Do you find that clients are Not verified are harder to screen then those few that will admit they are verified. Those many provides are accepting those mash OK hobbies
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Do you find that clients are Not verified are harder to screen then those few that will admit they are verified. Those many provides are accepting those mash OK hobbies
Why would a hobbyist want to conceal their verified status?
I have found some verified dont like to give their "EXCLUSIVE REG." IN FEAR SHE will get upset they chose another lady when they werent available.. Silly but true ..
So alot of unverified only deal with one or two and dont want to hurt feelings either.
Ms. Athena are these guys possibly verified elsewhere? Just not here. I always ask cus sometimes its a bit easier to verify them using their other profie?
Yep I have tons of clients coming to see me that tell me the same thing they couldn't give me the regular because she gets real Bitchie when he's with someone else well ladies this is a hobo board this is a place where we share money just like drug dealers on the streets that dollars not guaranteed to be yours nor mine learn how to share sometimes it'll be hard sometimes it'll be easy but get over it I hate when they do that any one of my regulars that can be a regular I've seen for 12 years could call and ask me for a reference in your damn straight I'm going to give it to him why because I'm not jealous I want my regulars to have fun and if having fun means then partaking in other women every now and then that's completely fine with me we're all *****s what the f***Quote:
Originally Posted by lovelyxxxo
Yes mam and I usually end up ignoring them.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ms.Athena
It seems with unverified gents its like pulling teeth for their information. Just not worth it.
I also stopped asking for references and do my own screening. Some of these chicks are just something else.
^^ I relate ! Easier & faster to do our own screening without the hassleQuote:
Originally Posted by Reese McClain
There are some ladies i wont bother asking just like theres some ladies that will be used that will bar me from going any further then messaging. Its great to know if theyve seen those ladies so i know not to waste time meeting with them..i also check review board to collect my blacklist if theyve seen regardless if yes or no they get added to the blacklist on my notepad. Yea some are super pop. Or been around awhile so its cuts down alot but hey i prefer quality over quantity anyday.
this is a hobby for men who like variety!! Naturally they will see one a lot but it's getting ridiculous! You know. What happened to keeping each other safe and giving references? I understand this is a business and ref should be good for a 60-90 day period but half the ladies won't even do that!!! It's crazy
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Originally Posted by lovelyxxxo
I AGREE WITH THATQuote:
Originally Posted by Reese McClain
A cutthroat industry Bae ...agree with everything you saidQuote:
Originally Posted by Giselle LaRue
Well regardless of how other providers deal with reference requests in order to verify a hobbiest I'm still going to be Reference friendly. I have lots of my regular clients that will notify me and ask to use me as reference. I'm always open to it because I'm confident in service I provide. We can all share and also keep each other safe on both sides.
Ms. Athena
Id love to say everyone is refrence friendly but they arent if it takes them 2 to 3 days to provide a refrence chances are its intentional. And once this happens this lady in my opinion is no longer refrence friendly which is why guys seem to prefer other screening methods then the ladies they have seen as well. Its sad when said refrence posted a ad at noon the same day that you sent a verification at 1130 a.m. wish everyone would work together but they wont you know how many times ive heard "she hasnt got back to you, but she just texted me 5 min ago asking to meet".. Its saddening to see this is how its become but it is the game thats played now. I happily refrence if i log in that day you will get a response that day my refrence comes first before my other actions here. I happily give refrences but im slowly getting away from asking for them
Theres to many other ways to verify safety then to be stuck waiting on a response
I was verified, and give references, but then when it comes to booking something, they are late getting back to me, such a drag.
Not sure what you meant by ^^^... maybe a typo? Clarify, please...Quote:
Those many provides are accepting those mash OK hobbies
Also, I have heard so many of the ladies that I've seen complain about other women not getting back promptly with a reference. Earlier on, I would get ladies that would tell me that I could use them for a reference, butt to not give out their phone number... Other ladies want the phone number...
Good grief...
I empathize with you but it's just easier & faster to let the lady do screening instead of waiting for references that takes days :imsorry:Quote:
Originally Posted by odinrobeson
I love P411. I contacted a lovely young woman today who’s moving soon to South Austin. She perused my P411 profile and I’m good to go. Easy peasy!
This is so funny reading the responses here. As this had nothing to do with having references. Butt only the status OH2 gives if Verified or non Verified. And was it really necessary as if counted for nothing towards screening and references. .
hmmmm, You got a point
OP, our responses may have seemed off target because few of us knew what you were asking.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ms.Athena
“Do you find that clients are Not verified are harder to screen then those few that will admit they are verified.”
Clients have no need to admit they are verified. It’s right there in black and white in their profile. Granted, non-verified clients are most likely harder to screen. That stands to reason. One reason why we have newby friendly providers.
“Those many provides are accepting those mash OK hobbies”
What? Please translate. I have no idea what this means. Skittles didn’t either, and you didn’t respond to his request for translation.
Have a great weekend love.
Not exactly sure what the lovely Ms. A was asking, either. References are between companions and based on the safe behavior and prompt payment of clients. "Verified," as interpreted solely in the context of a non-profit board set up over a decade ago with the vast majority of members coming from another fallen Hobby home, was for site privacy/security purposes at the time. Had nothing to do with screening for sessions then, and still doesn't.
"Verified" just confirms that new members have been seen nekkid by established Hobby participants, and that we are all part of the same carnal community. Please don't read anything else into it.
H2 has grown and evolved over the years with the needs of the membership, and continues to do so with the influx of new peeps and ideas. Some title designation adjustments are being considered.
Personally, I rely on a number of research methods including and aside from references, and haven't had any more trouble screening non-verified than I would verified fellows, or newbies vs. actual experienced "Hobbyists." However, I don't see many gents anymore (especially in the last few months), so am not the best example. More input needed by ladies who do this on a current and regular basis, yes?
As its been several moons ago and my spell check on my phone tend to say what ever it feels like. Butt I was asking what is the difference or need for veriftied VS non verified. After I've jumped through the hoops to verify someone...I really don't see the benefit. Its Not screening. So......Have a great day
After (you screen and) see a guy, you may vouch for him (vouch JUST to the fact that you saw him) to OH2...Quote:
As its been several moons ago and my spell check on my phone tend to say what ever it feels like. Butt I was asking what is the difference or need for veriftied VS non verified. After I've jumped through the hoops to verify someone...I really don't see the benefit. Its Not screening. So......Have a great day
At some point, after 2-3 of providers vouch, the lucky guy will get upgraded to a better status and get 'verified'... :cheers:
Verified guys do get more access within this site.
They get to see written and (maybe) image content behind hidden tags in the review area...
this is commonly referred to as the ROS (rest of the story). :twothumbs:
Unverified guys see only a PG overview of the sesh -- butt they know that the detailed content is 'hidden'... :hardhead:
So for a guy, it is helpful to have been verified 'by providers' to a Verified hobbyist BCD status... on this board.
Reading the detail of a review can be very helpful in determining whether or not to see a provider.
That privilege on Eccie was achieved thru writing reviews (self vouch) or thru payment (cash vouch).
On OH2, verified providers must actually vouch :cheerleader: for a hobbyist to get him verified and fully into the site.
In either case, this 'status' on it's own is not such a good initial provider screening tool
butt... it should add a bit more to the green light than to the red light... :rockon:
IMHO, (and in a reverse sense) I am a bit reluctant to see a provider that is non-verified on OH2... :wtf:
all the best, ladies and gents... :wink:
PS> You ladies may indeed need to jump thru hoops to verify a guy (to your standards before seeing him)...
I understand and respect that process -- and your decision.
...butt an OH2 vouch for the guy (to get him OH2 verified) is just a PM note...
to CK stating that "YUP, I've had a sesh recently with JumpingJoeBobbyCock69"
The men should grasp that being verified doesn't mean you get to bypass safety screening when ladies do private incalls & don't use motels. Just pointing out the safety. A few guys randomly stopping by without an appointment has happened