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Did the IP fall in love? If so, how’s that working out?
Nothing wrong with falling in love, you two may enjoy being together more.
NEXT!
I am speaking from personal experience.
In Greek Mythology you have the story of Icarus. Icarus and his father attempted to escape from Crete by means of wings that his father constructed from feathers and wax. Icarus' father warns him first of complacency and then of hubris, asking that he fly neither too low nor too high, so the sea's dampness would not clog his wings nor the sun's heat melt them. Icarus ignored his father's instructions not to fly too close to the sun; when the wax in his wings melted he tumbled out of the sky and fell into the sea where he drowned, sparking the idiom "don't fly too close to the sun".
So on the subject of a relationship with a provider, and getting to close, outside the confines of the Client / Provider relationship; "Careful Icarus....don't fly too close to the sun".
Remember falling in love makes you do crazy things like;
Becoming jealous which leads to stalking, which leads to anger and feelings hurt for the weak hobbyist.
On the other side of crazy is spending way too much money trying to get her to fall in love with you. I believe many hobbyist fall in this category here:)
There is no room for falling in love in this hobby in my opinion.
This is a hobby that you should be able to take it or leave it.
This hobby should allow you to act out a fantasy that you can’t get at home. Where you can just get after it without all the preliminaries of trying to get where you want.
Remember, providers are here to make money and hobbyist are here to pay and play.
IMO
Have a great Thanksgiving :)
It's been mentioned that this is not a dating site, but it's all in how you think about it. As a person who would very much love to have a partner who enjoys intimacy with other men, it's pretty much the perfect environment for me to meet women into the same kinks as myself. I like to see providers specifically because they DO have sex with other guys. When I have a visit with someone from here I certainly don't assume or immediately hope she might be "the one", but who's to say what might happen some day?
don't be cap't save-a-ho.