When you're passionately kissing her as you work your hand down between her legs and your eyes well up in sheer bliss when you discover. She doesn't have a dick
And you let out a silent prayer. Thank you jesus.
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When you're passionately kissing her as you work your hand down between her legs and your eyes well up in sheer bliss when you discover. She doesn't have a dick
And you let out a silent prayer. Thank you jesus.
I absolutely love it when my partner has a real, toe, curling, leg, shaking, super tense orgasm, but I know it’s not faked. I love the fact that I know that I did this. That gives me a huge pleasure.
Don't let it rub you the wrong way. Sometimes talking can be distracting. Sometimes being quiet allows 100% immersion into what is happening, feeling every little stimulus. Letting all your senses come into play. You can't hear slurping if you're talking too much, for instance. You will know if he's enjoying it, pretty obvious in men. I personally get a kick out of a provider Oing unexpectedly from daty without hearing a peep beforehand.Quote:
Originally Posted by celestial_
I must be a relitivly lucky lady cause I NEVER fake it lool I just cum alot in general!!
I have to be super quiet.Quote:
Originally Posted by celestial_
Secretly I'm thinking
"Don't cum, don't cum,don't cum
Oh shit!!
Don't fart, don't FART, DON'T FART!!!
That’s exactly right. It’s the passion and intimacy. And the anticipation is always a great part of it. But, I bet if most guys were honest no matter how macho they act, they’d tell you they are looking for connection and intimacy. Feeling wanted and desired without it seemingly being staged (though we always know it is). Just a great SAFE escape.
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Originally Posted by SexyJess
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Originally Posted by DramOfGlen
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Originally Posted by Crimson37
What if I also said "Oh my GOD, this feels soooooo good!" about 75 times before that?Quote:
Originally Posted by britttany_love
Because based on your reviews, I think that's what would happen.
Okay, back to the original question; I really get turned on when the woman I'm with has an orgasm.
Words or sounds.. as long as there is something!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by BoSox1918
THISSSS!! Most men think theyre only visual creatures, but the amount that are for more into wordssss is insane! Like say the right thing and they instanty cum!
Oh. My. Gawd.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mayamonroe23
No lies detected here.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mayamonroe23
My regular thing can make me pop on command.
She holds her tits and looks at me and does keagles and says, "you dont feel like you are going to last very long tonight, what's wrong, cant handle some hot wet tight pussy..."
I pop in seconds.
If she hadn't said anything Id go a few more mins.
Honestly.
Soft moaning really makes me weak at the knees. I love it!
Dirty talk and pse behavior. If I'm seeing a provider I want above and beyond what I can get by grabbing a date from a dating website. I'm super into dirty talk but most girls feel akward about it so if you can do this, nothing excites or turns me on more.
This is a wonderfully interesting question, Jess! I'm going to answer from my angle and try to address as many factors as I can.Quote:
Originally Posted by SexyJess
In a nutshell all 3 things you asked about are turn-ons and reasons for many guys who come to a hobby site or board. Being able to "pick" is a big deal but it's not just about her body. Its about everything. I am evaluating her every bit as much as she is evaluating me when we text or talk on the phone in the beginning getting to know each other.
A super rude girl that doesn't want to say 2 words or gets mad after 2 or 3 simple (and short) back and forths and wants a deposit "to make sure you are not wasting her time....." (or whatever the case) is an obvious "no go" no matter how hot or cute. Even if she is physically the pinnacle of your desires, and supposedly based on reviews she's the epitome of your most cherished fetishes. Why? Well, the bottom line is she's essentially "kind of a bitch" who thinks far too much of herself to show someone the same courtesy she herself desires.
Many guys will be ok with that and put up with it. They will kowtow. I will not. I don't need to. I wish more guys had this confidence. The thing is, yes, picking a person that is physically your type, also socially your type, that you appear to have chemistry with too, the whole shebang, is absolutely a turn-on. It's also a timesaver and money saver in the long run.
I don't visit Oh2 (or any other site) because I *need* to. Lol, no way. I could date virtually anyone (within reason of course, obviously not celebrities, totally inaccessible social circles, etc... and certain age range restrictions and so on). But yea more or less anyone from a solid average of a "5-6" all the way to the "7, 8, 9, & 10s". I do it b/c it cuts through all the BS when I'm in need of physical AND social intimacy.
Even in traditional dating or using online dating services I can't stand the waiting and red tape. Its such a waste of both of our valuable time. I want to get to know right away if we match not only socially, socioeconomically, and academically or with shared interests but JUST as important and quickly I want to know our chemistry level and our physical attraction and compatibility. I will basically lose interest in a girl even in traditional dating if it gets beyond 1-2 dates without sex OR at least some kissing and making out happening. Hell, lots of times I lose interest even in the texting/phone conversation flirting phase before the first meetup/date if she always steers clear of any sexual flirting or sexual innuendo (innocuous or otherwise). Why? Not because I'm being a pig or misogynistic. Absolutely not. I consider myself extremely gentlemanly and I love & respect women. The reason is b/c if that hasn't/doesn't happen already then I know that this girl can't possibly be right for me. This is also why I like girls in this community. Its why I've dated dancers and some escorts. I like them better because I tend to like what society would typically label "bad girls".
So I think it's all of those things you mentioned. It's the ability to quickly have physical & emotional & social intimacy needs met, with an attractive partner, and potentially someone you seem to have incredible chemistry with right off the bat just from talking or texting.
And if you are not wanting or ready to date you don't have to have that weight on you that she might get attached. Also, yes, the anticipation of how she may perform are of course turn-ons that we may fantasize about.
One big turn on is when the first sentence of this statement above is actually true; meaning that it's quite obvious that she is very pleased or even very turned on or there is a palpable chemistry between you.Quote:
Originally Posted by SexyJess
Obviously this doesn't happen all the time, not even close. No matter how good any of us look, how well we clean up, or perform, or socialize/flirt (man or woman) there are some who will just not like the overall looks, communication style, or the preferred intimate acts & sexual styles.
However, yes, I'd say it's a *massive* turn on when you know (it's so obvious) that they are totally into you and you share this chemistry. That makes for a mind blowing experience! :twothumbs:
A huge part of this is that what makes the experience great is knowing that she is also so pleased and enjoying herself and you. I'd rather spend my time with ANY 4 or 5 that really enjoyed our time together than spend it with an impeccable 10 who is just "going through the motions" and could care less, her mind is somewhere else, she's robotic, nothing is organic, etc.... Fuuuuuuuuuck that. Lol. :giggles: No damn way. And I'm being extremely serious about that part. No effing way.
When you ladies are either authentically into it or are convincing actors. A few weeks ago I was with a gal and thought we were done. We had both gotten out of the bed. She was standing at the end of the bed, looked over and asked me if I still had the condom on. I said yes not knowing why she asked. She then asked if I would bend her over the end of the bed and fuck her. That little interaction can run on a loop in my head some days. That was so incredibly hot to me.
For me when meeting anew provider the excitement of meeting a new person that makes me shake like a leaf in fall. I get all the way to the front door until I walk in and fell safe and welcomed
You mean likeQuote:
Originally Posted by Mayamonroe23
" OH shit, he's home early!!"
Just saw this today...
NSFW content linked below.
https://www.xvideos.com/video.khcufm...es_scissor_bbc
Thought I had seen it all. This looks extremely hot. Love to try it in or out of this community.
Confidence, assertiveness, experience, playfulness, dirty talk, domination.
Also safety, I prefer providers that never offer BB services. I even prefer CBJ really, it makes no difference with a bit of lube, and uncovered shit just stresses me out. Although I can't resist DATY / Face Sitting.
I would love to meet you and have some fun.............
I would say giving up 100% control of my pleasure. I've been told its called "Sensual Control". I don't want any say in how you do it, please in whatever way you deem fit. Tease me close, then slow it down; speed it up, then stop. Force me to finish when you feel like it, even if I beg to stop or slow down.
I get exited when hobbyist reaches out to me with introduction and inclusion of facts and links for verification in one message. This is hot!
I get hot and bothered when a guy confirms his date few times before The Date. It is like a jolt to my soul and makes me think again and again what will he say and do and how it will be :)
Mental games will start way before The Date and continue for a while longer after the encounter - and this is HOT!
Meeting a gentleman who is calm, sure of himself and who is willing to be fun and knotty BCD - that turns me on.
Since I'm getting on in years, I love lots of teasing and foreplay. A passionate kiss and fondling at the door, she leads me to a chair, slowly strips and lapdances for me, slowly undresses me - incredibly hot.
yes ... lady should be attractive. but i tend to book two hours and i want to enjoy the lady. so she should be gentle fun, pleasant, reasonably submissive, ready to treat me the way i want to be treated. big on cuddling and smooching
Big tits, beautiful face, DFK and foreplay
Someone who doesnt clock watch and you can tell enjoys what they do.
I find myself wondering if I fit Dodgers example. I know sometimes the way that we see ourselves isn't always reality, our own perceptions of ourselves can be a little bit like a house of mirrors at circus.
my booking process tends towards communication prior to booking. i tend towards longer visits. i'm old by hobby and every other standard, so i'm not going to set the world record for bed pounding, headboard rattling activities in a QV. My booking tends towards two hours and activities are big on kissing, cuddling, and other oral delights. my messages tend to describe me and what i would like in detail and ask if we would enjoy a session, together. i'm in no rush and while i am looking for sex, so looks and appeal or important, it cannot come first.Quote:
Originally Posted by Fluffykumkitten
i also make it clear that saying "i don't do this or that" doesn't mean I will not book them. women make the rules. guys get to choose. but i can tell when a provider treats the client's wishes as having value and seeks to insure the clients desires and fantasy are priorities. shout outs to morgan baby and sassy sami in that regard. i am rarely disappointed but those two ladies are really remarkable.
i have no physical type. i'm focused on a connection with the provider. but having said that, recent and accurate pictures are important in avoiding the WTF moment when the door opens
before i met you i read the stuff you wrote on your profile page, ads, reviews. you bring a lot to the table (or bed) because you genuinely enjoy sex. you like what your are doing and want your partner to get what they came to get and you are willing to darn near do anything to make the session work. when i have been with you i have never felt anything but acceptance, willingness, support, focus on doing what your doing. those are good things in my book.Quote:
Originally Posted by DeeAunna
I told a provider I really enjoyed eye contact during a blowjob.
She said she could do it, but I needed to suck in my gut. :(
Best I could do, was get a nice sexy view of her forehead
Knotty at work.Quote:
Originally Posted by knottyman
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when she has tells that show genuine attraction like exposing her neck early on.