Pick the right ones, choose wisely.
My best advice dude. Pick a lady or ladies to share screening info with that you do not think are crazy. Maybe two. After that references only. But what you give up is based on your privacy and discretion.
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See someone who can verify you through employment......
Hell no. Way too intrusive. I sometimes see ladies that have screening forms on their websites and stuff and that a supreme epic fail. Never let your livelihood become compromised by seeking temporary means of satisfaction. Money will always prevail eventually with someone. Then you can just ignore the ones who initially gave you issues when you tried to see them without the use of real life work info. They didn’t jump on the grenade To see you so don’t reward them with an Medal of Honor and money with return service after the fact.
That’s instant blackmail material and opportunity when the money runs low. And I guarantee her she would not divulge the same reciprocally. Ask her where she works and see how utterly offended she gets.
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or another way besides provider refs.
You mean such as gut feelings, personal judgement, and experience to weed out the unsavories. Hopefully that doesn’t involve sharing a face or dick picture. Or the feel test in person to make sure you aren’t a cop. Cause that’s also not discreet and private. But also is a false sense of security. The dick picture is cool cause it doesn’t necessarily have to be mine. She’s not gonna match my sent dick pic to mine side by side when I arrive. And if she needed to she’s doing too much.
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Personally, references in general are not the best choice IMO, because I can't count the number of times the guy said "Well, if you contact so and so for a reference, she might get mad at me seeing you. "
How pathetic...
Make sure the people you are seeing are up to par on communication and references.
This can definitely happen I agree. If you pick the wrong ladies to use as references. The type thats easy to reach when you wanna see them, but suddenly hard to reach when you need to verify a reference to see a new lady through them. That’s selfish, stingy, and an unconfident provider that is twatswatting (male version of cockblocking). They might even offer you a better deal just to see them and cancel on who your trying to see. It gets savage.
But also some ladies generally don’t want to be contacted or bothered by other providers. So they won’t call a lady or contact her if they see you have ok’s from her usually on p411. And those ladies that do insist on a call over a private message or a email sometimes can get annoying for ladies too. Especially if they ask questions that are weird and not needed she could ask the client himself. (Is he fat, is his dick big, what does he look like, what kind of car does he drive, etc)
Some ladies generally need to call and talk to your references. Cause some ladies need other ladies advice to kindly “guide the member into their vagina for them”.........figuratively speaking Of course. And not all ladies have the time.