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I know we all move at a snails pace on this site. But it looks like we need to get ourselves back in shape for an Eccie return soon! Get ready to stand a little taller and walk a little faster, smile a litttle brighter. For real though, I know we all share the excitement of logging in again! That is the purpose of this post!
Well.... maybe not. The site not looking as optimistic today.
Yeah the sun will be setting a little sooner today....sad
Stallion, since you’re so ready to abandon OH2, why don’t you just go ahead and guest your account here and go wait for the other site to maybe come back up.
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The home page message as of today, June 16.
Funniest shit ever!!!!
POOF be GONE!!!
Its the Wild Wild West!!!
:shooting: :shooting: :shooting:
No one here gives two shits about eccie hints the reason we are here..
Certainly didn’t intend to offend you or anyone else.Quote:
Originally Posted by DocHoliday
They went from about to open to apparently closed for good, without ever unlocking the front door. Not surprised at all. There was obviously a reason they turned out the lights before.
Doc,Quote:
Originally Posted by DocHoliday
I’ve noticed this is a common response (from you) when someone mentions missing Eccie or anticipating its return. And I have no inside skinny on what’s going on in that direction but I’d like to address your statement above.
Although I sincerely like this site and heck, I’ll go a step further: For years, and I mean years, I’ve had a soft spot in my heart for ck1942. Doubt I’m alone with that sentiment. So although I sincerely enjoy this site and have no intention of stopping participation .. damn, I cannot seem to write worth a flip tonight.
Let me try again.
For years, Eccie was my home. There’s no doubt that the site had issues with some of the membership. But in my opinion, Eccie just represented a microcosm of how societies just are. And all groupings have game playing and a few pieces of rotten fruit. Tried to exist, and appreciate Eccie for the opportunities the site presented me, even with those few shortcomings. There are people from Eccie that I’ve known for years and through that medium, we kept in touch.
I’ve found most of the people on Eccie had good intent. And the ones who didn’t shined through with their feckless postings, or trolling or heck, many of us know who and the how of the troublemakers on there.
Eccie has been, however twisted this reads, a source of community and also, provided some grounding at a time when I (desperately) needed the site for the work, and the escape, the site provided. I’m not the only member who considered Eccie a home of sorts.
So give others a break when they express a sense of loss. Heck, I went through damn withdrawals when the site went down. And I miss a whole lot of the aspects of the boards, including a lot of the back and forths.
Whether it returns or not, and hopefully the site will return at some point, seems logical enough that the two sites can co-exist and provide entertainment, and information, on many levels and having both (heck, this site has been around for a very long time) will provide an excellent balance.
Any format out there for sex workers is a good thing at this point. Why knock it?
Happy Saturday.
Kind regards,
Elisabeth
Just give it till Sunday sweet cheeksQuote:
Originally Posted by Stallion
Very well said! Agree 100 percent. A community offers all types of people. Not just the active hobbyists that review. Eccie had posters that no longer hobbyied but gave us insightful knowledge! Others just posted witty and funny posts! This hobby is sometimes considered a brake from reality! Logging in at times I was looking for just that. A brake! Eccie offered all of the above! A true community.Quote:
Originally Posted by elisabethwhispers
Fuck Eccie and all its pimps and managed girls and the predators moving underage girls from city to city...
dirty nasty gents trying to get providers to lower their prices, bully girls into doing things they wouldn’t want to do in fear of a blackmailed negative review. Nasty providers leaking peoples real names and all the bullshit..
administration that didn’t do a damn thing about a lot of things they should have.
uhggh.. And all the rats and snakes on there...
this site site can be 10x what eccie ever was..
all anyone one has to do is put in a little bit of work...
Doc had a valid point.. Be grateful for what you have and show some respect for the man who allows us to hangout here..
because if if it wasn’t for him, where else would everyone hang out and whine at..
Looks like the site is up and running, not completely but I was able to sign in, see my messages and reviews, etc. Not all of the forums are there yet......
The only location-related forum that is available currently is TX. The previously comatose patient is being re-awakened in moderation.
No matter what happens, for me, it's a research resource only. The self-anointed "cool kids" ran me off. Don't need drama or bullshit.
This is home; my peeps.
Yeah, it looks like a like of the forum guidelines on there have changed, particularly for the ladies. Also, terminology has changed - “Reviews” replaces with “Encounter reports”. “Ads” replaced with “Weekly Updates”.
Good call!Quote:
Originally Posted by Dorthy Monroe
I'm glad I found/read this thread. I had my first appointment with a provider at the end of last month, but I'd been holding off on any kind of review or anything until I knew if folks we're sticking around here or if they were just going to flock back to ECCIE once it re-opened...
Why not review here, and then review on Eccie also when available if you choose to use both forums. I don't think there is anything that compels only reviewing in one place.Quote:
Originally Posted by OkieThunder
And I have to comment on goings-on towards the start of the thread. I find it disturbing that some individuals would feel that a community member should just ship off because they also enjoyed another community which those saying to leave no longer enjoyed. Such attitudes were part of the problem from some members on eccie, and I thought that was one of the primary objections of those who came to dislike the eccie community.
This community will only succeed if we keep away from those pitfalls that befell eccie. In short, can't we please all get along :)
Lmao.. enjoy Eccie...
Losdac if people bitch about this site and speak of it in a derogatory manner they should excuse themselves and leave..
yall all enjoy your new Eccie, lol...
btw all the old reviews have been disabled but you can still see how many reviews you have and who they’re by.. just cant read them....
and you you better make sure you read all of the new rules over there..
rules rules and more rules, people are going to get banned left and right....
done, done, done,,
just like escorts.com did several years ago..
As I think my comment indicated, it wasn't a broad, "all-for-one, one-for-all" "community" on eccie. Instead it was like fucking high school all over again, with a few bullies left to run roughshod over the many; certain flagrant violators, both provider and john, seemingly not bound by any rules, allowed by their mod buddies to attack others from a "protected corner," and if one who was not of the "chosen" tried to fight back, THEY got hammered, pointed, banned. That's not a fair "fight." The blatant, overt favoritism was rampant. There was *nothing* fair or "community" about eccie for *several years.* There was no "going along and getting along" there. You were either in, or you were out. And the justification or circumstance for being so was totally capricious and arbitrary. They *wanted* the controversy and the fighting. It was the damn "reality TV" dynamic. I don't need that shit. I have enough reality in my life. I'm looking for a few good fantasies in the time I have left on this blue marble.Quote:
Originally Posted by losdac
HERE we can get along; we do get along. We demonstrate that by doing so every day. There *is* a core of a community here, and it builds by baby steps every day. At the slightest hint that someone is a shit-stirrer, they are dealt with. There is no need for copious amounts of popcorn HERE. And I, for one, like it that way. But that's just me.
Respectfully,
Great Response Slowhanz...
you basically summed it up....
I just logged in on E, Oklahoma does not currently have it's own space, on the revised format, so I am glad that we have created one on here.
And I do agree that some aspects, of Eccie as we experienced it, were over the top and out of control, especially when the mods let so called "managers" misrepresent some providers as "independent"
Let's use this site respectfully, only calling out the obvious distrusters', and then it will work to our mutual benefit. After all, It's Just Lunch at the "Y" :)
Eccie was a big help when I first started playing. It allowed me to meet some great ladies.....Very appreciative. OH2 has continued that, with less drama and bickering.
I still have premium access @ eccie....... I'll probably drop in ocassionally until it runs out. I have never been a frequent poster, but I do feel more comfortable on this site. I am here to stay.
I was on Eccie off and on since about 2009 (had a couple different handles over the years) I did meet some nice ladies there. The first being Feisty Kat. But, it had changed over the years. I never was much of a poster, always worried about making someone mad and having to hear about it for months. This site looks like it will be a good one.
To start with, I have the utmost respect for CK. I've known him since ASPD days. Use these sites for what they were created for: ads and shopping. They are not social media. When they become such they will have the same problems as social media. This thread just proves it. I doubt many on here are only on or only visit this site. So why run down or talk negatively about any other site.
You're not paying attention, or comprehending, or you're in denial.
The only perk I see is that I can have 10,000 messages instead of 5,000...
The downside to the new posting Ads, Or what your doing this week is they will be charging providers to post...
oh how will the managed girls survive, lmfao...
even the Alerts section will be limited as to what you can say.. Not being a bitch but it looks like everything is very limited to a basic social media site trying to make as much money as they can before having to shut their doors..
I could be wrong but research is your friend and business knows business..
it will be great to be able to give real info here that will keep the good people of the hobby safe and informed....
and with that I humbly bow down to the MAN here and say thank you, thank u, thank u..
the the people in Oklahoma have no problem donating to a worthy cause many have inquired about doing so, although that is not needed at this time, if the time does come I know is loyal ass Fawkers will come together to do so...
greatful to to have a great place with good coffee and beers for all..
cheers friends, drink up, relax and enjoy yourself...
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Originally Posted by Sugark
they like the drama and bickering it’s what keeps people coming back to troll..
hints the reason some of the bigggest bashers have never been banned ;)
put people in a different atmosphere and they will act accordingly and you see the real side, not just the show that they are expected to put on to keep ratings up...
Danielle, where's the friggin' "Like" button?Quote:
Originally Posted by danielle silver
That’s what I keep saying... lol...
I can’t find it in the dark..
haha
I’m with ya Danielle... I didn’t post because I didn’t want the wrath coming down ... not worth itQuote:
Originally Posted by danielle silver
People gonna post where they like. Doesn't make them traitors. And there is no need to run over people who express their like for other sites/girls/kinks. That is the kinda shit that was done on eccie.
People will drift to the environment they are most comfortable with, or that best caters to their tastes. Some will choose one or the other, while others will drift between. Competition will make each site better and more responsive to their respective customer bases.
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Originally Posted by CautiousExplr
Well said........... And right on the money
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Originally Posted by CautiousExplr
Very well said.. couldn’t agree more!!!
It’s not about expressing their likes for another site, it’s the derogatory remarks made about this site..Quote:
Originally Posted by GypsyHeart
No one has stated anyone is a TRAITOR.
Hell, I posted in the political just to stir the pot..
everyone here has moderated themselves quite nicely....
it is what it is and when everyone realizes all the changes they SHALL be disappointed..
no one has said don’t post on There only post here or don’t post here only post there..
Facts are just Facts
Let's just not pretend that eccie was all marshmallows and unicorns. It wasn't. Glossing over the climate and the routine conduct of that place, pretending that it didn't happen, is insulting. Let's not have selective memories. Polite social discourse is *not* a contact sport; but they tried to make it so there, and will do so again, I'll bet.
And let's be careful of the use of the word "customer." A "customer" is an entity with the willingness and ability to pay. Without the pay element they are simple users. Paying customers have a right to request and expect certain things from a service provider. Users do not. Users take the environment as presented. As an example, consider Facebook. The people with individual accounts do not pay, and are not customers. They are users. They have no say in how Facebook is configured, how it conducts its business, what services it offers. Exposure to the users' eyeballs is the product. The customers, the entities paying the freight at Facebook, are the companies buying ad space and sponsoring pages.
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Originally Posted by Slowhanz57
I'll betcha I can find your "Like" button!! Even in the dark....Quote:
Originally Posted by danielle silver
Lol.. I bet you can ;)
Ed, you'd better have a pretty long selfie stick if you're gonna reach her button all the way from Connecticut. Don't let your mouth write a check that your body can't cash. ;-)