Originally Posted by
Ben Rhimene
Hi Anna. Sounds like you are describing something along the lines of a working vacation? If so, go choose a place high on your "To Go" list. Research the hobby level there...plenty of boards where once you sign up you can see posts. Of check Tryst/Eros to see amount of posts to see if there is activity. Then you can find a place to stay based on locals (this means a board profile) or things like TripAdvisor. I would avoid what traveling hobbyists suggest as they are expensing the room and don't care about cost. Book your trip and do the things you want to do, but hold times open for fun and post well in advance (I am shocked by posts here from ladies who just show up...we need time to schedule and research too!).
I love to travel, and if not involved with anybody a quick encounter is fun. But I definitely avoid the "surprise I'm in town for 2 days" posts!
Best thing that happens is you defray vacation costs. Worst thing is you pay for a vacation you wanted anyway.
Good luck!