Do you ever get the suspicion that your appt. is being bumped for someone else?

I’ve tried to book with a certain provider a few times over the years and it seems like the same thing happens: the appointment time (same day, as the provider’s ad contemplated with specials) gets pushed back once, then again. This time I decided not to pull the trigger, as it seemed like she’d be pissed off if I said no to her second time change and she had posted a special for the day (which is what I was responding too) and then quoted me her regular rate along with her second time change request. (I went back and checked to verify I was remembering correctly.)

I’m getting to the point where I’m just giving up on meeting new-to-me providers.

Sorry that happened to you....some ladies are just not professional and have horrible tcb. You mention you have tried to book many times and she has done it each and every time so why keep trying if it always ends the same way? So the first time she bumped you and you still ended up not having a session and the second time as well? The first two times are on her.. if you keep trying when your already know how she is then unfortunately the rest is all on you. I might give her a second chance to make things right but if she tried to bumped me a second time I would move on. She obviously didn't respect your time if she did it before and still never made a firm booking. Since you kept trying she obviously felt that it didn't bother you and that you would keep coming back to try again. It's like she is being rewarded for bad behavior because you were still going to book and give her money after she wasted your time. Not all providers act this way.

I'll give a lady a second chance, because I know things happen, and if a lady sounds sincere I want to give her the benefit of the doubt. Beyond a second time though, I would be leery, as BL mentions in her response. Again, it comes down to the individual situation and the appearance of sincerity. I'll definitely give more leeway to a lady I've seen before than to someone I've never seen before, and I'm sure they'd make the same distinction with me if I've never seen them. But honestly there are too many ladies available to chase ones who apparently don't want to be chased. But you determine what you're willing to put up with, no one else. Hope you have better luck in the future.

Guys get bumped all the time for longer appointments, ATF dudes, fit and younger dudes, guys willing to throw down more bank for extras, etc...

Is this coming from the guy who flaked on me? Lol... karma sure is a bitch huh 🤣🤣

LOL, yes.

However, don't forget that a lot of providers don't have their shit together in general, so it might very well be an unplanned screwup or something that was unplanned.

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Originally Posted by GneissGuy

LOL, yes.

However, don't forget that a lot of providers don't have their shit together in general, so it might very well be an unplanned screwup or something that was unplanned.

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Amen to that!! You name it, I have had it all happen to me!

NCNS, Cancel last minute, cancel when I show up.. the list is endless....

What always cracked me up was their shitty ass lame reasons. Look I could care less why you need or needed to cancel. Just stop it with the bull shit lies. Just say, I need to cancel.

My ATF lie was the old line; my mother just flew in from Bora Bora unannounced. Or my best one ever. I called at 4pm to confirm, she said great see you soon. Literally 15 minutes later she called and gave me the lamest excuse ever. Then she the next day, she sends this email saying and I quote; 'I am sorry, I got you confused with a guy I did not like and did not want to see again'.
I had never met the girl.... not sure how you confuse someone with whom you never met......

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Is this coming from the guy who flaked on me? Lol... karma sure is a bitch huh ����

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Just for the record, I sent CaseyKK ONE text inquiring whether she was available that day, got a call that lasted several hours and couldn’t send a SECOND text back when she responded (with seven words) until the next day. That’s it. And I eventually had to block her as she just couldn’t stop ranting, ironically enough, about how much time I wasted of hers (by literally typing seven words into two texts). My mistake was not searching her name on here first, as this behavior is entirely consistent with her hyper-bitchy reputation that she has accumulated. I would urge any hobbyists who is considering seeing her do their homework first - there are SEVERAL complaints from SEVERAL gents.

That's why after the 10 minute mark, I text them and say I'm driving away, then I utilize block. If you're late to work, you eventually get fired, think about it

Please stay on topic and keep this a general discussion without any personal bashing. No need for such in Coed. Thank you for your cooperation, lads and lassies! -- FIH/staff

Happens all the time. I prefer longer, 2-3 hour appts. Economics kicks in and some ladies calculate how much they can be making doing BNG's or half-hours. Happened to me last week. Provider ghosted on me the day we were supposed to meet up for a 3 hour appt., later in the week I see two reviews on her on the same day we scheduled, both for half-hours. Figure she did me a favor, if you're doing as many half-hours and BNGs as you can fit into your schedule, the percentages of catching something nasty keep going up....

Happens all the time for a wide variety of reasons.

Don't give more than two chances as this would enable the shitty girls while giving the sincere ones a chance.

Just make sure they don't advertise highest bidder. Seen that stipulation in the past.

This happens all the time. On both ends I'm guilty of it as well. Name of the game I suppose.

Money and how you approach the lady work. Don't send a pm with "hey". That's bullshit. Have all of your ducks in a row and I'm positive you won't get bumped for the next guy. Come at the lady wrong and your winding up going to the strip club, AMP or spankin' your own monkey

For the record, Ol' JS has never once regretted keeping his money in his pocket. Bet. :pimp:

Peace, Love, and #BHILF

JS

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Money and how you approach the lady work. Don't send a pm with "hey". That's bullshit. Have all of your ducks in a row and I'm positive you won't get bumped for the next guy. Come at the lady wrong and your winding up going to the strip club, AMP or spankin' your own monkey

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THIS. We are humans, not holes to fill. Attention to detail within communication speaks volumes and tells me you value the experience I offer. "Hey" says you couldn't trouble yourself to spend a few minutes reading my website+ad copy and/or introduce yourself properly with an email. Effort gets my attention :wink:

Wild things happen all the time; don't get hung up on the why, simply use the experience as an opportunity to learn. There are so many babes in Austin! Also: if a companion offers specials so she can stack her day, that is her right and her business and only speaks to her hustle, not her value. If you book to take advantage of a discounted rate don't be surprised when other suitors share your strategy. :pileon:

now that all sides have chimed in, the truth is, it does happen and for various reasons.......... sometimes it's because the client had done something detrimental. Other times it's poor business practices on the provider. It is a case by case basis.

Sometimes blatant honesty totally works:

Once, days before a prebooked session, she says:
" Sorry Groovy. I got an offer for an overnight and HAD to take it. I'll make it up to you"
We postponed and our next session she gave me a HR for the price of a hhr.
Everybody was happy.

I DO feel a little miffed when they just cancel with no offer of postponement.

Personally I mean what I say. If I commit to something, then I'll show up. If anything changes, even if I know I'm going to be late by 10 mins I give a heads up. I believe open communication and honesty is the best practice in the hobby and life in general.

I’ve been stood up many times, and it’s annoying when a woman goes radio silent right before our appointment. In my opinion, a true professional would text me to cancel. She owes me no excuse or reason, just some communication.

I know life happens, and I respect the need for a woman to change her plans. If she is ncns I might give her a second chance. I gave one woman a third chance and it worked out well. But most of the time I will just move along.

OP, don’t let a few bad experiences prevent you from meeting new women.

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Originally Posted by KateXKennedy

THIS. We are humans, not holes to fill. Attention to detail within communication speaks volumes and tells me you value the experience I offer. "Hey" says you couldn't trouble yourself to spend a few minutes reading my website+ad copy and/or introduce yourself properly with an email. Effort gets my attention :wink:

Wild things happen all the time; don't get hung up on the why, simply use the experience as an opportunity to learn. There are so many babes in Austin! Also: if a companion offers specials so she can stack her day, that is her right and her business and only speaks to her hustle, not her value. If you book to take advantage of a discounted rate don't be surprised when other suitors share your strategy. :pileon:

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+1000

Ah Ha! The old NCNS maneuver. Soon as y'all figure out this is a woman's game the sooner you can take your lumps and move on. Look how 'ol Doc summed it up...btw This is a hobby to you mongers and a business to the ladies. If TCB is slow and/or sketchy I hit DNS and move on bc a hobby should be fun and not a lot of BS and or trouble to blow a few Franklins. (no pun intended). There is one LC lurking here who is nuts. Seems like some mod would ban such obvious Drama Queens always stirring up drama and BS.
OP Keep looking! Stay in the game! Most ladies are great at TCB.

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Originally Posted by KateXKennedy

THIS. We are humans, not holes to fill. Attention to detail within communication speaks volumes and tells me you value the experience I offer. "Hey" says you couldn't trouble yourself to spend a few minutes reading my website+ad copy and/or introduce yourself properly with an email. Effort gets my attention :wink:

Wild things happen all the time; don't get hung up on the why, simply use the experience as an opportunity to learn. There are so many babes in Austin! Also: if a companion offers specials so she can stack her day, that is her right and her business and only speaks to her hustle, not her value. If you book to take advantage of a discounted rate don't be surprised when other suitors share your strategy. :pileon:

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I say Hi to see if someone will reply...lol