Originally Posted by
nachovivre
My girlfriend is a provider. I have never been a client, of hers or anyone else. She is a fantastic, intelligent, independent, and very sexy woman. What she does for work is not the same as what we do in the bedroom (or living room, or kitchen, ...). We have had times where the relationship has been open, and we have sex with other people because it gives us something we want. We have had times where the relationship is closed, and although she is doing the sex for clients it is very much a service job. It may be a job she cares about, that she treats professionally, and finds fulfillment and satisfaction in doing - but those encounters are happening because the clients are spending. It is complicated. We work at it because we are worth it and we want to. Every relationship is different, every person has insecurities, flaws they need to work on, and things about their partners that aren't perfect. For me, her job isn't a flaw or something to overcome - it is something to be proud of. She makes people feel amazing while they are with her and great about themselves after they part. I support her in her profession and I'm her biggest cheerleader in every respect. Just my two cents.