Ladies, do you guys actually prefer a huge cock over small ones? Or it really doesn’t really matter to y’all like the way the general public views bigger ones as opposed to small ones lol
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Ladies, do you guys actually prefer a huge cock over small ones? Or it really doesn’t really matter to y’all like the way the general public views bigger ones as opposed to small ones lol
I believe they prefer big wallets
Providers don’t care about anything but $$$$$. If hobbyist don’t understand that by now, they never will.
Considering the question was directed to "ladies," I'm going to answer as one. But, hey, you "gentlemen" feel free to respond as well.
To address the previous comments:
Yes, as a provider, I value money. This *is* my business (aka one of the ways I make money) so OF COURSE your "wallet" and the fact that you show up with your part of the agreement is absolutely important.
Do I *only* value money, as a provider? No. I ALSO care about how it feels between me and my partner. I care that he cares if I'm getting off or not. I care if he cares to learn how I like to get off. I care about my pleasure just as much as your get off and just as much as what you have agreed to pay. If you're resentful around the money aspect of a provider dynamic, maybe look into why you're looking for one?
I can only speak for myself here. I value many things in an interaction with a man in this realm. Money is totally one of them. His respect of my boundaries and my PLEASURE are some others. Do you know how a woman's body and mind work? Are you interested and curious in how *mine* works? That's just as important.
How comfortable are you with your body? That matters. If you're not comfortable, are you willing to be vulnerable and say so? Do you have the ability to communicate vulnerably in an intimate setting? Or do you want to learn how to?
Do you know what you like? Do you want to hear what I'm trying to tell you? Are you open to feedback around how you're sucking my pussy? Are you willing to tell me how you like your cock sucked? Are you ok with me not wanting to do something you want on your checklist? What's your behavior like leading up to our private time and do you realize how that has an impact on my arousal?
The size of your cock? It doesn't *not* matter. But it doesn't matter nearly as much as everyone will lead you to believe.
Here's some food for thought...
there's only so much room inside of my pussy. If you're too big, it will be uncomfortable. In some positions, in all positions. Girth is less of a thing. On an anatomical level, women's pussies can accommodate quite a bit of width. Length? If you think about a woman's actual anatomy, you would be able to see that there's only so much room to fit something.
Yes, the right girth and length of cock feels absolutely amazing in my pussy! MY PUSSY. Have you noticed how many different bodies there are out there???? Can you imagine how many different variations of pussies there are out there????
A cock that doesn't quite fill me up as much can feel JUST AS AMAZING if the attention & INTENTION of my partner is genuine and present.
Get educated on basic shit. There's too much on the internet now to not. Basic porn on the basic sites? Fyi that's not real.
I love your mind Julia, and all the naughty rest of you.
You really need to stop posting on this account. You are not going to get very far as a Registered Female when you've already admitted you're a dude.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cmol1234
Julia Eve, great minds think in similar terms, hallo from San Antonio! Love to meet interesting women with broad thinking like you.
Truth is I'm a sucker for a midsize that can caress the G spot from within.
I think it depends on how the guy uses what he's got.
I've had guys that are shorter, and still enjoyed it. Plus I've also enjoyed some larger ones too. But as Julia mentioned, this is also a business.
Wow I see why Julia mentioned what she did about the money aspect. Nice post btw Julia :thumb: There are some posts by men that are pretty acrimonious about the money. Sheesh. Obviously they are concerned about money. It is after all their job. I mean come on man. Would you goto work every day if your employer didn't pay you?
Like she said, yea, it's one way, or for some it's the only/primary way they feed themselves and pay for a place to live and all the other parts of life. It doesn't mean that's all they care about.
Some people are just clueless. Let's say you had a business selling cars, or work as salesman on commission at a car dealer. Let's say you sell X cars per day.
Would you rather have the customers that are enjoyable, like to talk to you, smile, connect with you personally, have similar backgrounds and stories as you talk throughout the afternoon while selling the car, they're pleasant all through the typically painful financing phase in the office, etc...? Or would you rather have a all customers (where you get the exact same commission) but instead they bark orders, talk down to you, yell at your or your boss, cause a huge fuss through the entire financing phase, are completely awful and disrespectful during the test drive, cause a scene in the sales office when anything doesn't go their way, etc???
Which would you rather see on a daily basis? Of course the money is important! You couldn't pay bills without it, but to say all of those customers are equal, or that a certain type of customer isn't *vastly* preferred, is a totally ridiculous and pretty ignorant notion.
I mean yea we can't compare it to all business models, no, as it's very unique with it's extremely intimate nature. However, that quite frankly makes the customer (guy) and his various qualities and personality even more important.
Anyone who truly thinks all every woman cares about is your wallet is an eeg-no-ray-mus. I guarantee you it's not the case with every woman. I guarantee it. And trust me I know what I'm talking about. It is that very reason, the way you think, the way you see them, and yourself quite frankly, that you have to pay as much as you have to pay (#1) and that no car dealer ever goes the extra mile to swing you a killer deal or works to get the extended bumper-bumper warranty thrown in for free (#2).
As to the size thing I'm guessing it varies for every woman and has to do with their own genetics, physical attributes, psychology, past experiences, and so on.
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Originally Posted by Laniistarrgaze
Ummm…yep
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Originally Posted by Julia Eve
Everything in her post is 100% :cheerleader:
I admire and adore someone that enjoys me as a human and a soul to the fullest, I am here to experience life. I wish to do so in the many joyful blissful ways possible and big cock isn't even in the picture 98% of the time.
It's communication and passion that ignite my flame, it's ambition and suspense that keep it going and the other 2% is just the human part yearning to be stretched out.. yikes ha ha guess that's why we yoga :oops:
Any who, cock is lovely, money is great but connection is ecstatic!!
XoXo Italia
Julia and Mathguy - Love love love!:bigkiss:
Your penis size doesn't matter. As long as there is no "dick attitude" attached to it!
Please don't speak on behalf of all providers. If providers were to lump all hobbyists into the same group after seeing only one, for instance, you Passion, then all hobbyists would be rude, cynical and cheap. But I know that only applies to very few!! Have a lovely time trolling!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Passion2015
Bravo!Quote:
Originally Posted by KellyDarlin
I think if you show up with a big one things get flirty and freaky faster, versus a small one I’d would assume you’d have to have a cool personality or great with your mouth lol I’m an easy 8 and I’ve been told I’m average.. some have said I’m just right.. so to each Is own I guess! Stay confident 👌
My guess is that women prefer big cocks over big dicks.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BLwB1tL8RfQQuote:
Originally Posted by Lovinglifeinaustin
Ladies prefer big gift bags, big bottles of wine and big margaritas...