Lol. Me too!
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I usually lightly massage her back or hold her hair back for her
Just to psychoanalyze for a minute. Guys love us to push their face into our vagina from the back of their heads. Studies show people do what they want done to them. So they may not mean to do anything wrong or aggressive or demeaning as they want to feel our hands pushing the back of their heads.
I don't know about some or most providers but I find that.
#1 a really good "I'm about to really cum" pussy eating doesn't need me to push his head because I would make him dig in, cause pain and it would be over quite honestly.
#2 if he isn't doing a good job at all I may push his head hoping he changes something. Then the face digging hard may cause pain.
#3 some guys want and desire to make us excited so me knowing that, and they think pushing the head means I'm over the moon, I do it. I'm here to fulfill your fantasy.
Now I have had times that it was slow go and felt amazing and I lightly ran my fingers through the back of his head as in, yesssss that's so good don't change a thing.
I guess I may also be helping MG out. :bouncing:
Great point Anna. We are all different and it is not helpful to assume bad intentions. I have had providers tell me they prefer DATY slow and soft and others who like a full-blown oral assault. Just tell me and I am happy to oblige...I want YOU to enjoy receiving as much as I do giving.
During a bbj if I look up & he's just looking down I actually encourage the guy to pull my hair !
& I love the head jerking around it's hot to be used like a toy!;
I think personally communication is the key. This is supposed to be a pleasant experience for both parties. Certain people have kinks and that's understandable, but I personally never want a woman to be uncomfortable at all. Just because I'm providing a donation doesn't give me the liberty or desire to abuse her boundaries.
I don't mind the touching or even setting the pace. FORCIBLY HOLDING me down WILL result in my sharp teeth being inserted deeply and painfully into you. ⚠️ Keep in mind where your mini-me is and how vulnerable its friends are when you try, some of us are not afraid of you... ️⚠️
Everyone is different & what turns off some might turn others on.For example , I've never provided GFE bbj.
Was I the only one thinking of the 'Love Contract' from Chappelle's Show while reading this?
While I believe I have a higher than normal sex drive, I am not a sex addict per say. I'm not into taboo to much. I love some good passionate GFE. And while most say these things on the board I believe few are actually into a lot they do for money. But I believe you. And that's great. But 99% of us are not into it weather we allow it or not. As I say, the client should ask for ff, ask if his hand on back of the head is ok. Hell those times I'm like YEP. Respect can be had even in the hobby.
Now these guys who know you and love this, you are giving them the green light where many if us aren't.
Lot's of us GFE less taboo providers aren't boring. We just need to meet our matches. I actually have a great following of regulars whom I enjoy very much. And they come back again and again.
But you are a rare breed. And I applaud you. Keep doing you. I'll keep being honest and saddened by the fact that we have to remind men that we are real human beings!
Learn her and what she likes and allows gentlemen. And as for me, being a gentleman gets you more!