Just wondering how many guys out there wouldn't mind your girlfriend being an escort?
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Just wondering how many guys out there wouldn't mind your girlfriend being an escort?
If you were my GF I wouldn't mind at all.
Such an arrangement doesn’t work for a variety of reasons. I don’t know the statistics but I would say a very, very high percentage fail.
I don't know that the label "girlfriend" in the conventional wisdom sense perfectly applies, but I've had some fantastic OTC hang-out times with providers I have hit it off with. I have an SO, which limits my parameters. That said, the arrangements that evolved with said providers was not as formal as a traditional girlfriend, per se. But, they were based on chemistry, attraction, and some measure of common interest. They also involved getting together on a consistent basis over a period of time, though I wouldn't quite call what we did "dating". They were also similar to RW relationships in that they followed an emotional arc beginning with an initial infatuation period, some settling in, eventual fussing over this that or the other, growing apart, and an eventual end.
Personally, I had great times in each of these dalliances. As a matter of fact, I got a lil something special going on right now that is currently in its early infatuation phase. Honestly, I enjoy consorting with escorts more than I do civvies for a variety of reasons. The sex is better. They are not as pretentious. I don't have to hide my hobbying from them. They are not uptight about me having an SO and understand how that limits my parameters. They know how to party. For me, having an escort fuck buddy offers most of the best things that a RW relationship does without all the stifling protocol.
Shit man, I still miss hanging out with every one of the hobby fuck buddies I have taken up with over the years. Don't get me wrong, there were some harrowing moments in all of these situations and they all ended for entirely legitimate reasons. But, my recollections are by and large good ones. Ol' JS thanks each and every one of the ladies I have been fortunate enough to share this adventure with.
Peace, Love, and #BHILF
JS
I wouldn’t mind as long as she was ok with me continuing to see providers until she retired.
I have dated ladies from all avenues from the hobby, ( strippers / agency / indies etc ) Personally i have found that for me at least they were some of the most honest relationships i have had. We all walked in knowing everything about each other ...... i will state that the strippers were more booty call type relationships and the indies were more gfe relationships.
only one became what i could call a normal relationship ie we both retired,, it worked for a while but we grew apart and moved on ..
Not opposed to it at all. An escort is a woman and I'm attracted to women. I care about intelligence, compatibility, kindness, etc, as well as their bodies. The escorting is just one facet of their lives. Their profession. I would proudly go out with an escort. Plus, it would be fun to say "my girlfriend brings joy into the life of everyone she touches" with a knowing smirk.
However, if I were to have an escort as a girlfriend, there are rules that I have.
First, if she gets variety, I get variety. If she's able to have sex with other people, professional setting or not, then I get the ability to get some on the side, as well, without having to be guilt tripped. I have no desire to rub her face in this, though. Hell, if we connect enough, I may not even desire to do it. But I will have this open to me.
Second, I want to fuck her. I understand if you have a rough day at the office and you're not really in the mood. I'm more than willing to cut you some slack there from time to time. But you can't not fuck me. If I love you, I want to fuck you.
Last, I want at least one day a week where she doesn't work and that's exclusively for us. No work or work talk from either of us.
I think all of this is fair.
I've hung out or dated several hobbyist in the past. As long as we keep it real and fun it worked.great. We can be ourselves, talk and play......friend ...sugar daddy.....client....
Getting interesting already.
Y'all are taking her (job) as a means to negotiate/demand time with other escorts within an emotional relationship. You get to pick & choose the escort but she doesn't get to pick and choose her job assignments when it comes to work. Some of you act like her job is an automatic passage to have an (open) relationship when she wants an exclusive man that loves her without mixing the lines of true love/infidelity.
A male gynecologist examines pussies all day so his fiancee decides to play with cocks as a way to level the working situation. He wouldn't be pleased with that insult.
I have no problem with it at all. I dated a woman who was a provider and it was one of the best relationships I ever had , we dated for a few years .It ended because she moved back home to the West Coast and I didn't want to relocate, we still talk and she is an awesome friend. Like it was mentioned earlier it was great because we knew everything about each other so didn't have to hide shit.
You are looking for a traditional boyfriend situation who is cool with you being an escort. I ain't mad at you, Girl. I reckon that's out there, too.
For the record, Ol' JS's adventures have been light and flexible on the boundaries side in both directions. I ain't tried to make demands or change no one. Also, I understood from jump that these ladies needed to work and I made it a point not to get in the way of they money. Me and these ladies was kicking it solely based on the mutual enjoyment of each other's company. Shit got twisted on me when it was them got out of this lane. That, in a nutshell, is how my dalliances have played out.
Peace, Love, and #BHILF
JS
interesting question, Jasmine Starr
Following lol