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How important is a ladies incall to you? It's very high on my list as I do not like notel's but rather enjoy a nice relazing get together with the lady. I have been to nice homes as well as gated apartments which they have set up to work out of. and ladies what is yourpoint of view on this as well.
Her having an incall is important to me. If she's outcall only, I won't see her.
For local indies it is very important, although I've seen several ladies from Dallas when they visit our great city.
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Personally, I like the lady to have an incall as it serves two purposes in my mind-1) she should be more comfortable in her own lair & 2) it tends to demonstrate an ability to be successful in what she does.
I would rather an incall. I hate people I don't know coming to my place and as I have been to Patel's place a number of times, I don't like those visits.
I so prefer private incall followed by a nice notel incall (not Mr Patel's place). Usually more comfortable for me as long as they have a queen size bed.
Much rather go to a quiet and clean incall than to have to find a room somewhere. It isn't a deal breaker for me but I sorta have a point system that enough demerits could put her under someone else in my long list of ToDo's.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (htownhunter @ Feb 25 2009, 12:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>I'm sorry, darlin, but why does having an incall location (I assume that you're referring to a static one like an apartment or home) have any relation to a lady being "successful" in what she does?Quote:
Personally, I like the lady to have an incall as it serves two purposes in my mind-1) she should be more comfortable in her own lair & 2) it tends to demonstrate an ability to be successful in what she does.[/b]
I suppose "successful" is relative. I consider myself successful as I make my entire living as a companion and have no problem paying my bills and putting a little aside for my boob job. (Kidding. I actually want a tummy tuck. :P ) The majority of the gentlemen that I see have me visit a place of their choosing. I do have a favorite motel that I only use about once a week, so it isn't cost-efficient for me to rent on anything more than an afternoon or overnight basis. I do try to "make it my own" by adding candles, music, perhaps a table cloth with a vase of flowers, a soft throw on the bed, snacks, some good Irish whiskey and real glasses to drink it from, toiletries for the gentlemen, etc. (Hmmmm, do other ladies who use notels try to "re-decorate" them for a cozier feel at all?) Should I see gentlemen in the place that I call home? Well, I live in outer Mongolia Children-of-the-Corn BFE, the deep, dark spooky woods north of Houston, so that wouldn't work, plus there's the safety factor, i.e. "Don't play where you stay." Yes, it is more convenient for a lady to have her own lair, but if she is comfortable with herself, she'll be comfortable anywhere, and should be able to put you at ease.
Incall is preferred because of Htownhunder's 1st reason but will accommodate those who prefer it or need it to be outcall.
Patel's Place! LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!
See, I'm still a N00b. 'Cause I always thought that outcall meant, like, my house, or a room in a real hotel.
And Patel has a place just down the street!
So, to answer the question. If she doesn't have an incall, I pass.
I tend to prefer the incall. Seems more comfy. But on occasion, I vist an upscale hotel. I no longer visit the Patels.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (usetacould @ Feb 25 2009, 10:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>DUDE! That avatar is wrong in so many ways!Quote:
I tend to prefer the incall. Seems more comfy. But on occasion, I vist an upscale hotel. I no longer visit the Patels.[/b]
But, I like it. :D
I dont have an incall. I share a home but even if I did live alone, I wouldn't want someone I just met to know where I live. Also, it is a slight hassle but there are plenty of reasonably priced, nice hotels all over town if a man cant host. I love hotels. (Notels, not so much). Also, I do ok but cant imagine spending 600-1000+ bucks a month on an unneeded apartment.
Hotel expenses can add up but have known a few creative guys who were able to write them off or be reimbursed by their employer
Caution... another NOOB POV....
...it depends...
If you tend to favor shorter encounters, in-call is HUGE! You don't want just anybody in your home. Likewise, you don't want the aggravation of arranging accommodations for what will be a rather limited interaction. I completely understand the notion of the lady who said she didn't want "us" in her home, either. However, the onus is on you to know your clientele. If that's what a majority of your clientele wants, it's on you to have an "office."
NOW... on the other hand...
If you tend to favor longer encounters, arranging accommodations is (or shouldn't be) that big of a deal. It adds to the whole "mini-vacation" vibe, IMHO. Or, you're engaging in such activity with somebody you have enough "chemistry" (read, trust) with to divulge where you hang your hat on a regular basis.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Sisyphus @ Feb 26 2009, 12:15 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>I started off in a Notel here in Houston (8 months). I realized I was paying my morgage payment for a small room so I decided to find a small apt. I have had my private incall studio/apt for 2 years now, less than the morgage payment still, including electrity.Quote:
Caution... another NOOB POV....
...it depends...
If you tend to favor shorter encounters, in-call is HUGE! You don't want just anybody in your home. Likewise, you don't want the aggravation of arranging accommodations for what will be a rather limited interaction. I completely understand the notion of the lady who said she didn't want "us" in her home, either. However, the onus is on you to know your clientele. If that's what a majority of your clientele wants, it's on you to have an "office."
NOW... on the other hand...
If you tend to favor longer encounters, arranging accommodations is (or shouldn't be) that big of a deal. It adds to the whole "mini-vacation" vibe, IMHO. Or, you're engaging in such activity with somebody you have enough "chemistry" (read, trust) with to divulge where you hang your hat on a regular basis.[/b]
I am not as high volume as other providers, but I can afford my studio/office. I like the fact that I have a place to go and work and is seperate of my personal life. Now let's explain that to the maintanence guys,, okay??? :D My incall offers a lot of ammenties that the notel did not, so I can't bitch. As long as I can pay the rent,, it is all good and thank the good Lord above and you gentlemen for taking care of me... ;)
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (htownhunter @ Feb 25 2009, 12:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>So... if she doesn't have an incall she isn't successful?Quote:
it tends to demonstrate an ability to be successful in what she does.[/b]
Incall is very high on my list in fact I dont really go for outcall only girls.
If she doesnt have an incall, I will meet at a notel but prefer she gets the room, Reimbursement depends on the rate. I know many ladies with incalls are doing their incalls a notels and some at the extended stay places.
I do not like getting a room and then waiting for if or when they show up.
I need to get a GPS though as it has become increasingly difficult to read street signs. This is very difficult if you dont have an address so I can look it up and figure out how to get there. This actually would make outcall much better for me if I had a place to outcall to except for the wait which makes it even more difficult to plan for time.
Sned me to an incall anytime. Those are the one that get repeat business.
I rarely do outcalls, only when I'm out of town and have the right hotel room.
Here are my preferences (in order):
Nice incall. Example: The famous high dollar Gina had a townhouse on Gessner with a bar, living room couch, activity room and fabulous shower with a view of a courtyard garden.
There is an incall apt. operation that doesn't like reviews but has a nice apt that is well and luxuriously stocked by the female owner.
Nice hotel: Example: The Dallas girls come down and will stay at the Omni, JWMarriot, or even the Sheraton Suites by the Galleria is nice.
Notel: Some of the non Patel brands are better: Scott's Inn, say.
Sorry incall: The latina apts are pretty spartan: high poly used sheets, lousy bathrooms.
My car: In a pinch.
Despite my preferences I will dip down pretty far on the list if I need to.
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (metal_head @ Feb 25 2009, 03:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>Quote:
I would rather an incall. I hate people I don't know coming to my place and as I have been to Patel's place a number of times, I don't like those visits.[/b]
lol, but we gals should 'enjoy' having people we dont know coming to our place? is that your implication? just curious
<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (houstonsmartgal @ Mar 14 2009, 03:57 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>I don't think that was his implication. Use of Mr Patel's place in some cases is in rather visible places or tend to visit by LE on a regular basis.Quote:
lol, but we gals should 'enjoy' having people we dont know coming to our place? is that your implication? just curious[/b]