Is it because you would like to use it later and avoid having to pay for the session? Not meaning be disrespectful, I would like to understand the reasoning behind it. Thanks in advance for your input and honest comments.
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Is it because you would like to use it later and avoid having to pay for the session? Not meaning be disrespectful, I would like to understand the reasoning behind it. Thanks in advance for your input and honest comments.
You are correct. I don't do videos except for when I want and for my use. But yes, see you 1x and fap fap fap to you for free several times, or even for bragging material? Who knows!Quote:
Originally Posted by SexyLatinAlyssa
I mean it is fun as fuck to do videos, but to trust someone else with them is a totally different feeling after it's done. I keep mine for my use and always with permission!
I have a huge collection of pictures of ladies I've visited with, and it's about the memories of great times in the good ole days. Sometimes I view the pictures, not to play with myself, but to grin and think a regular guy like myself visited with this or that lady. Nothing more than memories, but this is one man's opinion.
This is incredibly endearing. I would hope more gents thought of us like this :)Quote:
Originally Posted by DEAR _JOHN
They want to know she is real, from what I'm (told) but I have enough sense not to send a explicit naughty video with my face showing.
As you can see in my very short(teaser) videos that are FREE, it gives the man some idea of what he would be paying for when it comes to a session without giving too much away.
So far it has worked for me & if they want to see more they have to see it in person. Setting the appointment is where the big money comes in.
The same method as stripper's teasing men so they will eventually go to the vip room for the real deal up close & personal. $$$ talks
Maybe they want to fancy themselves as a porn actor. However, a trick with a vid cam does NOT a porn actor make! js
Spanking material for another day...
If you're asking why do hobbyist ask for videos beforehand, my guess would be for verification purposes. I'm not quite sure here as I've never done so.
If you're asking why do hobbyist ask for videos during a date, I would say to keep as a personal memento. I've taken pics/ videos at the behest of a few ladies that I review from time to time and sometimes doing so sways my decision to revisit with them.
Regardless of the reason, I urge all to consider how and where to keep such materials very private and secure from prying eyeballs.
Both for the safety of the persons within the materials, and for the owner of such material ... lest after (death? disability? etc.) disclosure there are adverse consequences.
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Yep, more than half the men that (contact me) rather have some video verification because they have been burned in the past.Quote:
Originally Posted by Midniteluvher
But I don't allow video filming during a session because they could easily have my face view in the tape, HELL NO !! I have a real world job that won't be compromised.
I agree with CK, don't do something that could have adverse consequences.
I meant videos during the date. That's awesome!Quote:
Originally Posted by Midniteluvher
Never asked for it because my mind holds a decent enough spank bank. If I were to get a video though it would be more for the memory and would actually probably make me setup another appointment.
^^ Hmm yes. Now that I think about it. I wish I would've mentioned videos in a few of my most memorable encounters! So hot!
I could go for a video for the archives Alyssa lol.
I would agree with the posts above - this is one reason I think providers having OF sites is a good idea. Guys who want to be sure the videos are not photoshopped can go on OF and watch the videos. Plus, they can get a good idea of the providers personality if she has enough videos.
As to taking a video during a session - that is fairly obvious. They want to remember it. Either for how you look or performed or how they looked or performed - maybe both. If you don’t want the guy to do it on his phone offer to let him use your phone so you can watch it and if it does not show your face you can send it to him. If it does then tell him he fucked up and too bad.. LOL.
For me it’s for the memories. To watch at a later time and remember how fun and sexy it was.
It would also remind me how good of time I had and that I need to see you again.
i don't mind if he asks, i will need notice and using my cell phone is a must and the only optionQuote:
Originally Posted by barronve
Ahhh. right! I am a newbie when it comes to video in sessions, but I experimented with it today! I felt uninhibited, and it made me hornier for some reason! It made the session better and added some spice!Quote:
Originally Posted by barronve
I’d want a video of our session so my gf could watch and learn a few techniques from the Head MasterQuote:
Originally Posted by SexyLatinAlyssa
^^^ thisQuote:
Originally Posted by DEAR _JOHN
I ask for my clients to video me going down on them so I can masturbate to that instead of supporting sites like pornhub which are known for sex/human trafficking.
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Originally Posted by DEAR _JOHN
What Mr Dear John, and Mr CK say. One reason is to remember a good time you had. Security of the pictures or vids must be kept private and with the consent of all parties involved.Quote:
Originally Posted by ck1942
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Originally Posted by AlCar0314
Thanks, sweetie!
I agree with most of these guys. Not for later sexual use, but like a souvenir of a wonderful time with a beautiful woman that is way out of my league. Makes me want to see her more, not less, that's for sure.
^^ Ahh. Yes, I've received that answer to my inbox as well, along with other feedback.
Video n pix makes us feel famous... like pornhub xvideos. Not every day you get to got work knowing u had some fine dessert night before,
I did at 1 time do videos during the date but stopped because with me in them the vid might break the internet. ;-)
This is really nice...:)Quote:
Originally Posted by DEAR _JOHN
Interesting topic.