COVID-19: Has it affected the way you Hobby?

I’m on my Coffee (Coke Zero) break at work, so I apologize beforehand for any misspellings or grammatical errors. It’s an overnight shift and by 3am...I can get a bit delirious. l:fatigue:

So, I’ve recently been wondering about Covid and the impact it’s had on the providers and gentleman that currently participate in the hobby. How it’s affected the way they Hobby and if there any precautions that are taken by them to lessen the risk of exposure. Are you (ladies and gentlemen) legitimately concerned about the potential risk of getting infected or do you have a more lackadaisical view on the whole subject matter?

*Lurkers...please feel free to chime in. For every one well known poster, there’s about 50-100 of you guys! Or quite possibly more. I’m curious if it’s affected the way you gentleman hobby as well.

I personally go a bit overboard with the precautions that I take. I recently ended a session after the first 30 minutes, gave a full refund and politely asked that we re-schedule once he got his negative results back if he decided to go get testing done. I haven’t heard back from him, and that’s ok. ‘Sometimes it be that way....

I should note, that as an essential worker I get tested for Covid 1-2x a week. And as a Phase 1 employee, I’m also scheduled for my first dose of the vaccine this upcoming week. So, I do take Covid-19 serious. But I do believe that your risk of exposure is limited as long as you follow certain safety guidelines and take safety precautions.

As for me and the Hobby, I’m very low volume. I take temperature checks before sessions. I then assess my patient..err, I mean client for any noticeable side affects such as coughing, dry mouth, breathing irregularities, early onset respiratory issues, loss of taste, loss of smell, nasal congestion, fatigue etc.) during the first 30min-1hr while we’re hanging out and having drinks, snacking on pastries/chocolate or my favorite (whipped cream;) and engaging in conversation. It’s ok..these are my 2hr sessions and they run long! lol But yes, I do go a bit overboard. But I try not to make it obvious!! Well, except when they walk in and the first thing I do is bring out my Nokia digital thermometer and check their temperature. Umm..yes I do!! lol

As far as hobbying goes, not really. I stay out of the lower level amps now. But whether it be amps or companions,, I meet up and do the visual inspection, lol. Are they presentable? Is the room clean? Does it smell bad? A “no” answer to either of those leads me to believe that you’re not a very clean person and so I leave. I’ve been doing that pre-covid, though.

For a guy at least... I'm sure not even a zombie apocalypse virus could stop our wanting to hobby. In all seriousness for a guy, some may have been furloughed and have no more income. Some older folks may be in the vulnerable range and don't want to risk it. And for a younger guy like myself, I've just found options limited through no fault of my own. AMP's have been unchanged mostly so I've been frequenting more.

https://home.ourhome2.net/showthread...light=COVID-19

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glad to hear Leslie takes temps digitally, not sure how many of us would like it taken the old fashioned way. :)

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Originally Posted by monkalicious

For a guy at least... I'm sure not even a zombie apocalypse virus could stop our wanting to hobby. In all seriousness for a guy, some may have been furloughed and have no more income. Some older folks may be in the vulnerable range and don't want to risk it. And for a younger guy like myself, I've just found options limited through no fault of my own. AMP's have been unchanged mostly so I've been frequenting more.

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As in a rectal thermometer?

LoL - I bet some guys would prefer it.

In my NYE session with Leslie Lane, she took my temperature and there was no GFE kissing as in lips or tongue but I was OK with that. Loads of fun.

SF

that would be a heck of an introduction, "hello, drop your pants and get on all fours." Then you have 5 minutes of chit chat while you wait....

I've seen several providers that have posted their Covid test results and to me that is a good indication that they are professional and take all health issues seriously. Very big plus for those providers.

I definitely appreciate any provider that does temperature checks and adheres to basic precautions.

I mean...if you bring your Covid test...we can surely SMOOCH. lol But, it was my first session in many, many years and I was nervous as heck! But I do work with the most vulnerable patients in the Healthcare Field and I have to be extra careful. Working in Hospice is no joke. Hence, why I needed a little break and return to the Hobby for a bit. That and...

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_yAr4YqrQ6Y

Leslie, given your background, what have you read/heard about Covid contagion after 14 days? I read that you can still test positive up to 3 months but not be contagious. The lack of symptoms are the key factors in determining contagion, it seems.

That video made me laugh my ass off!

I’m more of a new lurker, but I wouldn’t consider any kind of precaution extreme these days. It would actually probably put me at ease.

I actually got my vaccine luckily, but you still can’t be too careful.

Hi Leslie.

I hobby mmmMaybe twice a year.

My shallow pockets and discretionary tastes limit my hobby interaction.

Covid has placed an even larger barrier to my hobbying in the past year.

I am extremely concientious about shopping and hygiene.

I am tier 2 and will get the vaccine as soon as possible, but my SO will not be getting hers until April.
Sooooo, looks like May will be my earliest dip back into the hobbying pool.

Sometimes it's hell being horny and socially responsible.

Me and covid don't mix!.... I have my own precautions, a must for me...
Has it put a damp on my hobby?... hmmm! Just staying aware and safe, safer! ( when in the hobby, cover up all activities, including a piece of seran wrap when kissing...haha!)

..in addition, anyone getting a covid test and comes out negative, that person is susceptible to getting covid on their next trip to?... wherever, once you get covid that person may or may not enhance their antibodies for next time. A covid vaccine is not a guarantee to immunity ( just our peace of mind), just like getting a flu shot, but hopefully its not as severe.
Covid precautions are similar to the flu/ cold or in many instances any virus...keep your distance, stay away from people that are ill or show signs of infection.
Covid is 99.6% survival rate (its just harsh when you get it)... if you are old, like me and have compromised immune system (hands up) chances are you still survive covid, children and youngsters have a higher rate to survive, like many of you! (then me, because I am old, well a little old!)... so we may live in a bubble or just enjoy life and take precautions, like me! ..a quote "we have nothing to fear, but fear itself!"

I haven’t been to an AMP since March. I’m dying over here. Thank god I got the full table shower experience on that visit.

Well, I've gone from two or three times a month to two or three times a year... Hold off as long as I can, and only see gals that I'm pretty sure are safe, but sometimes the small head is very persuasive...

Covid has prevented me from hobbying since Feb 27th of last year. Once it started I wasn't willing to risk myself or my loved ones on the chance I might get Covid and spread it.

Has it changed my hobbling? Yes. If I hear someone cough, sound congested or look ill...I'm outta there.

My job, the security takes our Temps and asks questions at the gate before we go in. So with me, a sick person I'm not running up in her. Sorry to my ladies who feel ill.

But if anyone's sick, just stay home for awhile.

And I’m.....OUT.

Covid has now affected me personally. My PRN position is now Full Time per the conditions of the new contract I signed a month ago. Evidently, two of my co-workers have been diagnosed with Covid. Unfortunately, they thought it would be a good idea to go to a New Years Eve party. Big mistake. Luckily, everyone else is negative including myself. We’re getting our vaccines today. People...PlEASE BE CAREFUL!!

To the gents I had to cancel our pre-booked sessions...I sincerely apologize. I’m just speechless.

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And I’m.....OUT.

Covid has now affected me personally. My PRN position is now Full Time per the conditions of the new contract I signed a month ago. Evidently, two of my co-workers have been diagnosed with Covid. Unfortunately, they thought it would be a good idea to go to a New Years Eve party. Big mistake. Luckily, everyone else is negative including myself. We’re getting our vaccines today. People...PlEASE BE CAREFUL!!

To the gents I had to cancel our pre-booked sessions...I sincerely apologize. I’m just speechless.

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Sitting out until the vaccine kicks in or out out? I guess the latter since even with the vaccine you can still be a carrier of the virus.

I just posted in the National Coed Forum that since I'm an older gentleman with two pre-existing conditions, I pretty much sidelined myself when the pandemic started. Well....almost....

I also posted that I'm getting my first vaccination tomorrow, and after I get my second, I will post dates and type of vaccination in my P411 profile.

I will also be giving strong preference to ladies who have received the full dose of two vaccinations and get tested regularly.

Not ready to go gently into that good night....yet!

I sidelined myself because my spouse has type 2 diabetes and I did it to protect her, now, I had an underlying condition corrected in Dec, so I too am in the most vulnerable category. 1st dose of Moderna is in me. 2nd in 28 days!

Leslie,

Question for you - if, in the screening process a potential client says that he has had both vaccinations and is willing to bring the "card" and show it to you, would you (hypothetically) be willing to do the same?

The reason why I ask is that due to my pre-existing conditions and my domestic situation (someone in my household with a terminal condition), I cannot risk getting COVID-19 and will probably only see providers who are OK with reassuring me that they have been vaccinated -

Just sayin' -

My SO works from home so it is really hard for me to get away. I am getting tested once a week now, at work. If I could get away, I would definitely do it. And i would feel comfortable with you because you are cautious. I like that.

Basically everything.

1) People can't move from one country to another, even from one state to another from the same country. Which implies businessmen and tourists have disappeared.
2) The development of "virtual (online) work", I have had to learn to use bitcoins, online payment methods, software, development of adult content (which I independently produce in an amateur way), learn to use technology and platforms for the sale of my content and paid video call sessions.

On the one hand, my work as I knew it has been affected, but on the other hand I have had to start studying how to implement technology, marketing and advertising to develop another new way of working. The growth and adaptation to change has been impressive.

Kaly

No matter how cautious we are it’s really a chance whether it’s in our down time, picking up curbside, at the local pharmacy, gas station and just anywhere now days. There’s no 100% safety and guarantee that we can not catch it.

I personally before and after change pillow cases, wipe all handles, counters, door, restroom and shower faucets, and try to be as tidy as possible. I’ve done this before and will continue to do so after.

I do have a severe auto immune disease so I’m at high risk as well but I try to stick with previous friends and keep them close.
I hate to say I will never see anyone new but it won’t be anything worth me risking vs me seeing a regular. They have their preference and so do I but still as I stated any interaction is unsafe.

I also work in the medical field so I’m tested often... Well dear either way I hope u are safe and well ❤️

Xo
Lex

Secret Encounters, I been to her place several occasions, and she does what she says on here. I love her place, clean, organized, clean towels, soap, mouthwash, soft music and... (stop there sounds like I preference her place! I do!) as soon as walk in , wash hands and sanitizer in front for you.

I apologize for not returning any pms or voicemails...but I’ve been working crazy hours recently and just been incredibly busy. However, I just wanted to come by and say something that has been weighing pretty heavily on me.

Gentlemen..PLEASE take precautions. If you have a partner (wife/girlfriend/CHILDREN) be selfless and take their health into consideration. Do not subject them to needless risks because of your own personal desires. As a husband/father...you have an obligation to keep them safe.

I have two co-workers out due to Covid, one is now hospitalized. Out of my xx patients...so far one has died since my last post (was Covid positive during second round of testing) and one is now confirmed as Covid positive and experiencing severe respiratory issues. Stay safe.

Leslie, I do take precautions and always will! But and if... (sounds like football now) we can all take precautions "but we have nothing to fear , but fear itself!"... I am out to the gym, the store, at hospital to visit friends and family and I have seen some people take it to the extent by the actions they take....that it makes no sense! Yes, take precautions, but we also have to live!... the flue kills over 100,000 a year, car accidents, suicides, killing, violance , fires what did I forget? Stay home?... its better to die heaving lived, then die not having lived!... I don't what to get into another subject, but, the truth..." I don't know anyone with covid let alone anyone that has died of covid! ( my brother just died of cancer, mom died of heart attack, a friend committed suicide, a kid down the street got hit by a car!) I am more afraid of the hobby germs then I am of covid!...but, I agree totally with you, take precautions, yes like crossing the street by looking both ways, but let's not live in a bubble!

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Originally Posted by Leslie Lane

I apologize for not returning any pms or voicemails...but I’ve been working crazy hours recently and just been incredibly busy. However, I just wanted to come by and say something that has been weighing pretty heavily on me. Gentlemen..PLEASE take precautions. If you have a partner (wife/girlfriend/CHILDREN) be selfless and take their health into consideration. Do not subject them to needless risks because of your own personal desires. As a husband/father...you have an obligation to keep them safe. I have two co-workers out due to Covid, one is now hospitalized. Out of my xx patients...so far one has died since my last post (was Covid positive during second round of testing) and one is now confirmed as Covid positive and experiencing severe respiratory issues. Stay safe.

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100% agree with you. I took a chance late last year, little head/big head. Got lucky. This time...I am waiting to get the vaccine and the SO gets the vaccine, Two weeks after - I want to talk to you. I believe we have similar outlooks and it would be my pleasure to take your mind off of everyday life for a short time.My best, Dogg

I haven't hobbied since early last year and I miss it. I'm not only keeping myself safe, but also my SO and my 12-year-old son. Looking forward to the time when I can get back into the groove. I have been hoping to do some virtual hobbying but it's tough when the SO and son are in the house most of the time!

Before now, Covid hasn’t affected me or any of my patients. For months we were on lockdown and we all lived in a Safe bubble. Until that bubble burst when our lockdown was lifted, our patients were permitted visitors and some staff became lax in their own personal lives.

As of my last post, three of my patients have now died and four more are now positive for Covid. Out of those four...my guess is that three of them will be passing within the next week.

So, if you have a compromised immune system...stay clear of the hobby. If you have a loved one with a compromised immune system, stay clear of the hobby. Children? Stay the FUCK clear of the hobby.

Wear a mask. Wash your hands. Stock up on Vitamin C and Vitamin D. And stay safe. Life’s a risk. Don’t make it any riskier than it has to be.


*Not answering any messages, voicemails, texts, pm’s, etc. Not offering any sessions or an active participant in the hobby until further notice. And, I’m out. 💯

Hmmm! Leslie, I feel like a chicken with my feathers all messed up and ruffled, I was all dressed with my Sunday's best holding a pink carnation.... you and I were flying to the moon! Leslie you pulled me by my nose ring and you texted me on many occasions of the day when we were to meet... I now have a broken
Heart that can't be mend.... I followed you and waited for the moment you promised me of that romantic night you and I were going into an ecstasy love moment in time, but a far away China virus dissolved all my dream with you! .... over and out...case closed!

T......I apologize. I ended up canceling quite a few pre-booked sessions. I couldn’t in good conscience put anyone at risk knowing full well that I was working with patients that had potentially been infected with the virus. In the end, I made the right decision since that was the case and the tests came back positive. And I’m now in the predicament that I find myself in. Believe me, I make MUCH more as a provider than I do as a medical professional. In much less time, with much less risk. But I do have a social responsibility to keep others safe (hobby members) and to continue to care for patients that I’ve developed connections with over the last year.


Just finished a 14hr shift...my fourth in a row. So, hope this makes sense. This will be my last post. Take care everyone. Xoxo

You don't have to justify yourself. You've made it clear that you care a lot about your patients and us. Thank you for everything you do. I hope you see you return.

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Originally Posted by dynextv

You don't have to justify yourself. You've made it clear that you care a lot about your patients and us. Thank you for everything you do. I hope you see you return.

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I second that emotion.