Being stiffed on time

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Quiet Smiles @ Feb 25 2009, 01:35 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

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Most GFE providers don&#39;t operate that way. If anything, we tend to go over on time and are rarely compensated for the extra. Typically, GFE providers enjoy kissing and snuggling and wouldn&#39;t think of jumping up and leaving like that. We are also much more about pleasing the gentleman and unless it&#39;s something we just don&#39;t do, like greek or something, we go with what the gentleman wants to do. I can&#39;t imagine ignoring a request like that and forcing the gentleman pop asap.

However, some providers operate under a different set rules. A lot of them say in their ads "up to an hour" - that&#39;s code for "you pop, I leave." I would hope that previous reviews would tip a guy off to which kind of experience he can likely expect - that way he can choose a provider who&#39;s more in tune with his idea of fun. ;)[/b]

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geez, rules, rules, rules, dang some of these providers have so many rules i dont see how they remember all of em. i&#39;m guessing these providers were not members of TER or ASPD. &#39;cause the providers is see posting on these sites really enjoy providing and want to please their client and wouldnt run out just because of a pop anyway. geez louise, i wonder if i hire a male escort is he gonna hop out the door after my first cup of coffee ? e

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (charlestudor2005 @ Feb 26 2009, 07:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}></div>

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I generally do my research, and I did this time. That is why I was able to say Gina had excellent reviews.[/b]

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and she played that crap anyway?

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"Another difference between Women & younger gals.

Younger gals give you that feeling of feeling young.
Mature women make you feel like a desirable man."

You pretty much hit it on the head with that quote WM. The younger girls do make you feel more virile and for the moment like we did 20 -30 years ago, but for the moment, and then it&#39;s over. You go away with that feeling for a little while but then it&#39;s back to reality. How many 45 -55 year old men are really desired by a 20 - 30 year old woman? Older, mature women do give you that feeling of desireablility, that your still desired by someone of the same genre so to speak. I do like to venture to the younger side now and then but you&#39;re right, my preference is a more mature lady, the memory of the experience tends to linger with you longer, ocassionally you run across the younger one with the mature mindset but they seem to be in the minority.




I sometimes think i&#39;m the oldest kitty cat in this business when i look at the ads of my peers. either someone aint truthin or i&#39;m reallllllllllly out of my league. my 2 cents however, is that my many of my clients are 20 and 30 somethings, which really has shocked me frankly. but they definitely steer clear of the youngster providers for the same reason they stear clear of youngster civvies. THEY DONT WANT NO DRAMA OR BS.
Now i know lots of gals wont see anybody under 30. thats their perogative. but dang, its a real boost to the ego of this fat old grandma that some young buck wants to pony up 3 franklins or more to roll around in the sheets with me. (some have done it several times) my only posted review is from a 25 year old. granted they are easy to impress LOL, but i&#39;m downright blushing.

I&#39;m feel so bad that you had that experience not once but twice----that is not a true GFE and i&#39;m pretty sure that me along with others here would be more than happy to give you the experience that you are truely looking to have ... ANYTIME!!!

I agree that you need to assert yourself. If you paid for the 1hr you deserve an hour. If 30 mins into the session she decides it is time to go she should get 1/2. Yes normally the 1/2 hr rate is more than 1/2 the donation for a full hour. But you know what? You didn&#39;t book an half hour session. You booked a full hour. So the provider doesn&#39;t get to charge 250/hr and 200/ half and still leave with 200. Give her 125 and I bet the next time she thinks about walking out of a session 1/2 way she will rethink and stay. That is what is fair to the hobbyists.

I do not measure my sessions by time. I measure them by satisfaction. What is a few extra minutes if it means someone leaves my presence happier and more fullfilled than when they walked in... and I am only 25 and I know that much. With a younger woman you may get to the promise land a little quicker but the view is still a mighty one to behold. LOL :D

Houstonsmartgal...you crack me up! (lol) And, Charles...I&#39;m sorry you had to experience the "lack of experience" with the two providers.

As a provider...that type of behavior is completely unacceptable...and you should have been compensated somehow...imho. Those types of providers make the rest of us look bad...and I think most of the ladies here do not run their business that way.

I always offer some sort of compensation (more time or discount) if I make a mistake or have to cancel an appointment. There have been instances where this is not the case...but those instances are very, very rare...and only if the client is a real jerk...not just because the bell rang early...that&#39;s ridiculous.

All you can do is learn from your mistakes. I think most of the ladies, once you are screened, are fine with discussing your particular situation beforehand, and willing to work with you. Good-luck!