Originally Posted by
risn2theoccasion2
I think both GFE and PSE categories revolve around 1 thing. The ladies comfort level with you. Reviews are a particular gentleman’s experience and are not a guarantee of an actual occurrence for all clients. The Reviewer may have seen this lady countless times before. She may have a higher level of comfort and trust with him that may not be there with you, or me. Hence the phrase YMMV.
Providers are human beings. Your presentation goes a long way. How you communicate and respond, both in initial introductions and just general board persona casts a major impression. I know I have never contacted, or have stopped seeing people because they appear or have proven themselves to be assholes. I won’t try to destroy someone, I will just not comment or won’t recommend them if asked about my experience.
The chemistry might not be there for high level intimacy or Porn level shenanigans. You can’t force something. Also, it simply takes time to get there sometimes. But the worst thing you can do is force it. That never turns out good. Also, don’t assume that you are paying for XYZ. You might not even get ABC. Remember, we are not entitled to anything. Consent still applies to all encounters. Just my thoughts and opinions.