist, these fetishes I'm interested in experimenting with involve physical sensitivities that are less main stream & that some reference checking should be a normal part of checking for compatible Providers. I'm smart enough to know there are references that are inaccurate for various reasons, however it seems like a logical starting point in the search effort.
I'm still struggling with why a post requesting feedback on a Provider for services, in my opinion a sensitive nature, could be offensive. I have always reference checked any potential employees that I'm looking to partner with, in the hopes of minimizing bad choices for both parties.
I bow to the knowledgeable people in this new world and hope to learn and minimize mistakes.
I welcome a better insight to ensure that an inquiry about a Provider is not any more offensive than necessary. I'm very open to better ways of finding mutual compatibility.
Opinions or feedback is desired.
I just searched Amazon for sounding....wholly torture device Batman they got about 12 different types and sets with different sizes. They got one with 10 different frequencies you can shove down your tiny pee hole. I'm getting too old for this shit I just want to eat lick pussy and finish in missionary.
Your request and thread proved quite interesting and if your intent was to find a newbie friendly provider who was into kink I think you found her. Enjoy!Quote:
Originally Posted by Cruise
Good morning to you Cruise.
My 2 cents on this matter....even though I don't post often here or eccie or any of the other fun sites, I'm more of an observer (guess what....voyeurism is on my list too). Having visited many of the wonderful ladies here, I consider myself friends with a small few, and some others I would do my best to avoid. For me, all are based on how we communicate with each other. Even if some have 100% of everything I desire in a fetish or want, if we don't connect, then there is no reason for me to visit them initially, or on a subsequent visit. Obviously not having read any personal communication between you and Ms Lindsey, there is no need for me to embark in a 'he said she said' post. All I can suggest is there wasn't a connection between email/text/phone call, and she decided against a visit. Knowing Ms Lindsey a little bit (I consider her in the friend category), I would suggest continuing the search. So many fun ladies to get to know and enjoy. Ms Lindsey just decided against this one, and so it's time to look elsewhere.
To end things on a positive note, have you tried Goddess Ashlee? I have visited her too, and she also does all the things you desire.
Gaww-Lee, I have a lot to learn. Ahab11 had to spell it out for me earlier in this thread. I'd never heard of sounding till now. I'm certainly not judging, but they so much as advertise catheter subscriptions on late night TV and I instinctively reach for my crotch in a defensive position. On the other hand, the part about extending an orgasm sounds interesting. Would sure like to see a video.
Hey Tom, never had a catheter, and from hearing how others have described it going in....I could see your trepidation for sure! A suggestion would be (for you or anyone) to get a urethra/sounding rod online, along with surgical lube. Just get the smallest one, or 2 smallest sizes, and try it yourself. We know our own bodies and what feels good and what doesn't. I'm the type person who likes to try things out first solo before seeing a professional who does it. This way I can let them know 'I prefer it like this' or 'please don't do that'. If you happen to take the plunge, only get the stainless steel rods. Do NOT get any silicone ones. I made the mistake when first learning and got the silicone ones. One, because they were cheaper, and two, because it was flexible, so I thought it would feel better following the curve inside me. Come to find out the hard way...my body doesn't agree with silicone. Not only did it burn, but my urethra swelled shut, and the tip of my cock looked like the plant in little shop of horrors....except it wasn't asking for semour to feed it. I almost went to the ER, but thankfully the swelling went down overnight, and it resolved itself. Just be safe in trying this. If you are not careful, or someone else isn't....then you get to explain to the ER nurse how this happened. Have fun!! :)
There's any number of porn movies out there with sounding featured. I was going to include a link to one, but decided it might be against the rules. Just google "sounding" with SafeSearch turned off. Looks like it's for real. Don't think it's for me, though.
Totally agree KinkyBrian. There are many good girls on this site that I'm learning about. Thanks for the lead with Goddess Ashlee.
And just an FYI regarding Lindsey Lace, We are good. After we spoke the first time on the phone we were fine.
She said she just didn't like that I posted asking about her on the open forum and I was to call and talk with her. Which was true. Which was the purpose of the call. I didn't at that time know she had replied negatively to my post until our 1st phone call and she told me. She wanted me to follow her directions and I thought I was. She didn't mention not to ask about her on the forum and I had no idea that she would be offended. Checking references is such a normal activity with my business.
Wihile I think I have a pretty good grasp of the business world, I'm such a newly to this world and still learning the ropes.
Appreciate all advice & help
Thanks. I can't seem to find "Goddess Ashlee" or variations of her name.
This could well be me not searching the right places.
My suggestion would have been to research Ms. Lacey. She's been around for years and many reviews. No need to really ask about her publicly. Seems like the more appropriate place would have been to ask in the men's private area. Also, she's a woman, not a girl.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cruise
Surely you don't reference-check potential employees on public forums. And comparing a companion/provider to an employee isn't cool either. What providers/companions offer is intimate and personal. There are good and bad ways to contact providers. For a new hobbyist, calling an established provider out like this will only get you blocked from seeing a lot of providers.
Just remember, anytime you contact a provider on here, she will search your handle and see this thread and it could backfire on you.
Just my two cents.
Appreciate your feedback. I did not even think that inquiry about a person on the coed forum would be thought of as "calling someone out". I was operating under the thought that if a person had a good reputation, which I has since found out that Lindsey Lace does have a good reputation, that people would rally to her support, both Hobbiests & Companions. And the opposite if reports were negative, I would assume I would get descrete PM's telling me so.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lil Oral Annie
Your point is well received. Thanks
Recommendations work better in the men's locker room. I made the mistake once of asking a question regarding a term (to a provider) and got a "do not contact me". So something's being asked in public may not go well. Honestly, I'm good with extra caution.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cruise