Originally Posted by
Lil Oral Annie
Newbie friendly doesn't mean you forego them requiring personal information from you to feel safe with you. Maybe you don't understand the meaning of the phrase "newbie friendly". Basically it means, they screen you as far as they can, and if they feel okay about it, they are willing to take one for the team and take that risk by seeing you WITHOUT references.
I think you would understand more if you started advertising your services where you're at your most vulnerable (naked with a stranger) and then they get out of hand, steal your money, force themselves on you, rape you, beat you up, or kill you. Then you would understand why we screen. Even newbie friendly providers should screen.
I think a lot of guys think "newbie friendly" means you don't need to be screened. Like "Hey, I love your pics and would love to see you. I'm a nice guy. You'd like me, but I won't be screened. Take a chance on me. I have lots of money and I tip generously." Hell, even Ted Bundy was nice and good looking, and we all know what he did.
Also many guys try to circumvent screening, acting like they're newbies, when they really aren't. They're just former "hobbyists" who had so many alerts and got blacklisted and had to make up a new handle and persona so they could continue their nefarious ways.
Just my opinion, but after a year and a half, you still aren't verified, and I have a hard time believing none of the newbie friendly ladies are willing to see you.
If you're having trouble getting ladies to see you and you really wanna get your foot in the door, jump through the lady's hoops and do what she asks to feel safe. Otherwise, Palmela Handerson will likely be your "go to".
Oh, and be happy the providers are screening. If they take care of their freedom, safety, and security by screening, chances are they'll take care of yours and their other clients too.
Good luck.