Originally Posted by
Latin_Doll
First and foremost you need to think why you are being asked for all of that info.
Personally, I only ask for that stuff IF it’s a NEW client with NO references.
There’s different reasons why a client doesn’t have references:
1. the client is a true “newbie”
2. the client doesn’t have recent references
3. no one will vouch for him because he’s a bad client
Us providers need to protect ourselves and if you have a problem with that I’m glad to send you to the “Newbie friendly” list. Just know that any reputable provider will still ask for personal info.
My advice to clients that feel they shouldn’t be asked for personal info. If a provider asks for little or no info BEWARE because she will see ANYONE and could be setting you up. No one is going to willingly risk their safety to appease your privacy. UNLESS they have bad intentions or are desperate to book (which can’t be good either).
In my experience the best clients I’ve had DON’T hesitate to give you whatever information you need. They happen to be very influential men in the community and visit me often.
Its the ones that are so weary about handing me their info that turn out to be an issue in the future.
PS: If you choose reputable providers your information is SAFE. We don’t give a crap about your real world information. We don’t care who you are. We just want to know you are a gentleman that will keep us safe. No one will have your info unless you fuck up and do something bad to a provider and police need to be involved.
The way I see it is, you trust me with your info, I trust you with my body and because I value myself I won’t take the risk of not screening. Says a lot about providers that don’t screen don’t you think?