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I know theres more gents on this site than this!! Fellas your input here will definitely help us providers learn your likes/dislikes during a sesh so please chime in! Any info is helpful as I aim to blow minds during every sesh and pretty sure the other ladies do as well!!
Feel free to include turn ons/offs as well as any other info you'd like to share about your personal enjoyment during a sesh!!
Definitely like to know what she likes also, as it takes two to tango.
1. She should smell good, pretty much all over.
2. No Drama
3. No texting or phone
4. State what is off menu before meeting.
5. No bitching about how hard ya have it or any of that, everyone has it hard or hard times, lets not remind each other of negatives.
6. Have fun and smile.
Basic thoughts !
My list of wants is kissing, DFK if she is ok, that will get me off quick or get me boiling hot. I love for the woman to be on top and then maybe doggie but I love to finish in missionary. If time permits the I so, enjoy, suckling the clit. The thing that gets my attention are your eyes. How they look at me and then the smile. I love big boobs but it's the eyes and smile that draws me to you. Not into any fetish.
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#1 to do is a welcome DFK + hold my hand and lead me to your action palace, followed by a friendly ask if I want to freshen up, which gets to
#2, if she ain't friendly during scheduling, am not booking. Some ladies forget that scheduling part can be the first stage of foreplay.
#3. My fetish is tuma, with bbbj, interchangeably. Very few Indys get that right. They either do one and move to the next one but not both back n forth. No fingers though, just tongue. It's a skill u either know or u dont and cant be taught during action time, and yeah, iop when doing it is a no brainer, or it's not worth it.
1. Kissing is nice, daty and bbbj are my favorites. I haven't yet, but look forward to msog. I'm a laid back person
who enjoys the company of the provider I am with
2. Location and price is key. I'm new so I have no issue with verification. I try to rad a couple reviews to be certain there are no
red flags I would have to worry about. I try to get as good a read on body type via provided pictures. I prefer natural, no issue with tats,
I like that you asked these questions actually. It speaks to character.
3. Daty, BBBJ, MSOG, CIM, open to multiple positions and on the rare occasion, a trip to Greece.
Have a great evening
1. Good looking
2 Intelligent
3. friendly
4. Kissing
5. BBBJ
6. CG. Need to have real skills riding with a variety of techniques
7. Value price
Pretty much exactly the same for me as what Loving said.Quote:
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Lots of kissing, hugging, caressing, basically like teenagers that just can't stop touching each other! :biggrin1:
Bbbj (cim is cool but not at all required, bj is not even near my favorite thing honestly). Plenty of daty. Also, dato to a degree, if you are clean, not like munching ass digging for your doodee lmao :giggles: All the usual sex positions, doggy variations, CG, Mish, modified Mish (legs up or knees pushed to chest), FIV/fondling, and all the various positions. Definitely lots of decent kissing and caressing.
The one position I really don't care for much at all is RCG. Two reasons: I can't see you or your face or caress your body AND I don't like the the way the butt looks in that position. I've done anal various times in my life with girls but I really don't care for it. Most girls are too tight, too hard to get in, and I just don't like the "idea" of it. That's just me...in my own head. It does feel good, yes, if a girl can take it, b/c it's very very tight, but I have a hard time getting my mind around the fact of where my dick is right at the moment. Lol. And it's just not a vagina. A vagina is soooo much more than a simple "hole".
But, yep, just like James I have no real "fetishes", just all the normal (?) sexual stuff. Maybe intense, very passionate, possibly nasty, talking dirty, holding you down in certain positions (like some slight dominance - the normal male dominance, not dom/sub stuff), etc... It all depends on the girl but nothing really "odd" or labeled as a "fetish". Not me anyway. :peace:
1.to do's love gfe , day, etc sensual, cuddling, kissing, responsive to oral, nipple play etc.someone who enjoys having orgasms and their vaginal go crazy throbbing.
2.dealbreakers..unnecessary rudeness, pics that dont match up, no heels (women are attractive in heels) flip flops, socks, etc are a turnoff for me, just me I guess..otherwise I'm pretty chill and easy going...I love to have more than one orgasm, so its it's a girl with a one pop agenda..sorry.
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No real fetishes...so doesn't really apply...I just like quality time.
1. I usually look for reviews if there are any. I will admit that I look for things that I want (BBBJ, CIM, DATY). In looking at ads, I definitely am looking at the $$$ amounts, but a highly reviewed provider that has an occasional special or two will influence me. Also location is important, I just can't take the time to drive across Houston most of the time. When I arrive, I admire a provider that makes me feel welcome and seems happy I'm there. Personally, I don't need the DFK or LFK, but a hug is nice. Probably the most important thing to me is that I feel like she is enjoying herself and truly WANTING/DESIRING the activities she is performing. I guess you can fake it, but when you really like doing it, most of us can tell and it makes a huge difference.
2. A requirement for me personally is BBBJ, CIM. I'm ok with NQBS, but prefer NQNS. And like I've read from some others, don't stop until I push your head away. Also, I prefer "no-hands". As an average in size kind of guy, it's not difficult for a skilled oralist to work her magic without the use of hands. Just my preference. I will also say that if you don't like giving head, then save us all some time and don't offer it.
Dealbreakers: CBJ if I see that, I've already moved to the next in line. Ridiculous $$$'s, I just can't afford 300-400/hr. If I win the lottery, maybe that will change. I try to avoid smokers as well, but it's not a total deal breaker, I just don't want to go home smelling like I just smoked a pack. Other dealbreakers are the "are you close?" questioners who seem to be on the clock. Also, too much "teeth"...ouch. I also don't want fingers up my ass or prostate pressure. And if I don't feel "right" about a situation, I will walk away. I have driven for a meeting and I sensed that something wasn't right, so I just drove away.
3. I'm interested in role play (Daddy/daughter, Teacher/student, Handyman/housewife, etc). But never had a real experience. Also, would be interested in FMF 3some...maybe someday before I die.
What will get repeat interest from me? Enthusiastic blowjobs...I can remember 3 or 4 of the best I've ever had....if you are able to make that list....I'll be back. And 1 or 2 of the best weren't so much about the actual BJ, but the way it was done...dressed as schoolgirl/other hot look...in a car while driving down the freeway (I know, dangerous, but I'll never forget it)....looking me in the eyes while I'm cumming in your mouth and making that "Mmmmm" sound...Telling me how much you want it....etc. Also, if I genuinely like you. Sometimes it's a chemistry thing, but if I feel a connection, it's nice.
Also, offering a rate that I can afford, if you offer discounts to repeat clients, that actually does entice me to make an appointment.
1. What are some of your #1 to do's with a provider?
I love 69 and DATY.
2. When checking a new provider out what are your dealbreakers and what makes you say "I'm booking her!"?
No DATY for sure. I also prefer BBBJNQNS
3. This wont apply to everyone but what are some of your fetishes/activities you're into?
I love when my provider is a squirter!!
1. I appreciate GFE, DATY and BBJ from a down to earth, compassionate, freaky, non-rushed lady. I would rather be with a middle aged women with some miles on her that had a great attitude than a younger centerfold type stuck on herself. MSOG and CIM are certainly nice as well.
2. CBJ, no kissing and too high of a price are deal breakers.
3. I would like to see a provider that was into verbal/dirty talk, maybe role play and being submissive.
Mine isn’t so much activities as it is personality. Must be friendly, pleasant, and passionate. I hate the ones that make it seem like a business transaction. I understand it isn’t a real relationship, but at least make it seem like it is enjoyable for you. I have walked out on a couple of girls that were just going through the motions. Promiscuous women turn me in so if I can see you are enjoying yourselves, it makes it so much better. I also understand you can’t always been on point, so if you aren’t feeling it that day, be honest and don’t agree to an appointment.
Btw. Am I the only guy that likes heard about experiences with other guys from the ladies? I love to hear her tell about how many clients she has seen or the naughty things she has done. Turns me on.
No, you are not alone. A lot of men like to hear stories. When I got in the business I was surprised at how many gentlemen actually want to hear about our experiences. At first, I was a little shy about it but after requests kept coming I told my stories with delight. I might have embellished a little too if I could tell the gentleman was getting excited. I love trading stories if I am asked. But I do not volunteer.
Guys - love hearing your viewpoints. Very interesting!!!!!
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1. I love DATY, and 69Quote:
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2. I do not like fake tits or heavy makeup. I actually enjoy when a woman wears no makeup or perfume. If I know she has long labia, a big clit, is a squirter, or has large nipples or areolas that is a huge turn on. Fake tits ruins it for me and i don't think I will ever book a lady with plastic surgery of any kind. Attitude goes a long way as well. I am laid back and prefer a lady that is laid back and fun to be around.
3. I really enjoy a woman that is loose. If she has large toys to use on herself before hand that is a plus and a major turn on to watch. I also like it when I have an appointment right after another guy, and hearing about all the other men. Also trashy slutty dressing women are a huge turn on.