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I still give it first thing after the introduction. My one totally bad experience was with with a gal I refer to as Miss "I don't do that"/ Cash and Dash. Took my cash, told me everything she didn't do, got huffy about a BJ, dressed, hauled ass and, in turn, received the only scathing Review I've ever written.
I like to hope her business and reputation suffered for some time.
I've always paid up front but then I've always seen highly reviewed providers because I don't like surprises. I think some guys get off on the surprise aspect or being the "first" to see the new girl in town for lots of different reasons. PX described a scenario where he got bit by a BP girl and her pimp. I would imagine there is an adrenaline rush that comes with that type of encounter. Same with SW's. There's a danger factor there that enhances the experience. If you're going to go in for that type of experience though you're going to have to expect to get burned as often as not.
Who was? The gal that got PX jacked up? He said she was a BP girl. I remember the shit on the other site but didn't remember that she was a member. I'm getting old!
That was just and example to illustrate my point though which remains the same. Some of us don't like surprises and don't like the danger of taking risky chances. Some need to feel the adrenaline rush or feel like they got away with something. I've never picked up a SW but I have gone into Smoochee's with a FWB. It was something she wanted to do and couldn't get her SO to do take her so she and I went. I was a rush. Not only because we were kind of out in public which was something we hadn't done before, other than just meeting for lunch then getting a room, but there were other people around watching us. We went to lunch afterward and both had shit eating grins because we got away with it.
I'd never take a chance like that with a provider unless I knew her well but some guys like taking those chances with new or unknown girls. WALDT.
One small clarification. The only two things that got jacked in my trainwreck session were my door-which her pimp destroyed-and her pimp-whom i destroyed. This was my second pimp brawl, and brought my hobby career vs. pimp record to a respectable 1-1. lol. the first one i tried a 1-handed defense, and it didn't work out as well.. (Miliyah Session Goes Ufc, on icky..)
As soon as you enter the room. Spread out so I can visually count the bills on the dresser before you even consider getting undressed and if not then I, fully dressed, will ask for it and count it lol. Getting paid after is done.
JS stated in a clear and general manner....Gents/ladies... This protocol is NOT always one way or the other. It's good to 'air out' this item thru discussion and then all can decide for themselves what their policy should be..Quote:
very simple, providers want it up-front, we want to pay after the services, just saying.
My donation stays with me and I do not talk about M_N_Y at all...
...at the end of play, I mention that "I think you dropped this" -- and leave a small stack of paper clearly visible on the dresser.
I ALWAYS compensate the provider - no games of that sort with skittlez.
Ladies, I am sorry that there are guys that play like that... you should certainly share that info with your sisters :wtf:
I even compensate the 'poor service' provider exactly with what has been agreed to. I don't short her - even though she has not (IMHO) provided properly on her end of the bargain.
Then I will go back and write a clear NO review - and comment appropriately on subsequent reviews.
About 5% of my reviews are NO's (they are not given lightly) - and IMHO, the providers richly earned that rating.
RARELY (maybe about 5% of sessions) will I front the donation... I might do that if the provider doesn't (have the ability to) know me from Eccie or OH2 and asks for it.
If she does have that ability - and I have been thru her vetting process - via other providers, reviews, etc. then I think that she should know a bit of what to expect with me (pics, sweet treats) - and also that I will not fail her on compensation...
Ladies... IJS... To me it's a bit 'BP-ish' - a 'turn-off' with negative IOP - to ask for your donation 'up front'...
However, if I were a provider, I think that I would welcome the donation up front - and in certain circumstances, I would demand that YMMV.
That said, if I were seeing a well-known, long-time Eccie/ASPD gent with a good rep... my greater worry (visavis donation timing) would be to ensure that I plz him so much that he 'repeats' and tells his buddies...
I would want him leaving his donation feeling that he got his service - and more - and that he was very pleased at the value.
when a provider counts the donation in front of me, whether at the beginning or end of the session, she automatically goes on my dns..
i did make one exception. this girl had a rough life. after talking to her off the clock about some of the shit she had been through, i decided to give her a 2nd chance, cause it made sense why she counted the donation in front of me. glad i did. she became one of my atfs..
moral of the story: ladies, just...no.