Ha ha. I have done the non-bi threesomes bit and it isn't my thing. I am not so narcissistic to expect 2 ladies to be at my beck and call.
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So if I work and take care of the home/children/etc., I can do whatever I want?
You're saying that male actors (non-porn) put their penis in their co-stars vaginas? I highly, highly doubt this.
Didn't I say that like a week ago?
You're absolutely right that loving someone isn't about fucking someone, full stop. "accepting their faults and failures and building a life together is what a relationship is about" - ABSOLUTELY!!! If hobbying ever got into the way of a relationship, I wouldn't do it. You're using me as an example of someone who "only cares about sex" for wanting on open relationship which is fucking hilarious. This is like saying someone who wants a partner with a job "only cares about money" or someone who wants a partner who doesn't beat them "only cares about themself" or someone who wants a partner who wants kids or any MILLION of other things people care about because everyone is different.
If you care more about where your guys penis is than how he treats you, loves you, takes care of you, serves you, etc., etc., then aren't YOU the one equating love and sex? And how would you expect someone to ignore your job?
I am literally tired of man after man piling up in here about how the job an escort does defines her, I am seriously more and more fucking convinced you just can't get past sex and fucking. It is ALL you are about and the only thing that matters to you. And every man here resorts to the final argument, "BUT YOUR JOB!"
But it's YOUR HOBBY, lol.....
Hypocrisy.
Yes I am aware of what my job is, and since you keep reminding me of what my job is, you should just pay me.
^ Just reminding my lady friends here I don't think the way the other posters do (or the majority you were talking about anyway). I really don't. I don't think it defines you in the least or in the tiniest way.
There are some providers that it might mean there are certain stereotypes or underlying issues, mainly when talking about streetwalking and certain forbidden topic areas or being forced into it or trafficked. Other than that though? And particularly girls like my good friends here? Nope. Not at all.
The choice to do sex for pay isn't any different than being a capitalist who realizes you have a valuable commodity that YOU (yourself, of your volition and choice - not men, not society) choose to exploit for your own gain.
In those cases, not trafficking cases & other deplorable situations, more power to you :twothumbs: :hug:
I am a streetwalker on Saturday. Near the Taco stand .
This thread is bananas.
I hear ya. I've heard that from many women. I've heard it from personal provider friends as well as lovers in this "hobby" and throughout the various community forums. I have some theories (two overarching ones) as to why those judgments exist but I won't get into those details here & now.
I can certainly appreciate that it's frustrating as hell at times. :/ A paradigm shift is needed. My sympathies :hug:
i like tacos! (not really)
in the early days of her concerts, bette middler used to make remarks to the audience .... "if god didn't want you to eat pussy, he wouldn't have shaped it like a taco!" and
"so i'm having sex this guy and he says, 'bette, you tits are flat and kinda boney'. i tell him, 'get off my back!' " ... or to that effect
even allowing for mathguy's comments, the hobby has a lot of different folks, men and ladies. they can be very different from each other in large and small ways. so everything said may be true about some ... and less true about others. it is not homogeneous. viva la difference! viva la hobby!
^ Also very true. Indeed :thumb:
You keep saying hypocrisy because "you wouldn't let your woman do that" or whatever bullshit, when I have already clearly stated my partner can fuck whoever, whenever she wants as long as: 1) we still have an active sex life and 2) I get to fuck whoever I want.
So I'm really confused how I'm a hypocrite. I have already clearly stated (and yes a week ago, I quoted the post) that sex can mean nothing. I would have no issues if my partner was / is / wants to be a provider.
So if sex in the hobby means nothing to your relationship, how does me having sex mean something when in my relationship? If you use sex to get paid (more power to you!) why is it a problem if I use sex to enjoy myself / relax?
I just think there is no point to try to date a hobbyist who has a hobbyist mindset. We are paid and as a obligation we serve our clients.
Once you indulge him, he pays you, you will forever be thought of in that way.
Ben said 1 thing I completely agree with. First impressions last forever. If someone sees Anna Nikkole, they will always see her. And I am not her. It's a nice thought, get the escort to fall in love with you, get free sex and an open sex life. That's a general rundown.
Not for me. Even if the person is so great as our Mathguy, just say I get home from "work" and my supportive husband is waiting and being great to me. Treats me like a queen and adores me. I'll always know that he was in a session with me, not only does he know what I do, he was on the receiving end of it.
I wish I could be more open minded sexually but I'm possessive over mine. So y'all carry on with your swinging and gang bangs and orgies.
I know that I need to retire completely. I'll never be with someone I was bcd with.