Originally Posted by
Quitididcb
I think...this topic gets beaten down quite a bit but the reality is that in the act of sex, this happens more times than anyone can count. My answers - it deters me coz once in the zone and the mood is set, if attacked with such a possibility, the courage in men always fails and small brain takes over. So I avoid it prior to the event if a lady is known for it. Does it turn me on to think I could have gotten it? Yes, but the turn on disappears once I think about the extra $300 for testing I am bound to do two weejs after that. Do I care that she provides it? Yes, coz my decision to see her changes way ahead of time and we may never meet while upper brain is still in control. Am I interested and just too scared to ask a provider? One of the joys of hobbying is getting a sex goddess that I can ask anything of and not fear repercussions that extend to my real life so am not scared to ask anything - definitely scared of the consequences of a yes answer which might be too tempting to my lower brain. Why peopke talk about it so negatively is beyond me coz I dont however, I do know folks do not want to normalize risky behaviour coz some of us got real life shit that can go up in flames if those risks materialize. If there was a tool (like temperature measure) that could test and give accurate results that fast, it would never be an issue.