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Personally, I think it would help gender/generational relationships. When I was 20 if a female looked at my member it was game over. Now, she needs to work a bit, and there are surely geezers here who require more work. A scientific formula which addresses most BBBJs would be handy for the membership (FAR too many nomenclature jokes in this post...sorry?).Quote:
Originally Posted by mathguy
I don't mind a sensual hand on my head but if your goal is to dictate how deep...I will stop. It's my technique... just lay back and relax
I need to amend my earlier statement on this subject.....
There was this one fuckwaffle that went on and on about how dissatisfied he was with his past experiences with providers. No connection, rushed, no conversation or cuddling, etc. So he was really looking forward to meeting me since I advertise to provide all the things they were lacking in.
Fast forward to his session...
He comes in, strips, lays down on the bed and just looks from me to his member.
Doesn't seem to want to kiss or cuddle or talk at all.
(Ok....? Let's get this shit over with then)
Once I'm down there, trying to work him up, he grabs my head and proceeds to Rabbit Fuck my mouth. Pops within a minute. Jumps up before I can, dresses and heads for the door.
ALLLrighty then. So most would be wanting to say that he did not like what he saw when I opened the door and he was just getting it over with himself.
However, this guy was calling back only the next week wanting to see me again! W.T.F. ??
No way in hell will I subject myself to be treated like a goddamn fleshlight AGAIN by this idiot.
And Dude, if you are on here and reading this, you know who you are. Stick with the ones you claimed to be dissatisfied with. They were giving you exactly what you obviously wanted and did nothing for you to complain about.
Ouch! That's terrible!Quote:
Originally Posted by Kammye
I usually grab the hair and hold it out of the way so that I can see the work the girl is doing, I like seeing the BJ action live...now if the BJ sucks in a bad way then I might try to dictate the motion, not necessarily face fucking, and definitely don't like to force girls to do something they don't want to do, but let's be honest some girls are use to do it one way, and one way only, now a lot of dudes might like it, I might not, so if you were my GF or SO I would adjust, or put up with it for as long as I can, but here I'm paying for a service, I'm paying to be pleased, I'm not into face fucking, but if you are not willing to please me doing the motion, rythm I want, then one and not coming back. For example some girls have told me they had guys who like when they suck their balls, it doesn't do anything for me, actually it feels weird to me and not in a good way, so I tell girls to stop that with me, to me that shit looks good in porn, but not for me in real life. So it is good to find a girl that is willing to please the "customer" because that's what I am.
If he doesn't like what I'm comfortable with. I'd rather him not come back. Not all money is good money. Just like you can replace her, she can replace you. Then life goes on. And we keep the clients that like that thing we do!Quote:
Originally Posted by Mauricio_G
I will sometimes lightly put my hands on the ladies head.
Almost always I can sense if she likes or not. It's not hard. Just pay attention
Yes ma'am! To be clear just because I said I try to adjust the motion/rythm/style of the bj I don't mean I'm aggressive, I enjoy sessions when the providers enjoy the session too, otherwise it goes downhill for me, for example:Quote:
Originally Posted by Anna Nikkole
I tried a girl for the famous sloppy toppy aka head bobbin and honestly it didn't do it for me, so once and done. I was trying to get her to slow down instead of the straight face fucking she was doing herself and she wouldn't have it, BBBJ just gets me hard so that I can move on to CFS for the most part, again I don't do that rough stuff, so to me was like a box checked from the bucket list.
THIS!!! I understand we all have preferences and have had bad experiences and so something might appear aggressive, but it is dangerous to assign that sort of intent. Another reason why simple communication is critical. I am rarely MSOG these days and there are providers who start sessions with really "focused" BJs and sometimes I am about to lose it 5-10 minutes into an hour appointment. Now, instead of wondering if they are the type to hurry a session I simply mention I want to go slow, focus on DATY, etc and see how she reacts. Most adjust accordingly, but a few stick with the powerwash approach; they get the donation but never repeat business. There's free online porn if I want to nut during a commercial break, but not all providers have a good head for long-term business relations...Quote:
Originally Posted by Mauricio_G
Well ladies..
Where do I put my hands ?.
I do put my hands on ladies head especially when I'm enjoy a good bbbj.
Anna..I'm cum bk to see you..P.O.C.T..I have to hold your head in the moment
I make you pay for that. But I think you like the punishment :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by Stiffwood7
Is it the hand on the head you don't like or that the ones who do it are trying to make you gag on their magic wand?Quote:
Originally Posted by SexyLatinAlyssa
I don’t mind a guy holding my head, or pulling my hair while sucking his hard cock. BUT, I do draw the line at pushing my head too hard & making me gag. Like, dude- what if the lady barfs? Lol.
Interesting
This is what happens when porn raises a generation of men. They don’t know the difference. Or don’t care. I agree with the earlier post, if you want to hold her hair out of the way or LIGHTLY touch her head she will generally let you know. The moment you assume it’s ok to yell “drill baby drill” and push her head you’ve gone into a disrespectful area.
BTW I don’t know why you’d ever need to bob Alyssa’s head. It bobs pretty damn good on its own. Relax and enjoy the art form!
We need more of you respectful gents on Oh2 :)Quote:
Originally Posted by rockjock
Agreed with hands on the head and being too aggressive. Everyone has their preference.
I personally just let the lady go to work. Especially when the lady is getting more aggressive, sloppy, head bobbing and some hand twisting motion, that’s when it drives me nuts. My hand will GENTLY go on the head as a sign of “don’t stop”. But I’m not aggressively pushing the head down.
I recently had my head bobbed and it didn't bother me. I simply took it as "Switch from the Hoover to the Dyson" and It Worked... :Blowjob::Sleazy Smiley:
Happy Hobbying! :dancingbanana: