Relationship?

So, Why are we on here? Are we here to enjoy variety, or to do things that our significant others would never think of doing? Perhaps we are between relationships. Perhaps we just do not want to deal with drama that relationships can cause. Perhaps it is cheaper to rent.

Do women think the same thing here? Is it freedom to be your own boss? Work when you want to work?

Sometimes I think that I wish I could establish a real relationship with a provider. My thoughts are that they are very experienced, and that they would do all the things that I would perhaps want to do. I know it is not a possibility due to the providers wanting to be in this business, and like the income and freedom, but the thought has crossed my mind.

I am not a millionaire, but have a nice steady income with a good retirement set up. I presume there are pros and cons with this subject. Just wanting to see what others think about.

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Originally Posted by MAC9161

Sometimes I think that I wish I could establish a real relationship with a provider. My thoughts are that they are very experienced, and that they would do all the things that I would perhaps want to do.

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Providers-escorts for the most part are not hypersexual nymphomaniacs. They do what you want to do because they are being compensated.
I dated a masseuse, never once got a massage from her.
I dated a bartender, she never once made me a premium cocktail at home.
Don't think that you're going to be getting a bj & greek everytime your dick twitches just because you're dating a provider.
When it comes to real world dating they have the same wants & needs as any other woman.

Being on here has no right or wrong answer. As we are all INDIVIDUALS. Whether you have a great sexually relationship with your significant other or not. Some men like a variety
Some are in open relationships
Some may want more of just one favorite, and pretend it’s a real thing, just to keep the drama away. Yet, we would not be human if we didn’t have any drama. I call that, boring. I personally, don’t do boring.
What ever the reason is for being here... just be true to yourself.

At some point or another.... either a client or a provider has had some feelings for the other.

Honestly, my spouse is really bad in bed and never open to suggestions, so I need to get my needs fulfilled another way.

Be careful OP and not get too attached. Providers are here for the income, although it is obvious many do it for the sex as well. Most hobbiest spend a lot of time "pleasing" the ladies during sessions and I'm sure that is a turn-on for many providers. Having said that, if you are wanting a relationship with a provider that you develop a connection to, discuss an arrangement with her. I have an arrangement with a low volume UTR Companion who has a busy career...though she sees other clients, I satisfy most of her sexual and income needs. We try to keep emotions and jealousy out of the equation.
You can also go on other sites where girls are looking for a SD, that might be a better option for you.

Lady + Tramp. Well said! I share your sentiments, as well.

OP. Have you considered a sugar baby? Then you can get a mix of the relationship AND sexual fulfillment if you find one that you click well with.

You can talk to the provider that you like and have a connection and ask her what you would like and if they can reach an agreement being a sugar Daddy and a sugar baby and reach an agreement that suits both of them to enjoy each other and not have drama as if it were A relationship, everything is in communication, I have had a connection with some men and the fortune of being able to travel with them to other cities for days or weeks, go out with them to different places and we reached an agreement regarding the Donation, hopefully and find someone you like kisses and a nice night

I have dated 2 providers since venturing into the hobby, one lasted 2 years and the other lasted about 5 years. JuggHead is right , they do want the same things any woman wants in a relationship and you will have the normal ups and downs. I say if you both have a connection and you can handle her being a provider then go for it. Just don't try to be a savior and ask her to stop what she is doing to support herself, these ladies love their independence and being able to take care of themselves , its not for every guy to be able to handle that situation. Although both relationships ended I still talk to both of them and they are great friends, even though they both now live out of state.